March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[meggiemay93]

Well I O'ed yesterday on my left side and today I am having O pains on my right side. This happens to me every so often but I O'ed on both sides last month too.

Has anyone ever had cramping with O? I never have before but today I am crampy.

 

[Leather3280]

Hey Maggie: I had cramping with ovulation the month I got my bfp. Than I ovulated on cd 19. That was over two years ago now. I think I also got a bit of cramping that lasted for 10-15 min.,also had lower back ache.

 

[Leather3280]

Sorry meant to mention that I got those last symptoms this cycle.

AFM: Felt nauseous after eating some greasy food, breasts ached sharply for a little bit and now is just a little achy not much though. Also have the ache back in my pelvic area on the left side. Seems to come back every night. Also feel like af could show up any time. So I will wait to see if she shows up on cd28 or 29 if not I will test than. So tmr is cd26 so 2-3 more days.

 

[meggiemay93]

Definitely praying your af doesn't show up! Keep your hopes up and remember God's timing is best! He will never give you more than you can handle.

 

[Leather3280]

Maggie: Yeah your right He doesn't, but He knows better what we can handle than we ourselves do. Thanks again this thread is definitely really positive and I don't know what I would do if I couldn't vent.

AFM: Ok time to vent. I work up almost a half hour ago tripped over my dog who seems to melt in the darkness(thank goodness I didn't fall I caught myself). Than I put my knee on the bed and one of the boards popped out on one end and DH says don't destroy people's property. I was like I'm not! We have a bed like this where the board pops out on one end once and a while. So I'm used to fixing things like that. So I told him, he needed to get off the bed so I could fix it. I had to say a few times before he got up, the time I said I was gritting my teeth cause I greeting so annoyed. Ended up telling him that he's no gentlemen because he never once offered to help and I ended up needing the help when I couldn't lift the mattress and pop the board back into place. I hate when they ask what the problem is and you are telling them and they aren't listening. Ok so finally I fix the bed we get back into bed and now here I am venting.

Ok so symptoms this morning definitely feel like af is going to show her ugly face any day now. Just the feeling I get when the day gets closer. The pelvic ache went away sometime last and came back maybe 20 min ago now, my left breast is sore to touch and my right one is only tingly after squeezing lightly.

 

[runnergrl]

Leather- I'm so confused by your chart. Did you change it to where you had a neg opk opk on day 15 so it would change your O day? I could have sworn you reported pos OPK's on day 14 and 15. ??? Either way-your temps look great and I think an early response would absolutely be accurate today and you would have your answer. Good luck!

 

[Sweetz33]

Hey ladies I'm back! Sorry DH had the day off yesterday and I was not feeling that great, so we just spent the day together. It was needed...didn't do anything but snuggle on the couch together and he made me a nice salad.

Leather: I pray it isn't AF! Your longer post about the positivity.....wow girl....that's all I can say...I too have my dark side and the scars to prove it. Being positive is a difficult thing, and we all have our moments of extreme doubt, just some of us try not to show it. I too was very suicidal years ago. I had my moments where I was all set. My sister was a drug addict most of my life so parental focus was always on her, never on me. I pretty much raised myself. I'm not complaining bc that made me the woman I am today. I struggled through many abusive relationships on that eternal search for love only to have it blow up in my face. I myself turned to drugs and alcohol for a bit there, to the point I landed up in the hospital....sucked...but true. I was/am what they call a "cutter" though I haven't done it in almost 2 years now (tg). I still struggled with aneorexia from years of being told I was "fat"...stupid me believed that being 98lbs at 5'6" was huge....*sigh* lol on top of all this lovely crap, I have a mental disability that has a horrible stigma, which automatically makes people judge me as irrational and an idiot....it took me many years to get to the place I am now where I say (pardon my English) "Fuck all you haters!" I credit a lot of it to my daughter and my now DH. They both have given me unconditional love...no matter what "mood" I'm in, or if I'm sad for no reason, they still love me. That is what keeps me positive. I'm extremely grateful that God blessed us with this pregnancy, but I know it was in His time, when He was ready. I believe with every part of my being that your day will come. Keep the faith girl.... Much love your way!!

MamaTex: well hi there....not sure if I welcomed you...been kinda MIA lol just got one thing to say....Google iz de DEBIL! Lol it will confuse more than help haha

Mack & D: hi!! Hehe

Maggie...I think 2-3 days but don't quote me on that...I have gotten slight cramping with O before...everybody's body is different....just remember that.

Bama: OMG......tooooooo cuuuuttteeeeeee hehehe *in a gay man's voice* loooooooovvvveeeee ittttttt! Haha!

Never: awwwwww you were worried about me hehehehehehe I will try not to be MIA for so long! I know BAD Sweetz!!

AFM.....been overly exhausted latly. That is part of the reason I haven't been on. I get up, eat, nap, eat, watch some TV, nap, eat, pass out for the night HAHAA! DH has been taking me out to try to keep me awake but that just exhausted me more. I'm getting rounder and I swear I'm starting to waddle haha! Talked to docs and they said the exhaustion is normal. According to them, I am compensating now in the 2nd tri for the weight I didn't gain in the first bc of being so sick. They warned me that my diet needs to be as healthy as possible bc of gaining weight. They also told me that Xander is going to be BIG. At my 19 week scan he was measuring closer to 21 weeks. They said depending on how big he gets later on, they might need to induce labor as I'm kinda a small female lol. They said if I carry him full term, which they doubt I will, that it is a definite c-section...no discussion. I'm not too surprised as my 1st was almost a 10 pounder and she was early. *sigh* when I say I'm 5 months pregnant people ask if I'm having twins...that is how much bigger I have gotten constant "Xander aerobics". This little bugger never stays still. All and all...things are going well. just need a good nights sleep haha!

Oh and FYI....I got the clear to BD finally...and OMG.......not sure if it was the lapse in BD or being pregnant but DAYUM! Lol!!

 

[carlywarly]

I am hoping for a NOVEMBER BFP!! Currently cd 9 and hoping for a +OPK within the next week

 

[Leather3280]

Hey Runnergirl: I remember that the+ opk on the 15th was only on the target brand one and those stayed positive for a while. I got my real positive from the dollar tree brand. I will probably get those again if af comes in the next day or two. I'm just pretty positive that I'm out this month. But I'm not sad about that prospect and I give God and you ladies the credit for that.

Hey Sweetz: I definitely won't go into weight thing except I'm 5"4 or 5"5 and a little over 200lb. Trying to lose weight,I don't eat each, I have hypothyroid and pcos. I'm on levothyroxin and metformin( for hypo and pcos). I've been over weight since I was a kid and got teased about that a lot growing up and looked down on myself for it as well. I love to exercise, I especially want to get the Zumba DVD. I also l love walking, I could walk ten miles without a problem any day of the week. I don't like running, jogging I may get into soon. I guess I just felt I shouldn't exercise to much during the "o" time( I thought don't want to prevent his swimmers from getting where they need to be), than during the two week wait just walked. Now I felt like I could have exercised a bit more than I did.

Carlywarly: Good luck and fx for your bfp in November. Are you new to this thread? If so welcome!

AFM: I guess I lied about getting into "the weight thing" lol. I think.... Hmm forgot what I was thinking at the time Well if af comes Sunday or Monday I'm going to do a couple things different:1) I'm going to eat my grapefruit(I Love Grapefruit especially ruby red Texas grapefruit) and 2) I'm not going to take tussin I think because I don't have much of any cm in the first place. But I'm going to get the dollar tree opk again since it seemed to work for me this cycle and possibly buy some cheap Internet cheapies.

 

[carlywarly]

Carlywarly: Good luck and fx for your bfp in November. Are you new to this thread? If so welcome!

I am new indeed Thanks for the welcome....good luck to you - and everyone esle too

 

[BeautifulD]

I think I may have got my bfp pictures are in my journal if any of you would like to have a look

 

[mackjess]

Totally bummed. My opk stick had a very faint line so it looks like it is getting lighter and I never got close to a positive. Last month it got gradually darker until the positive day. But last month was the first cycle after my m/c and I wasn't ready to try then. I barely had any blood with my AF last week, so I am glad I waited. There's no way I had enough lining!

In the spirit of tmi, my cervix feels exactly the same as it did right after AF was over. I don't think I'm going to O this cycle. I'm going to keep up with the opk and bd thru the weekend.

I have a follow up with my obgyn on 11/2 so I can talk to her soon. Pretty scared and praying nothing new is going on with me.

 

[carlywarly]

I think I may have got my bfp pictures are in my journal if any of you would like to have a look

Oooh too exciting!! Fx for you hun!!

 

[mackjess]

I think I may have got my bfp pictures are in my journal if any of you would like to have a look

Oooh too exciting!! Fx for you hun!!

OK, figuring out how to look at your journal took me forever. And I'm not sure I needed to know you can keep journals as I spend tooo much time on this site now. LOL.

FINALLY got to your pic. For 8 DPO I'd say that is the perfect color for a BFP so you should believe it!! Congrats BeautifulD!

 

[HisGrace]

Congratulations BeautifulD!

 

[carlywarly]

Totally bummed. My opk stick had a very faint line so it looks like it is getting lighter and I never got close to a positive. Last month it got gradually darker until the positive day. But last month was the first cycle after my m/c and I wasn't ready to try then. I barely had any blood with my AF last week, so I am glad I waited. There's no way I had enough lining!

In the spirit of tmi, my cervix feels exactly the same as it did right after AF was over. I don't think I'm going to O this cycle. I'm going to keep up with the opk and bd thru the weekend.

I have a follow up with my obgyn on 11/2 so I can talk to her soon. Pretty scared and praying nothing new is going on with me.

This happened to me last cycle...I was sure I missed my surge...lines got darker then faded to nothing...I thought I wasn't going to get a +OPK. I actually kept testing and got my + 4 days later than usual and ov'd 3 days later than before. It was also my 1st cycle after mc. Keep testing and hopefully you will get a + soon

 

[Leather3280]

BeautifulD: Congrats! We won't be able to bfp buddies(pretty sure) but I'm so happy for you. Those things you were talking about in your journal(like the crying and easily upset sound like good bfp symptoms to me).

AFM: Packing everything back up now so we can move back to the place we were at before coming here. Three more weeks until we into our new house thank the good Lord! I'm so tired of living out of suitcases.

 

[nevergivingup]

Carlywarly: Good luck and fx for your bfp in November. Are you new to this thread? If so welcome!

I am new indeed Thanks for the welcome....good luck to you - and everyone esle too

I think I may have got my bfp pictures are in my journal if any of you would like to have a look

Totally bummed. My opk stick had a very faint line so it looks like it is getting lighter and I never got close to a positive. Last month it got gradually darker until the positive day. But last month was the first cycle after my m/c and I wasn't ready to try then. I barely had any blood with my AF last week, so I am glad I waited. There's no way I had enough lining!

In the spirit of tmi, my cervix feels exactly the same as it did right after AF was over. I don't think I'm going to O this cycle. I'm going to keep up with the opk and bd thru the weekend.

I have a follow up with my obgyn on 11/2 so I can talk to her soon. Pretty scared and praying nothing new is going on with me.

Hi ladies!!!

It is such a beautiful Darn Day!!! I can just lay in the park or sit outside all day, Fall is on it's way....maybe it's already here

Sweetz: AHHHHHH, YAYYY you're so back!! Def Bad Sweetz, don't worry me crazy like that. But I do understand that you were tired and exhausted, I hope you had rest up but from the sounds of it,seems like you were to busy DTD And YAYYY for getting the go ahead and yes ma'am you two had alot of "nasty" built up...hahaha!! But seriously, now that I'm 21wks, my sex drive has embarrassly increased...I'm...uhhhmmmmnn Horny all the time, I need to find some hobbies! And imnso proud of you for not hurting yourself in 2 years, You are worth more then that, you don't know how much you mean to someone.

BeautifulD: I didnt look yet, but I'm going to soon as I post this. Ooooooohhh I'm EXCITED!!!!!

Meggiemay: I had cramps in "O" with two of my pregnancies. Take it ma'am!! FX!!

Mackjess: Hey dont rely to fully on those opks, I used them twice with both my pregnancies and they never came up positive....not until I was PREGO then they came up positive Don't lose hope, I thought I didn't "O" either I was mistaken! And hey just as you said, if it dosent happen just think you're giving your uterus time to build itself back up so the Coming soon baby will def Stick!!! FX that those opks are just as crazy and fibbers as mine were and you are indeed PREGO!!

Leather: Hey it's ok to vent, that's what we're here for so surely vent away!!! And sorry ab DH, sometimes they can be a pain. But I'm sure he loves ya. And my FX are still crossed for Your BFP to show instead of AF but ma'am we're here with you until you get it!!! Head Up, Chin up, it's coming soon. And exercising is a great way to TTC, I got prego everytime I exercised, keep at it it'll pay off in the end. Hey I was 216lbs when I was 19years old. I wanted a change, so I exercise and diet and dropped down to 140lbs. I loved it but it made me realized I loved being happy more so don't let your weight define you, I'm sure you are a beautiful women inside and out big or small

Carlywarly: HIIIII MA'AM!!! And Welcome to this wonderful group!!! I'm so in love with these ladies and I hope you will be too!! I hope you stick around with us and go on your with us, we're def here to root you on!!! Now let's get that BFP!!

Runnergrl: Hi ma'am, how are you enjoying your Vacae with the family.

Hi to Stork, we're missing ya!! Hope your packing and unpacking going easy.

Hi to Garfie, Hopestruck, lpjkp, BayBeeEm, BamaGurl, Sirbaby, MamaTex, AngelSerenity, All the MIA ladies. And anyone else I may have missed not intentional.

 

[mackjess]

Totally bummed. My opk stick had a very faint line so it looks like it is getting lighter and I never got close to a positive. Last month it got gradually darker until the positive day. But last month was the first cycle after my m/c and I wasn't ready to try then. I barely had any blood with my AF last week, so I am glad I waited. There's no way I had enough lining!

In the spirit of tmi, my cervix feels exactly the same as it did right after AF was over. I don't think I'm going to O this cycle. I'm going to keep up with the opk and bd thru the weekend.

I have a follow up with my obgyn on 11/2 so I can talk to her soon. Pretty scared and praying nothing new is going on with me.

This happened to me last cycle...I was sure I missed my surge...lines got darker then faded to nothing...I thought I wasn't going to get a +OPK. I actually kept testing and got my + 4 days later than usual and ov'd 3 days later than before. It was also my 1st cycle after mc. Keep testing and hopefully you will get a + soon

Thanks. This is my 2nd cycle after my m/c, and I O'd right on time last month. I was doing OK until I checked the cervix position and it's the same. It's low and pointy and feels like my nose tip. Now it kinda hurts, and that worries me. It shouldn't hurt just from checking it.

I'm trying to stay positive though, and keep BD'ing and OPK'ing and see what the doc says on 11/2. There is a good chance I could get BFP this month, and a good chance I won't. Even though I try to keep an open mind about it, and think it could happen for me within the next 6 months I KNOW that if I don't get a BFP the first time trying after the m/c I'm going to be devastated and worried no matter how rational I try to be. I wasn't even trying when I did get prego, so this is my first time trying at all. I wouldn't be such a spazz about it if I hadn't miscarried last month. Crazy thing is we were going to NTNP starting this month, and then really try next year if nothing happened. Thanks to the m/c I am a spazz about it all now.

 

[carlywarly]

Carlywarly: HIIIII MA'AM!!! And Welcome to this wonderful group!!! I'm so in love with these ladies and I hope you will be too!! I hope you stick around with us and go on your with us, we're def here to root you on!!! Now let's get that BFP!!

Thank you for the welcome - and thank you for the support

I wish the same for you