March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[kanicky73]

kanicky where are you my cycle buddy!! Miss you!

I'm here doll! Thanks for your bio! And I love the pic. You guys are adorable. I'm so sorry about the Chemical dear! Makes me angry when the people in the medical world are so careless. I am here for you whatever you need! I mean that. The good news is that you were able to conceive hence the chemical. That's what gave me hope back in may. You just focus on healing up and getting better honey! That's all you need to worry about.

To all the other beauty's. Hope you all are having a good day.

Sweets you did the right thing my dear. Stay strong.

Hi stroked!

Army I just know you're gonna get your bfp next week. I feel it!

Garfield hi! Hope youre feeling good.

Bama hope you are feeling well too oh and Baylee!

Gosh I feel like I'm missing someone. Gotta get this laundry done and clean while Caylee naps or it won't happen at all!

 

[lpjkp]

Hello lovely ladies!

Sorry it's a quick dive on, but I had to update you with how my first ultrasound went today (My DH doesn't really like me going onto BnB, so I'm quickly popping on whilst he's outside having a sneaky cigarette!)

I was incredibly nervous about today but, according to the sonographer, my little bub is "perfect" and she is "very satisfied" that everything couldn't be going any better!! I can't describe how in awe I am over the experience, and I cried like an absolute baby!! There is only one strong little sticky baby in there, with a lovely flickering heartbeat...and I got to HEAR the HB too!! 156bpm, so all is fantastic!! Measuring at a lovely 7wk 3d, which coincides EXACTLY with my ovulation date!!

 

[Krissy485]

Shefali- thanks for the bio! Ok this may sound ignorant but how cool does it get in India? I always imagine it being supper hot all the time. I live in Michigan, usa and we have all four seasons and every year you never know what you going get..shoot we have a saying here if you dont like weather wait 5 minutes and it will change lol...also we brave the cold if it hits 50 we are out at our grill making burgers lol...seriously look up michigan jokes onlince there are tons! but you might also get jokes for the university of michigan to but those are funny to because we are born and breed michigan state university fans the rival of university of michigan big deal around here lol... anyways i think i got way off topic oppps

Mnj- i love that you changed your pic! makes me smile!

Janelle-how has your day? was breakfest yummy?

Grace- I should look at your blog i have a feeling it would totally inspire me!

Army- i see you down there! how you feeling sweetheart?

Kanicky-hows your weekend going? did the hop on that broomstick and leave yet?

AFM- Got Josh and Joshua off to the football game. doesnt start till 3:30 but gotta get there early to get parking and all the pregame fun stuff...i took picture of my men will have to upload them later! I talked to my older brother and he is taking me to the movies in a while...we are going to see the kiddy movie ParaNorman....i wanna see it really bad and if it is good and ok for the kids i will take them later this week. then we are going to go do some thrift store shopping then maybe out for a drink....
before when i posted i said my brothers kids are here and it was a sore subject that is my younger brother....he is constely using my parents for babysitting and for money. pisses me off constently! like for example this week my dad gave him 100 dollars this wednesday by friday he says he needs more money for gas. my dad goes well what happen to the 100 we gave u 2 days ago he says i put it all in gas...yeah freaking right....i mean if you are going to have 3 kids, 1 his 2 step, then you better be able to take care of them damn. I mean yeah we are living with my parents but josh has a job and is waiting to get into a better place. but we buy all our own food and what not for us and i even make dinner for everyone in the house not just us. sorry did not mean to rant! but my older brother lives close by and is off work this weekend(his work is actually where josh is trying to get into) and said he would entertain is little sister. we are actaully only 1yr and 3 weeks apart in age. but ok enough of my novel i guess. just know today is a better for me emotionally and no dh still has not said much but he did get 14 hours of sleep last night so hopefully that makes for a happier hubby tonight!

 

[shefali83]

Kanicky: yay you here ! Thanks for liking the bio Hugs
yeah you are right atleast i conceived. I am realising now conceiving isnt a prob here. Sustaining is! Have been working on that. I cant bd for 2 months atleast so i am gonna ask the doc if home insemination would be ok maybe after a month. I dont want to wait and waste 2 months.
I hope you get your bfp this cycle.. I am gonna pray for you all the way. Are u planning to do anything different this time? Any game plan

lpjkp: thats an amazing news...!! So happy for you.. Absolutely exciting ... I can imagine how happy and excited you must me! Yay for hb and perfect measurements

 

[Krissy485]

Lpjkp- Oh thank you for the update! we have missed you and tell dh to keep quiet about you getting on bnb. like i told mine this keeps me sane and from me driving him insane. but that baby looks wonderful and a wonderful heartbeat!!!

Army- So happy that dh opened up a little bit for you! way back a yr ago when we first ttc josh talked about it all the time but after the first mc and then the second i think he is numb to it all now. hopefully he opens up soon! also i hope those are good cramps like implantation cramps and not ones that says af is coming....FX for you!!!

 

[shefali83]

Krissy it depends .. I stay in north india so we have extreme climate here... Totally chilly in winters and super hot in summers. Down south its mostly hot. So every state has a different kinda climate..lol interesting isnt it! In my city i get to experience all expect snowfall.

 

[shefali83]

And yeah its not unpredictable here thankfully lol. We know when is gonna be what.. Months are very well alloted to each weather

 

[Krissy485]

Shefali- yeah snow is over rated lol..i love the first snow fall but after that i hate the cold and driving in it! i love fall and spring not too hot not too cold i love sweat pant weather...ihave to admit i hate to have to shave Josh is always saying i am like sleeping with big foot...lmao....hey gotta stay warm to hahahahahaha.....granted when we first got together i shaved alll the time 7yrs 3 kids later i shave when i want to and when i need to....i know that sounds bad hahahahha

 

[HisGrace]

lpj - lovely pic! how exciting to see the hb. was this your first u/s?

 

[HisGrace]

shefali - you and your hubby look great together!

 

[lpjkp]

HisGrace: My first ever ultrasound! The sonographer only had to say "Yep, you've got a pregnant uterus" and I was blubbering like an idiot!! It was such an amazing thing when she said "Would you like to hear the heartbeat?" I feel so much more at ease about everything, and it really does finally make all that trouble TTC worth it now..

 

[BayBeeEm]

lpj - I am so happy to hear of your sonogram and warmed my heart when you said first ever. I can only imagine what they feels like. Your "little bit" is beautiful!

 

[MnJ]

Shefalia - I'm good, Thx for asking! Sorry about ur chemical and I hope after u heal from surgery that u get ur sticky bean!

Lpjkp - YAAAAY for us! U had a way better experience than I did. Grumpy tech wouldn't give hb rate, we didn't get to hear it and no measurement to know for sure exactly how far. Sucked but I was so happy to just see the heartbeat... such a relief, right? Congrats!

 

[armymama2012]

Well cramping is on and off now but a bit stronger. I also am getting pinching feeling occasionally on my left side. We went to the mall, had Subway and then just walked around a bit. We like to do that on gloomy days like today.

Ok, onto replies:

LP: Yay! so glad you had an awesome experience!

Shefali: I am now 6 DPO. I would appreciate any input you can give as to my temps.

Kanicky: Thanks, I'm not so sure this is my month but thanks for the positivity!

Krissy: I was so shocked that he started talking about it but it made me feel so much more comfortable with TTC! I hope these are implantation cramps too but my temp needs to go back up!

HisGrace: Hi, how are you feeling?

MnJ: Hi, how are your symptoms doing?

Did I miss anyone?

 

[armymama2012]

Did 20 minutes worth of dishes (no dishwasher here ) and my back and hips are killing me! I am even wearing my running shoes with arch supports but it still hurts! I think I need some custom Dr. Scholl's inserts!

Oh, btw, it may just be me but I am now constipated and peeing more often.

 

[armymama2012]

I know its Saturday night and all but I miss all of you! Dont tell me I'm the only one who is staying at home tonight! Argh...I'm also cleaning my kitchen and making dinner so it's not like I'm not doing anything!

 

[HisGrace]

I know its Saturday night and all but I miss all of you! Dont tell me I'm the only one who is staying at home tonight! Argh...I'm also cleaning my kitchen and making dinner so it's not like I'm not doing anything!

I'm at home, too! I've been cooking too and now I finally have the food in the oven and can rest a little bit. My back is not feeling too hot after all that standing.

 

[armymama2012]

My back just gets knots a lot. I don't think it can handle me carrying my daughter anymore which is not good since she still doesn't want to walk.

 

[Krissy485]

Army- FX for ya!!! it would be wonderful for you to have your bfp before your one yr anniversery! I got subway to!

Lp: i will never forget the first time i saw my oldest on ultrasound. I was further along about 10.5 weeks so i got to see his little legs moving and arms waving and that beautiful heartbeat! i actaully had it recorded on my cell phone for a while. but i cried like a baby that first time ever is something else! it was actually my ob dr. who did that ultrasound for dating reasons.

Janelle-still waiting to hear how your day was!

Sweetz- how are you sweety?!?!?!?! please let me know how you are i am worried about you!!!!

AFM: had a nice time out with my brother. went and saw ParaNorman then went to goodwill didnt find any good deals though, then got our subway. it was really nice to get out of the house, no offense to my older brother but would have been better with dh but in the end it was relaxing all the same. now to do my school work and what not...

All in all i feel much better!

Oh and in response to those who were concerned about me possibly tieing my tubes if dh decides we dont want another baby...IF i decided to do that it would not be for a while more than likely not something you can just go do tomorrow. I am 27 1/2 now and honestly if we do want another baby i want it soon very soon. my youngest is now three and at this point he would be almost 4 before the baby would be born. i know that is not a huge age gap to others but the three i have now are 19months and 17 months apart in age so 4 yrs seems like a huge gap to me. also no offense to our older TTCers but i would not want to have a baby after 30. I had my first at the age of 21 and i have always said i started young i want to finish young. Also, god forbid, if we did get divorce i would never want to have a baby with anyone else, again no offense to anyone else, but i grew up in a home where we all have the same mom and dad and i want that for my kids. when we were broke up for that month it was something we talked about and we both agreed that we would never have kids with anyone else bc it mean too much to us that our kids dont have half siblings just not for us.

so at this point this is where i stand....still 50/50 if we are trying again, ya'll be the first to know when i know, and if we dont then i will look into a tubal. i cant do birthcontrol because it causes me to get extremely bad migraines that have landed me in the ER several times...

But i WELCOME all of your guys advice on everything!!!!!!! I take it all into heart and into consideration. Besides the whole point of being apart of this group is to get other opinions right? Thank you ladies for being my rock!!!

 

[armymama2012]

Yeah, we started young too. I got pregnant 4 months after I turned 20, got married 3 months later ad had our son shortly after I turned 21. We want a huge family! However, I do not want to be pregnant after I turn 38 because I want to just enjoy the kiddos I do have at that point and be able to keep up with them. If that will happen, I dont know. We are like HisGrace, very spiritual/religious and we do not believe in birth control. We know that what happens is God's Will even if we don't agree to it so even after I become 38 I will not go on birth control (anyways, my dad's side of the family has a history of high blood pressure and heart disease and I'm allergic to the adhesive in the the patch versions).

As far as other kids, DH is getting deployed next year so we all know (even though we hate to think of it) that there is a very real possibility that he will die for our country over there. We have discussed what happens from there. I will not date anyone for at least 3 years out of respect for DH and after that it is my choice. I am undecided on the whole "kids with other men" thing because I don't want to think about DH not coming back to us.