March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[armymama2012]

Nevergivingup - yes! I had to share with you and Bamagurl as soon as I knew. The two of you were always in touch and super supportive so how the heck could I not!

Bamagurl - come out and play! I know school plus pregnancy is dealing with you.

Storked - I am looking forward to your return ... in the mean time I think I will stalk the other threads you may be posting in

MnJ - I think this may be the first time we're connecting on here. Thank you for your kind word! Also thanks for giving me a number to compare against. I was concerned after my first beta given that my first pregnancy my beta was lik 350 or something. Then again ... I don't remember what day DPO I was and it wasn't a healthy one and it failed to double. I hope to compare baby blobs with you in the future!

HisGrace - those are some sexy betas you have there. When were they taken? How far along were you?

Janelleybean - I must say, I love your sweet demeanor. Its refreshing! I would gladly order you that veggie pizza you're noming over. LOL

AngelSerentity - Thank you! I praying for a little shining to come your way too. I'm sorry you have to wait a couple months before getting back to the baby making business. After my loss, I had to wait 3 months and I swear I thought it was going to die during the wait. It seemed to last forever. Testing? I likely missed the story surrounding your testing.

Kanicky - Thank you! How are you? Cheeseheads UNIIIIITE! Lol

Krissy - I hate when men are insensitive or emotionally inept. What do you mean he said nothing?! There is nothing more painful then pouring your heart out in hopes of a resolution only receive silence in return. I love that you love and love hard but I can't help but feel that you're not getting all that you deserve. Mind you I am not ignorant to the fact that men are a mess at times, mine included but you're really, really trying to make things work. I was thinking ... I could arrange to have the goon I am going to find to "change Sweetz DH life" to swing by and scare your DH a little bit? Sound good?

Everyone else I missed this go around, thanks for making this thread what it is, dynamic.

AFM - Well I am doing well and my betas are behaving so I am thankful and optimistic. I will be going for an early scan at 5 weeks to be sure that the little person is locate where he/she is suppose to be. I will certainly keep everyone posted.

I thought it might nice to share what I didn't differenly this time around.
1. No stress which mean less time on the thread (I don't want to see a mass exodus!) because I was obssessing.
2. Grapefruit juice ... its not all hype. I had sooooooo much fertile CM that my husband (TMI alert) had to stop our sessions just to wipe away the excess. Was too slippery
3. Loads of whole milk as it facilitates ovulation. My ovulation this month was so obvious to me this cycle ... I swear I could tell you when my ovary punted that egg through the goal post!
4. OPKs Clear Blue Smily Digital starting on CD 6. I'd read some where that testing mid day is best. I was skeptical but its true. In the morning, I had a negative that afternoon I go the smily.
5. Allowing the magic serum marinate. Some nights I literally fell asleep with my bottom propped in the air and didn't wake until the morning when it was time to go work. 8 solid of hours of sperm meets egg conferences.

I hope this information is useful to someone else. I am totally open to question.

Yay, I do grapefruit juice and whole milk too! Yay! I have tried to do the prop up part but its hard because my daughter doesnt go to bd after my hubby does most nights. Sometimes I have to pee immediately after BDing too.

I have that problem to, wanting to pee right after. So I would almost stop, the start of sessions so I can pee. I would also cut myself off from liquids earlier when I remember. If you can't keep the bottom up, maybe you can try the instead/soft cups. They didn't work for me because I didn't know how to put them right ... Once I put it in, it stayed in but all of the serum ... down the drain.

I have thought about softcups. They dont look very expensive when I pass them in the store. I am going to take LD Aspirin like Janelley next cycle if this isn't the one. As far as liquids, I dont think I could cut back earlier because I hardly remember to drink anything during the day unless its with a meal (I try to drink at least 24 ounces of water or milk with a meal).

The symptoms sure do sound promising. What CD are you on? I think I bought my softcups for $5 at Walmart. They $8+ at CVS and Walgreens. Yeah, if you can manage to use the cups that would be better than reduce liquid intake. I hope this is your month!

I'm on CD 25 but my cycle ranges from 30-42 days since I miscarried in March. I expect AF or BFP (FX) on my "would of been" due date next Saturday.

 

[Krissy485]

Army-good luck on your bfp by next week!

Janelle- lol mia group! Honestly if my husband is taking someone other than me i am happy it is my son i always tell him he needs to spend more time with him especially now he is 6. Also made me feel better when we told him gets to go to the game tomorrow he got all excited then later on i saw him picking up toys and what not and i said well thank you for helping and he goes, well i am being good because i get to go with dad tomorrow...how can i be mad at that? but i can still be mad at dh... my dad did tell me if i wanna get away tomorrow for a few hours while dh and ds are at the game i can leave my other 2 with him and get away for a while..but only takes money sigh....

anyways i got homework to do and i am exhausted from everything today...i helped my dad install a new window in our kitchen and i made homemade spaghetti...oh i made crock pot pork tenderloin last night and it was AMAZING!!!!! even my dad who does not really like pork loved it and asked if there was any leftovers today...yay i can cook lol who knew not me hahaha
ok stalk ya later!

 

[Aspe]

Grr.. I had this big ole response and my iPad freaked out and lost it all....Grrr.. I will try to rewrite it or some of it

 

[Krissy485]

Aspe- dont have an ipad but my laptop has done that to me one too many times grrr....

Ok ladies...once again thank you all for being there for me over the last couple of days means a lot!!!! i got my home work done, kids in bed now my turn love you all!!!!

 

[Aspe]

Janelley..any information is never too much information. Thanks for sharing. All the more info and detail about my inquiry better helps me to understand. I checked my cervix and it is still high and soft. However, there is none to very very little cm. What is ewcm? I am not yet familiar with this abbreviation.

Sweetz.. I hear you about the iPad and all the auto correcting it does lol..how can your dh deny it. You never had it before, you never cheated, so what is left? Him!

Mnj..thanks for sharing your ultrasound picture. Glad your appointment went well .. As for when you asked me about pcos.. The tests my doctor just done tested for pcos, but the tests came back normal. If I keep being irregular, I am going to demand an ultrasound. I asked the doctor about pcos because that crossed my mind too, but she said it all looks good.

Krissy..I'm sorry the plans for tomorrow night did not plan out, especially since you were looking forward to it.. It is unfortunate how your dh finally responded to you, it would have been good if he could discuss his feelings. Every person thinks and have emotions, so what is going on with him. I really hope he opens up, because communication can affect many parts of ones life. I try to separate my profession from my personal life, so i apologize if i said to much. Additionally, it would be great if you stay with this group

Storked..nice to see you are back

baybee..I actually heard that instead of ms, people get diarrhea as a substitute

Bama..it's amazing how many pages you have to catch up for just being gone a little while lol.. I hear ya

Army..can I ask what reducing liquid intake conversation is about? I drink sooooooo much water in the run of a day

Angel..thanks for the advice..I will definitely keep it in mind. I was thinking about walking/jogging for 1 - 1 1/2 hour, some weights, and maybe some abs. Umm..perhaps abs would not be the best idea. What do you think?

 

[armymama2012]

Janelley..any information is never too much information. Thanks for sharing. All the more info and detail about my inquiry better helps me to understand. I checked my cervix and it is still high and soft. However, there is none to very very little cm. What is ewcm? I am not yet familiar with this abbreviation.

Sweetz.. I hear you about the iPad and all the auto correcting it does lol..how can your dh deny it. You never had it before, you never cheated, so what is left? Him!

Mnj..thanks for sharing your ultrasound picture. Glad your appointment went well .. As for when you asked me about pcos.. The test my doctor just done tested for pcos, but the tests came back normal. If I keep being irregular, I am going to demand an ultrasound. I asked the doctor about pcos because that crossed my mind too, but she said it all looks good.

Krissy..I'm sorry the plans for tomorrow night did not plan out, especially since you were looking forward to it.. It is unfortunate how your dh finally responded to you, it would have been good if he could discuss his feelings. Every person thinks and have emotions, so what is going on with him. I really hope he opens up, because communication can affect many parts on ones life. I try to separate my profession from my personal life, so i apologize if i said to much. Additionally, it would be great if you stay with this group

Storked..nice to see you are back

baybee..I actually heard that instead of ms, people get diarrhea as a substitute

Bama..it's amazing how many pages you have to catch up for just being gone a little while lol.. I hear ya

Army..can I ask what reducing liquid intake conversation is about? I drink sooooooo much water in the run of a day

Angel..thanks for the advice..I will definitely keep it in mind. I was thinking about walking/jogging for 1 - 1 1/2 hour, some weights, and maybe some abs. Umm..perhaps abs would not be the best idea. What do you think?

The conversation was about propping your hips up after BD to help his little swimmers. I said I sometimes have o pee immediately after BD and she said that she sometimes limits her liquids when she knows BDing is coming up.

 

[janelleybean]

Aspe- ewcm= egg white cervical mucus. keep checking. There were days when I didn't have any too...then one day it was like whoa!

 

[janelleybean]

Alright ladies. I think I'm done for the night. I'm super tired and it's not even 8 yet. I wont be on much tomorrow either because I'm meeting a friend at her house for breakfast. I will check in later in the day though. Hope you all have a great night and a if I don't get a chance to get on, have a fun weekend.

Sweetz and Krissy- I love you ladies!

 

[Sweetz33]

hi Mia crew. Storked I missed ya!

Yeah so um....Little update as I am very worn out....I kicked him out. He is staying with his brother. Tomorrow I drop off some clothes for him, and his dog. I feel so numb... I'm also looking into a polygraph since he refuses to admit what he did....told him will be doing it. I hate that I have to go to this level...but I have to to protect my LO.

 

[Aspe]

Janelley..any information is never too much information. Thanks for sharing. All the more info and detail about my inquiry better helps me to understand. I checked my cervix and it is still high and soft. However, there is none to very very little cm. What is ewcm? I am not yet familiar with this abbreviation.

Sweetz.. I hear you about the iPad and all the auto correcting it does lol..how can your dh deny it. You never had it before, you never cheated, so what is left? Him!

Mnj..thanks for sharing your ultrasound picture. Glad your appointment went well .. As for when you asked me about pcos.. The test my doctor just done tested for pcos, but the tests came back normal. If I keep being irregular, I am going to demand an ultrasound. I asked the doctor about pcos because that crossed my mind too, but she said it all looks good.

Krissy..I'm sorry the plans for tomorrow night did not plan out, especially since you were looking forward to it.. It is unfortunate how your dh finally responded to you, it would have been good if he could discuss his feelings. Every person thinks and have emotions, so what is going on with him. I really hope he opens up, because communication can affect many parts on ones life. I try to separate my profession from my personal life, so i apologize if i said to much. Additionally, it would be great if you stay with this group

Storked..nice to see you are back

baybee..I actually heard that instead of ms, people get diarrhea as a substitute

Bama..it's amazing how many pages you have to catch up for just being gone a little while lol.. I hear ya

Army..can I ask what reducing liquid intake conversation is about? I drink sooooooo much water in the run of a day

Angel..thanks for the advice..I will definitely keep it in mind. I was thinking about walking/jogging for 1 - 1 1/2 hour, some weights, and maybe some abs. Umm..perhaps abs would not be the best idea. What do you think?

The conversation was about propping your hips up after BD to help his little swimmers. I said I sometimes have o pee immediately after BD and she said that she sometimes limits her liquids when she knows BDing is coming up.

Ok, thanks..lol..I thought maybe I was drinking to much and it affected ovulation or fertilization lol..thought maybe there was something new I needed to know lol..worth to ask I guess eh

 

[Aspe]

hi Mia crew. Storked I missed ya!

Yeah so um....Little update as I am very worn out....I kicked him out. He is staying with his brother. Tomorrow I drop off some clothes for him, and his dog. I feel so numb... I'm also looking into a polygraph since he refuses to admit what he did....told him will be doing it. I hate that I have to go to this level...but I have to to protect my LO.

I'm sorry to hear you are experiencing this, especially while pregnant. I am glad, however, you are not letting him walk over you. I would never be able to forgive my db (Or in your case, dh) if he cheated on me. I always told him, if I ever turn up with something, I know you cheated on me. I don't understand why people cheat and there thinking behind it. Again, I'm sorry this is happening. Know that we are here for you.

 

[Aspe]

Aspe- ewcm= egg white cervical mucus. keep checking. There were days when I didn't have any too...then one day it was like whoa!

Thanks for clarifying that for me. Now I am wondering what cm versus ewcm tells us? The last time I checked, it was almost clear, but there was a little white in it. Sorry if tmi

 

[Aspe]

Well, I guess I should get ready for bed. It is about 2 AM on Saturday here and I have to be at work in 6 hours. Have a good night and day..hehe

 

[HisGrace]

Aspe- ewcm= egg white cervical mucus. keep checking. There were days when I didn't have any too...then one day it was like whoa!

Thanks for clarifying that for me. Now I am wondering what cm versus ewcm tells us? The last time I checked, it was almost clear, but there was a little white in it. Sorry if tmi

EWCM tells we're fertile. I'm not sure if that's what you're asking though. Have you read the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility? If not, I recommend it. It's a really informative book about all of that stuff.

 

[armymama2012]

Well I was awoken early this morning by a very sharp pain near my left ovary. Hoping its just gas but now I am having slight cramps all across my abdomen and into my lower back. If this pain doesn't ease up in the next 3 hours I will go in to make sure I'm not having another ruptured cyst or something along those lines.

 

[Sweetz33]

Morning ladies. Had horrible cramping last night followed by a couple tiny brown spots in my britches. Called docs who told me to relaxe (she knows why I am stressed) and told me to just take it as easy as I can these next few days. Have to drop clothes and his dog off to him this morning. Really don't want to see him, but it was that our let him into the house when I wasn't here. Well I'm going to just take a deep breath and pray I can get through this...thank you ladies for all your support.....you have no idea how much it means to me to have people there for me.....even if it is just virtually.

 

[Krissy485]

Swseetz- Wish i could do that for you!!!! Please relax as much as possible bc like you said that baby is more important than that A**hole!!!! Love you and be careful lady!

Army- i hope you are ok lady!!!! please let us know how your are doing ok?

Aspe- have a good day at work!

Grace-

AFM- getting things around for dh and ds to go to the game in a few hours. ds is so excited it was the first thing he said when he got up he gets to go to the football game today.....i may take my dad up on getting out of the house for a few hours i need a break and a breather from all this....

 

[nevergivingup]

Wow, did I miss alot even when I posted.

Aspe: I hope this is it for you, paying attention to all the signs of TTC, can be very confusing ESP. When check cervical position and comparing EWCM and cm. Just relax Aspe and BD and it will come.

Sweetz: Sorry for not replying sooner, imaging to pm you after I write this. But know I'm Always praying for you. Always!

BayBeeEm: O my you are one awesome lady!!! Im so mad, I want us to hang out so bad Bc we would have a ball. It just isn't fair!! I'm sooo happy for you GURLIE!!! And those Symptns, EMBRACED them love, embrace them!!! I had love that ms feeling!! I had diarrhea too!

Janelleybean: You are too sweet! I will try to feel him/her kick today. I just didn't know what I suppose to be feeling for but thanks for giving me an idea of bubbles and maybe drinking ice water.....ewww, not a fan of ice water anymore..But anything to feel babe kick!

Krissy: Sorry about your DH, sometimes you have to give them that Don't Care attitude. But I'm praying for you that it does get better as time passes. In the meantime just love those little people you have running around! But I agree with Janelley, don't get your tubes tied, just enjoy life. And you're so right we are a tight knit group. No apologies was necessary, you explained great.

Lisalee: Where are you??

BamaGurl: I know that feeling of being busy with school, I registered myself back up for spring, but don't tire yourself out ma'am. You worked hard for this bean! And no ma'am I haven't felt a kick yet...I will try and see if I can.

HisGrace: Luv ya ma'am. Your betas are awesome!!! Look at you glowing. You know God can do anything even when we feel our body can't!!! Now embrace your pregnancy!!

MnJ: Your post made me laugh, you know it was never my intentions to run you away but I'm glad you understood where I was coming from. And I'm sooo glad you're here, Bc I am going to defend you the same way. We are only humans working on a bunch of emotions and when it comes to TTC/Pregnancy, we have an extra dose of emotions jumping out. Luv ya GURLIE, and I love ya evn more since we are beautiful thick women!! Heehee!! O and your u/s was BEAUTIFUL!!! Grow baby Grow!!!

Stork: YAYYY, hi ma'am! Thanks for dropping in!! We're missing you!!

AngelSerenity: I will def change your profile inquiry on the list. And don't feel bad for having to wait anything to give you s better chance at conceiving and getting a sticky baby, then go for it. And remember God can work miracles in anyone, don't give up on something you want Bc God isn't giving up on You!! Luv ya ma'am!

Lpjkp: Missing you ma'am!!

Hi Kanicky!!

MizzPodd: sorry you feel that way. I was in and out due to being in revival, so I missed alot of things and I'm sure I missed your post about bleeding I'm def sorry that you're going through that. But many women do, so don't stress yourself out. I am sad that you left us but I hope you find what you're looking for on the other thread and we'll still be here if you ever come bk. But we are a bit personal here, Bc some of us has been here since the beginning and some are just trying to figure out what's going on with them, which is fine. O well GL

BayBeeEm: I loved your plan to TTC, it was VERY similiar to Mine!! Thanks for sharing!!

Armymama: I love your aspiration!! You're awesome, don't change who you are for anyone Bc you did respond to some if her comments, ESP. The organism while sleeping one. FX for your BFP!!! Bring it home Army!!!

Hi Garfie: Ma'am, we're def not insensitive!!! ESP. not you!! Now bring us our BFP!!! Are you still honeymooning it up with DH!!

Hi to anyone else I may have missed. Def not intentional!

AFM: Loving my Ladies here!!! Can't get enough if y'all!!! We are all different in many ways, and sometimes you just have to feel your way through here and sometimes you have to make yourself known, but that's why we try to reply to everyone response when we get a chance in one big list. But we do our best Bc we are chatty TTC/PREGO WOmen!! O well I have a horrible cold, so I'm going to take me a hot shower. Ttyl ladies! Be Good.

 

[shefali83]

First of all many many congrats to BayBeeEm
Have a happy & a healthy preg dear.. you deserve it

Love this group.. Sometimes i wonder if its the positivity here that helps us getting pg i am sure it is

I have been missing you all and feeling very low. AF and stitches do not mix well. On top of that fever. I got to know i am actually operated/cut from two places and af is very heavy and clotty due to the chemical(confirmed with 3-4 hpts). I probably lost the pregnancy due to the meds i had to take. i checked later and got to know they should not be taken if pg. I did mention at the hospital that i mite be pg but i guess they FORGOT!! In too much pain but wanted to check on all of you.. Your support here means a lot to me.. I don't think how i would have survived all these months without you all. i joined this thread in july i guess but it seems like i know you all since ages. There might be less conversation between some of us but its so calming to know we are all FAMILY here and are there for each other always.. Love each and everyone of you

I would be MIA mostly cos of the pain. Cant take pain meds due to some reasons Going to rest and will keep lurking through my good not so old mobile

Wanted to say: I am strong ONLY because of you ladies.. I totally mean it. Wish we could all meet someday.

Last but not the least.. my dear sweetz i couldn't read all the posts but i am feeling very upset for you. You really shouldnt be facing all this especially when you are pg. they say everything happens for a reason and at the right time but i dont know how it holds true here Please don't take stress for people who do not deserve it. you ONLY need to concentrate on your LO Lots of hugs and remember i am here for you nomatter how much pain i face

I know i am being too emotional today Sorry for such a long post..Feeling too overwhelmed today. Wish i could hug you all..each one of you stay with me till the end

 

[shefali83]

I know i have not dropped my BIO yet. I will do it today itself after a lil rest