March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

Ok, getting this part out of the way first.. thank you for asking about me!! :) Then I have to go back and reply to people, I can't believe how much has happened on here today!!! Here is the pic of our baby blob lol. We did see the heart beating too!! The big mean grumpy sonogram chick said can't get heartbeat rate yet and can't tell exactly how far, they just go by lmp. Um whatEVERRRRRR. Didn't like her. They had a tv screen up on the wall to watch the sonogram so I told DB to take a pic with his phone. She said no, you can't do that. I'll print you a picture. Why the fart CAN'T we take a pic with a phone?! Yeesh.. anyway here's this much and now I will be writing a big long book in my next post!!!

Beautiful picture! Oh and that is bs....I taped my last US with my phone lol
 
Ok, getting this part out of the way first.. thank you for asking about me!! :) Then I have to go back and reply to people, I can't believe how much has happened on here today!!! Here is the pic of our baby blob lol. We did see the heart beating too!! The big mean grumpy sonogram chick said can't get heartbeat rate yet and can't tell exactly how far, they just go by lmp. Um whatEVERRRRRR. Didn't like her. They had a tv screen up on the wall to watch the sonogram so I told DB to take a pic with his phone. She said no, you can't do that. I'll print you a picture. Why the fart CAN'T we take a pic with a phone?! Yeesh.. anyway here's this much and now I will be writing a big long book in my next post!!!

You were the one I was going to post about and went blank!! Yippy, I'm so happy for you friend!! You have a baby blob, that's so cute!! You're ultrasound tech sounds like she's full of it, because they can too measure to see how far along you are. Maybe she just couldn't get a good angle, but who cares, YOU HAVE A BABY BLOB! :flower:
 
Hi ladies just a quick jump in.

Janelleybean: I'm glad your little bean is just fine!! In early pregnancy alot of women have cramps, including me. You're doing good just hang in there. And no ma'am I don't think I felt my babe move yet or rather I wouldn't know what it feels like, so hopefully I'll feel it soon.

BaybeeEm: My fav lady is back AND PREGO!!! I am so over the moon!!! It was just you me, Bama and Stork when I started this thread, going for our BFP's, and it's nothing I wanted more then for us to get it, not knowing when we were going to get it but we kept believing we were and never giving up!!! I'm
So happy for you ma'am I could cry and Thank u for still hanging in here with us, so we could be apart of your big News :hugs:

Stork: WE're waiting on you girlie. It may take time but don't you worry it's coming, it's coming. I MISS YOU DEARLY!!

Armymama: I'm going to already claim it for you and say bump those HPt that was suppose to be in the mail, you're prego!!!

Sweetz: I pm you. I'm so glad you heard your little babe HB, that's a blessing in itself. Hang in there. Luv ya!

Hi to MizzPodd, MnJ, Kanicky, Krissy, Aspe

HisGrace: Did you get those 2nd results in ? I'm glad all your other results came bk good.

Bama: I see you're popping in and out too. Im glad you're ok. How's those Symptns?

Lisalee: I need to compare Symptns!!!

Shefali: Glad your operations went well. Sorry to hear about the possible chemical.

AFM: Well nothing really to report, Hope everyone is doing good!! And I'm always rooting for everyone!!!
 
Since the other "still TTC" girls hardly on here other than Krissy and Kanicky, I feel like I'm the only one left who isn't pregnant by now! :(

Storked, come back! I miss you and I feel so alone!


I'm here!!!! Even if I have to WTT for a couple of months :growlmad::growlmad::wacko::cry::cry:.


Baby... :happydance::happydance::happydance: so pleased for you honey,:dust: coming your way.


MizzPodd:hugs:lady, one day at a time and all that. How are you feeling? I've just read on and you are leaving, I'm sorry to hear that. Busy threads can be hard to feel heard sometimes but I do think it is nothing intentional. I wish you the best if you do decide to move on xo


Sweetz... :hugs:, i think the rest of the ladies have said it all.


Aspe... I work in sport. Any exercise can help boost fertility and basically have your body in good shape for TTC and pregnancy. Do whatever you enjoy and vary activities so you wont get bored. But do keep it in moderation as too much can indeed mess with your cycles. If you want any advice I'd be happy to help.


Krissy... At least you have got things off your chest:hugs:. Has he said anything yet? If he is a typical man it may take him a couple of days to come up with a decent reply. Hugs to you, I think this is the first step at your crossroads, whatever journey you take you can be content that you are trying to be the adult and talk about it :flower:


HisGrace... how are you feeling? Any more test results yet? Good luck.


Kanicky... bah humbug! I was so sure you had great signs for a BFP. :hugs:


MnJ... lovely scan congratulations honey:happydance::flower:


Never... I hope you are keeping well :friends:
 
Never- I was right around where you are, when I felt my son move. I remember laying on my side and putting my hand on my side belly and pressing a little bit and I could feel a kick. I WAS SO EXCITED! It sort of feels like bubbles popping in your belly... kinda like gas, but I remember when my husband came home from work I laid on my side and had him feel, he said he could barely feel it, but he could still feel it. It's so exciting when it happens. I remember when ever I drank a big glass of ice water, my son would literally move all over the place. It was sort of fun showing Dan's friends and looking at it in the mirror, but this was further a long in my pregnancy. You're going to have so much fun when you get farther a long. I'm so excited for you and all the ladies who are getting so close to feeling the movement.
 
If it wasn't for you ladies I don't know what I would do. I will be forever grateful for each and every one of you.

Never...you are my bnb mom. You always know what to say at exactly the right time.

Storked...damnit I miss you....:cry:

Jane....holy crap girl...you had the ability to make me laugh on a shitastic day...mad skillz lol :thumbup:

Army...selfish girl...lol yeah maybe in an alternate dimension! You're a sweety!

Krissy...you just flat out rock!

To those not mentioned its nothing personal...just a bit over emotional ATM.

I know each one of you wants to punch him and that makes me smile. :winkwink: I will stay calm...as best I can. I have dealt with a lot of BS from him, but this is unforgivable.
 
Voicemail? You have got to be kidding. My call went straight to voicemail. I left a message. I hope they call me back today and I don't have to wait until Monday. :(
 
Baybee - CONGRATS!!! I'm so glad you came out of hiding.. it was driving me crazy!! lol Your #'s look really good. I got my first beta at 12dpo and it was 65 just to have something to compare to.

Sweetz - OOOO MMMM GGGGG!!! I am SO sorry. He has not sounded like he's very good to you on your posts and now, though I don't know him at all, I'd like to spit in his face!! As for the how you know and the C-section repercussion, I'm totally ignorant. Clueless as to why. Regardless I know it must be bad and I'm so sorry.

Army - good luck!!! Glad you finally got some tests (such a sweetie you are, Hisgrace!)!! Also, I have NEVER had the thought that you were selfish or only focus on you. ALL of us focus on ourselves at some point! We're here to be ABLE to discuss ourselves cuz the other forum chicks understand and can give thoughts, opinions and advice. Just like you give back to others!

Never - I was wondering also if you can feel movement yet? Also, are you going to find out what you're having? Could possibly tell at next ultrasound right?

MissPodd - I feel really bad that you feel unwelcome or not included. I always enjoyed your posts and your personality. Like others have said a lot of times I don't know what to say or how to respond so I don't. You were mia for a few days and I even posted wondering where you were. I was thinking of you!! This is a very tight knit group. I know firsthand! I had joined when I first started ttc then I didn't get on for a while and when I got my bfp I got on and posted a pic. Boy oh boy did I get my hand slapped!! It hurt but I understood why and realized it was insensitive of me. These girls have been here, gone through losses, ttc issues and supported each other all throughout. Mama Bear Nevergivingup protected her cubs and let me know how feelings could be hurt by my throwing a bfp in their faces after being gone. I didn't mean it that way AT ALL but then understood where she was coming from. I was going to leave this forum also but sweetie pie Janelleybean convinced me to stay and others have since made me feel welcome. You come to feel like we're a big group of besties. Well I do anyway, my DB thinks I'm nuts. It's possible but oh well.. nutty old lady, that's me, take me as I am!! Anyway, I understand where you're coming from but I just wanted to let you know I don't want you to leave and I do care & wonder how you're doing when you don't post.

Aspe - not having normal cycles is a BIG s/e of PCOS. Have you been checked for that at all? Have they done an ultrasound of your ovaries at all?

Krissy - that sucks that you poured your heart out and got NOTHING back. I think if it had happened to me I don't know if I woulda been able to stop myself from punching him in the head just so I could at least get an OUCH!! from him. lol Hopefully he does some thinking and opens up to you.. soon!

Hisgrace - thanks for thinking of me and asking about me!! My appt went well (thank goodness!!) I was a nervous wreck and my blood pressure showed it!!

Angel - HUGS!! He is NOT too old!! Don't give up!

AFM - I don't think the doctor really planned on giving me an ultrasound but I VERY subtly hinted that I should get one! I was SO scared they weren't going to find it and it was ectopic or there wouldn't be a heartbeat so I am SO relieved everything is ok at this point! I guess since they're going by my last period for my due date (which they actually didn't even give me) I should change my ticker to be due May 6 as that's what it is by lmp. Since I'm an old fart (38) I'm considered high risk so I have to go to a perinatologist also. They will start testing for downs and other issues at 11 weeks. I have an appt there on 10/23. Also, at 13 weeks they will do an amnio to test for downs. I can get the sex of the baby from that also! Nervous about an amnio but also scared about down syndrome possibility. I also go back to ob on 10/19. Lots of testing but that means more ultrasounds which I'm happy about!
 
Hisgrace-Those are lovely numbers!!!! YAY!!!

Mnj-i am so happy you got some relief todsay! Also thank you for understanding earlier on and explaing to mizzpodd about it....:hugs: you are great!

Janelle- Thank you for pointing out that Mizzpodd telling her story...there is a very good chance it was when i was going through those terrible two weeks of moving i didnt get to really get on much...so thank you!

Mizz- Like i said before i wasnt trying to be rude and janelle pointed out she remembers your story i was more than likely going through my move bc usually i am good about remembering...sorry!

Sweetz- i think you are pretty awesome to...

AFM-Josh just pullled in so i will talk to you ladies more later!
 
Nevergivingup - yes! I had to share with you and Bamagurl as soon as I knew. The two of you were always in touch and super supportive so how the heck could I not!

Bamagurl - come out and play! I know school plus pregnancy is dealing with you.

Storked - I am looking forward to your return ... in the mean time I think I will stalk the other threads you may be posting in

MnJ - I think this may be the first time we're connecting on here. Thank you for your kind word! Also thanks for giving me a number to compare against. I was concerned after my first beta given that my first pregnancy my beta was lik 350 or something. Then again ... I don't remember what day DPO I was and it wasn't a healthy one and it failed to double. I hope to compare baby blobs with you in the future!

HisGrace - those are some sexy betas you have there. When were they taken? How far along were you?

Janelleybean - I must say, I love your sweet demeanor. Its refreshing! I would gladly order you that veggie pizza you're noming over. LOL

AngelSerentity - Thank you! I praying for a little shining to come your way too. I'm sorry you have to wait a couple months before getting back to the baby making business. After my loss, I had to wait 3 months and I swear I thought it was going to die during the wait. It seemed to last forever. Testing? I likely missed the story surrounding your testing.

Kanicky - Thank you! How are you? Cheeseheads UNIIIIITE! Lol

Krissy - I hate when men are insensitive or emotionally inept. What do you mean he said nothing?! There is nothing more painful then pouring your heart out in hopes of a resolution only receive silence in return. I love that you love and love hard but I can't help but feel that you're not getting all that you deserve. Mind you I am not ignorant to the fact that men are a mess at times, mine included but you're really, really trying to make things work. I was thinking ... I could arrange to have the goon I am going to find to "change Sweetz DH life" to swing by and scare your DH a little bit? Sound good?

Everyone else I missed this go around, thanks for making this thread what it is, dynamic.

AFM - Well I am doing well and my betas are behaving so I am thankful and optimistic. I will be going for an early scan at 5 weeks to be sure that the little person is locate where he/she is suppose to be. I will certainly keep everyone posted.

I thought it might nice to share what I didn't differenly this time around.
1. No stress which mean less time on the thread (I don't want to see a mass exodus!) because I was obssessing.
2. Grapefruit juice ... its not all hype. I had sooooooo much fertile CM that my husband (TMI alert) had to stop our sessions just to wipe away the excess. Was too slippery
3. Loads of whole milk as it facilitates ovulation. My ovulation this month was so obvious to me this cycle ... I swear I could tell you when my ovary punted that egg through the goal post!
4. OPKs Clear Blue Smily Digital starting on CD 6. I'd read some where that testing mid day is best. I was skeptical but its true. In the morning, I had a negative that afternoon I go the smily.
5. Allowing the magic serum marinate. Some nights I literally fell asleep with my bottom propped in the air and didn't wake until the morning when it was time to go work. 8 solid of hours of sperm meets egg conferences.

I hope this information is useful to someone else. I am totally open to question.
 
I missed the intro bio.

Me: 29 DH: 31
Hubby and I have been together 6 years this week (and I am just realizing that I forgot until this moment!) but married 15 months.
TTC #1 since March.
I work for the feds and my hubby works in allied health.
We are implants in Atlanta by way of Washington DC by way of the Midwest.
No pets but my husband is all for an American Bull Dog. This will have to wait until after we've fenced the back yard.
My favorite past times ... eating foods from different nationalities, online window shopping (yes you can online window shop!), visiting with friends and family and career scheming.

Um ... If I forgot to mention something in my bio, please let me know.
 
Awe, BaybeeEm, you're too sweet. But my husband bought me a vegetarian pizza from papa murphy's last night and I was eating the left overs. It was delicious!! I wanted to ask you, how are your symptoms?
 
Thanks for sharing baybee! Um yeah it really does suck to be open and be with some one who shutsdown....but he has always been this way for the last 7 yrs so i cant expect him to change now can?

speaking of which he has announced he is taking our 6yr old to the game tomorrow and not me.....not to happy at the moment...i know it sounds stupid but i wanted to cry when he told me i just wanna spend time with the dumb ass but...whatever i am over it...i will not keep feeling like crap maybe i will just go do something by myself tomorrow...but ya'll know i would rather be doing with my husband....

then when we were by ourselves i asked him once again what does he want as far as TTc he just shrugged...i told him if you need time to think let me know so i dont feel like iam naggin you and he goes yeah give me about 6 yrs...i think i got my answer i will not bring it up again and i about 99% sure now that we will not try again and in the end i am not longer persuing him as far as sex or anything anymore...i am on no contact protest i swear...at this point i dont even wanna sleep in the same bed as him let alone kiss him goodnight or say i love you....this may all sound harsh and like i have feel off the deep end....well i have i think i have offically gone crazy...

so if ya'll dont mind....even if we are not going to try again...i would like to stick with you because i want to see you all to your happy endings even though i have this bad feeling in my gut that the ending to my story maybe one i do not want.....bc really how long can a guy go on not wanting to be phycial with his wife before he wants a divorce or cheats? i am not stupid unless i can get him to open up soon things are not looking good for us.... :cry: just really sad right now dont mean to be a big bummer....

thanks ladies for listening i need it.....:cry:
 
Dropping in briefly to say that I do have Internet (only took them three damn hours to get it going in the house. WHY?!) but my netgear isn't hooked up to allow me to access my wireless yet. My husband is sleeping and I will pass out just as soon as I finish my book BUT...should be back in action tomorrow!

Love and :dust: to all my ladies!
 

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