March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Storked]

I don't plan to find out the sex of the baby. I love the element of surprise.
I can't really say I have any cravings. My appetite hasn't picked up like I thought it would. :/

Hey don't make that face about cravings- you are eating enough I bet as that is what matters
You are so strong to wait! I don't think I could are any friends and family upset that you are waiting? People got pretty mad at my middle sister when she waited on some of hers.

 

[Storked]

And yeah, bad husband for eating all the cookies!

Hi BayBee!

And for spoiling his dinner *exasperated*

 

[Aspe]

Storked..mmm.. What kind of cookies are those..or were those lol

Lisalee..I used to have a period every month but in April it starting going weird. my last two cycles were 58 says and 63 days

 

[Storked]

Storked..mmm.. What kind of cookies are those..or were those lol

Lisalee..I used to have a period every month but in April it starting going weird. my last two cycles were 58 says and 63 days

Aspe that must be so frustrating I really hope that you get answers soon. Or that exercise will help a ton too!
They were sugar. But now I have all that I need to make chocolate chip. Or maybe some sort of fall type cookies. Hm.

 

[Aspe]

Have anyone heard of vitex? It suppose to help regulate you and conceiving.

 

[Sweetz33]

Evening ladies....finally back home and bra off, Jammie's on!

I want those cookies STAT!

Angel hey girl! Ltns!

Had to lay down the hammer tonight....oye vey. I'm getting tired of feeling like I'm talking to a brick wall. Had a good talk with my stepson. He opened my eyes. Good kid, smart kid.....but a hurt kid. I saw the example of DH's child rearing skills...and my fears came back. On the way home spoke with DH and explained once baby is born, it is back to school and work for me. He said "who is going to take care of the baby while I'm at work" (not who is going to do it while I'm at work/school...his concern was him) I said daycare...his whole attitude got bitchy. He doesn't want baby in daycare. I said "well I'm not putting my dreams on hold...I let you peruse yours, helped you peruse yours, you have yours...it is time for me. I said you will either support me and be by my side or you can watch from the outside bc I'm doing this wether you like it or not". He got so cranky and landed up ignoring me! I guess what he wants is important but what I want isn't. No more ladies....he is in for a rude awakening in a few months......last thing I needed on a long, hard day.......then when we get home, not only does he act like nothing happened...he has the nerve to tell me to do something for his work (which is his dream) wtf?! And he wonders why I went to my therapist and said in need something for my stress before I hurt someone....mainly him!! Sorry for the rant....just pissy......

Storked....show me something funny....lol

 

[Storked]

Sweetz, yay for comfy clothes! And cookies are great. I really wish I had double stuf Oreos but I don't need them!

As for your husband, what is his dealio with daycare? It won't ruin the baby- I was in daycare and I am awesome! I think that you are a very strong, determined lady and that he will back down long before you do!
So what is going on with your stepson? especially to give you fears?
Hehe and don't apologize for ranting- you need an outlet and here we are!
Something funny...I can do that!

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[Storked]

Loren, my sister texted me this
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I couldn't see it too well so I asked her "is that Draco Malfoy?" and she said "LOL it is Miley Cyrus" and I thought of you.
Is that a real picture? I didn't know she had cut her hair- I read older lady magazines so I think I miss this stuff

 

[BayBeeEm]

AngelSerenity, how the heck have you been?!

 

[Sweetz33]

Omg Ty! And yes that is Miley....lol
Stepson told me his father screwed up and that he looks at him as a father...not a dad. That he screwed up any chance for them to ever have a relationship. He said I'm doing it on my own bc he knows he can't depend on him for anything. Said that I have supported him, more then his own father has. Told me that we need to sit down and talk bc he has a new baby coming. That he needs to step up and be a dad to this one, and not screw up again. He told me if he is not able to be there 100% that I need to do what I have to do. He told me that he knows I will make a great mom to his future brother/sister. I almost cried right there. 17 years old....and so observant. He is hurting so bad....and his father never saw it....and still doesn't. It is really making me think twice about this baby........

 

[Storked]

Hi BayBeeEm!

Hi Army!

Hi Sirbaby!

Hi Aspe!

Hi Never!

Hehe I see you guys at the bottom (waves)

 

[Storked]

Omg Ty! And yes that is Miley....lol
Stepson told me his father screwed up and that he looks at him as a father...not a dad. That he screwed up any chance for them to ever have a relationship. He said I'm doing it on my own bc he knows he can't depend on him for anything. Said that I have supported him, more then his own father has. Told me that we need to sit down and talk bc he has a new baby coming. That he needs to step up and be a dad to this one, and not screw up again. He told me if he is not able to be there 100% that I need to do what I have to do. He told me that he knows I will make a great mom to his future brother/sister. I almost cried right there. 17 years old....and so observant. He is hurting so bad....and his father never saw it....and still doesn't. It is really making me think twice about this baby........

Oh no Sweetz! Have you told DH what he said or was it told in confidence? Latino men pride themselves on being a more distant "father" figure than the closeness of "dad", you know?

 

[Sweetz33]

He said it in confidence...and I will respect that.

Funny thing dh talks all about family and how Puerto Ricans are family oriented....but his own son is so distant. SS said he has no parents and was raised by a gay woman and his uncle rather than his mom or dad......how can they not see this?! It breaks my heart bc he's a great kid!

 

[lisalee1]

Storked- I HAVE been concerned about not gaining. I'm always worrying that I'm not eating enough. It's always been very hard for me to gain weight. I haven't stepped on the scale in a week in fears that it will be the same as last week.

Aspe- I'm sorry to hear about the crazy cycles. I don't know about Vitex, but I'm all for herbal supplements. So go for it! Can't hurt.

Sweetz- You told him right! He can't expect you to put your life on hold for 5 or so years. That would make you totally dependent on him. Being that you're in a somewhat shaky relationship (based on your past posts), I don't think it would be wise for you to be in that situation.

 

[Storked]

It is a cultural thing I think Sweetz- they think that being able to pay for your family is what makes you a good parent. My ex felt very close to his family but don't know why because they were always mad and screaming at each other. His dad wasn't bad but distant ad really only yelled at him- yet he worshipped him. Makes no sense to me.
I think that to them manhood is being untouchable in regards to feelings. Or emotional support. What do you think?

 

[Sweetz33]

Lisa...I have a backup plan....I'm not stooooopid lol

 

[Sweetz33]

Storked...I agree

 

[Storked]

Storked- I HAVE been concerned about not gaining. I'm always worrying that I'm not eating enough. It's always been very hard for me to gain weight. I haven't stepped on the scale in a week in fears that it will be the same as last week.

Aspe- I'm sorry to hear about the crazy cycles. I don't know about Vitex, but I'm all for herbal supplements. So go for it! Can't hurt.

Sweetz- You told him right! He can't expect you to put your life on hold for 5 or so years. That would make you totally dependent on him. Being that you're in a somewhat shaky relationship (based on your past posts), I don't think it would be wise for you to be in that situation.

Oh Lisa I think you are golden if your doctor's are happy

 

[Storked]

Storked...I agree

And I know that if you are having a boy (baby let her see!) then that isn't the example of manhood you would want for him. And really, same for daughters. If her dad is distant, you don't want her to lean toward guys who are his opposite- crazy mod swings and general lack of control

 

[Sweetz33]

He has the mood swings....and lack of control.....