I didn't feel it was appropriate to post this in with babytots' news, but I had a scan on Tuesday. I got to see bub and I got a pic because DH hasn't been with me to any appointments. HR 154. They found a small SCH too but I haven't had any bleeding, and the doc is sure it will get re-absorbed, so nothing to worry about. I also got my referral to the MFM (high risk clinic) but I don't have an appointment yet, they have to review my file and determine which doctor I will see.
DH hasn't been as interested in this pregnancy as the last 2 but I understand why. We were so excited when I was pregnant with #2 after 3 years of trying, with failed IUIs and IVFs it really hurt us both when we lost him at 17 weeks. I think DH isn't going to start to feel attached to this pregnancy until we are at least past 20 weeks. Maybe when he can start to feel movement...
That being said, we have told 4 people whom we/I would need to lean on if something were to go wrong. We probably won't tell anyone else until after 20 weeks.
What happened to us was rare and probably won't happen again but I don't ever want to have to call everyone and have to share that kind of bad news again.