March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

Eye, I thought your email was very nice and in fact it made me a little emotional, maybe she just doesn't know how to handle it all some people don't, he reaction is unfair and she shouldn't make it about her, the next time she says something to your dh he needs to step up and say something.
Lisa, nice to see you here, hope things are well.
Hope everyone else is well, I am shattered I went out for lunch with friends and now am exhausted, I'm supposed to go back to work on wed but I will miss the afternoon naps!
 
Eyemom, I will try to sum it up for you nicely.

I had myomectomy in June 2011 to remove fibroids (this was waaay before I thought about TTC). This is a surgery similar to a C-Section. You're required to wait at least 6 months before TTC.

After the surgery, I was anxious to TTC just to see if I "work." I had an HSG in April 2012 and got pregnant the same cycle. That ended in a MC on Memorial Day weekend.

Then I got pregnant again without a period between. That resulted in a beautiful baby boy born on the same day as Never and Sweetz (Feb 2013)!

I got pregnant AGAIN when my baby was 5 months old (I wasn't sure that I was ovulating b/c I wasn't getting any ovulation signs like I used to). That resulted in a MC just a week ago at 5.5 weeks.

So here I am! I am a very BAD Baby & Bumper b/c I don't sign on as much as I used to. Life is very busy with a FT job and baby to care for in the evening. I don't get a chance to catch up on the writings anymore.

Thanks lisalee! :-) I don't really know what your story is but I really really hope things turn out okay for you.

I've heard stories of people getting pg after their HSG so I am hopeful. :-)
 
lisa - I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. :hugs: When we get our rainbows we like to think it won't ever happen again.
 
mowat: FX that ovulation comes through for you soon so you can get this show on the road!!!

garfie: So when shall you be testing?

Starry: Sometimes going for a shot in the dark lands in a bullseye ;)

Hippielove: Good luck this cycle

eyemom: I didn't see where you crossed a line in your email. You let your MIl know what was going on, asked for her prayers, well wishes, and consideration, then filled her in on more than I would have!! If she fails to understand your position and your DH's, all you can do is know you tried to communicate. The ball is in her court now. Sometimes you are damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Sweetz33: I must have missed your diagnosis!! Sorry to hear about that. You have a lot to continue to live for though. Life doesn't stop and our children don't stop needing us. It would be nice to hit pause though, especially on aunt flow. I do NOT like unscheduled visits from AF. I have experienced this only a handful of times over the course of my life, but each and every time is like a punch to the face and it happens at a very inconveinent time!!! I hear you on being too tired to even cuddle. My post partum bleeding seems to be on its way out, but both my husband and I are too exhausted by the end of the day to do anything with one another but hang out with the baby until she decides she wants to fall asleep

Pink: Definitely get in as many naps as you can. I resisted them at first when pregnant, but I felt so much better. Heck, if one has the ability to take naps, one should do it, pregnant or not!! I see you are two days away from 28 weeks. can't wait for you to cross over!!!

lisalee1: I remember you. Good to see you around again. I am sorry to hear about the loss, but am glad to hear that things are going ok for you.

Bama: Having two sweet little ones, I am sure you are busy. Hope all is well!!!

Tricia: Wishing that all be well!!!

Hey to all the other ladies!!

AFM: I had my 3 week follow up appointment. I came in earlier than 6 weeks because my OB wanted to make sure my C section insection had healed. It has. I definitely feel like it has!! I am a few pounds lighter from before I got pregnant, which is nice to see. I credit continuing with my GD diet. I have made a few modifications of course, sneaking in some leftover baby shower cake and Nestle Toll House cookies on occasion. Hehe. The post partum bleeding has pretty much let up, but it is sneaky like a ninja!! Just when I think it is over it comes back. Can't wait for it to be gone so my husband and I can attempt quality time together. I decided not to do hormonal birth control for now. The condoms will probably be a good thing for my husband as it will help him last, seeing how it has been so long since we DTD.

Sky is doing ok. I am continuing to supplement with formula. There is no nipple confusion, my biggest concern, so I will continue doing that until I am advised to take another course of action. She has another weight check tomorrow so I am hoping she is back at birth weight or at least close to it. I would hate for her to have lost weight. She shouldn't be as her diapers have become a lot wetter and more frequent! She also appears to be exercising her muscles more so she seems ok.

Here is a photo of her from this past Saturday
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Mama - that's great that you're noticing wetter diapers! Sounds like you're doing a terrific job balancing BF'ing and FF. And that's so lovely that Skye is not struggling with nipple confusion. Makes your job easier. And I'm glad that you're healing well. Another stress factor gone.
 
Thank you Pink. <3 Hope you had a nice lunch, sorry it wore you out. GL with going back to work. <3

Lisalee~ Thanks for bringing me up to speed. That's so cool that you all have birthday buddy babies. :) So sorry for your losses. :hugs: I was a little confused before, before you changed your signature, but I saw what you were typing...I was hoping I was just reading it wrong somehow. :( :hugs: Lovely to "meet" you, and no worries about being a "bad" B&Ber...real life and that sweet baby must take priority! <3

Mamatex, thank you. I know it wasn't a bad email. Yet I still catch myself thinking maybe I should have said this or that, or maybe I should have phrased that differently. But most of the time I'm just whatever. DH says she'll always find a way to make it about her. It's a pretty sad ordeal and it would be a huge tangent to even try to explain the MIL stuff. She is a good person, just not normal anymore. We used to enjoy doing things together, but she hasn't left her house in 5 years....

Glad to hear Miss Sky is doing well. <3 She is so beautiful. You are doing GREAT mama!
 
Ugh. I hate the first half of the TWW. It's too early for symptom-spotting and testing feels a million years away so all I can do is twiddle my thumbs and waver between hope and despair. (melodramatic, I know)
 
The carpet fitter have just left, I love the nursery now it's really starting to look like my little girls room, here's a pic it looks like a really small room but it used to have a double bed in there how that fit i'll never know perhaps the stripes make it look smaller lol

Anyway here it is so far
 

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Lisalee - BIG :hugs: hun so sorry for your recent loss. Sending hugs your way to help you heal emotionally and physically:flower:

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Pink it is so sweet , all your hard work is paying off :) it looks the perfect room for a little girl xxxxx
 
Thanks left I'm really chuffed with it, I have blinds that are being fitted soon hopefully and then the pretty baby curtains, they're once upon a time curtains from mama and papas they match the light shade and a few other accessories I have.
My cousin is bringing the cot round later, I'm so excited, I need to order the wardrobe and drawers then it'll be just about ready for my baby girl and I can relax and concentrate on cooking a baby!

How're you doing lefty, how's pregnancy treating you?
 
Time is now dragging on the lead up to my 20/21 week scan ! The count down is on only another 19 days :) I'm feeling a lot better re ms in the past 3/4 days not a sick so hoping its on it way at last !! Other than that I'm doing great :) Nothing bought or planned yet , waiting till after the scan then let the buying and planning begin !
 
I know what you mean when your so desperate to get to that scan it just drags but believe me after it'll fly by, so your finding out the gender then? We Waite too to find out before I started buying but I already had a plan in my head of her room, I just knew she was a girl.
Glad your feeling better physically too, the 2nd tri is supposed to be a wonderful time, enjoy every second, it flys by so fast.
Can't wait to find out if it's lefty boy or lefty girl!! Xx
 
Lol yes I hope to find out if LO co - operates on the day !! I have feeling its a girl but think only because everyone else thinks its a boy !!!! Really don mind one bit once they are safe and sound and healthy . Does it feel real yet for you pink ? Most days it still doesn't feel real to me lol...... I'm waiting for it to hit me like a ton of bricks one day and ill think " holy crap I'm having a baby !!! "
 
It's weird as I know it's really happening I can feel her moving and kicking all the time but it's so hard to seriously think in less than 3 months ill be a mummy that really scares me.

The scan makes it more real you can see every little thing the chambers of the heart and the spine it's like nothing I've ever seen before it's proper magic you will love it!
 
You will be a brilliant mum and will be an expert by the time my LO arrives !!! Ill be looking for tips :)
 
Ha ha I don't know about expert but thanks, I'm hoping it comes naturally that's what I hear:shrug:

The cot is in!! I'm so happy it's like a real nursery! My cousin brought over Moses basket, cot, bouncy chair and steriliser so I'm set now lol just need to get mattresses for the cot and basket and they'll be ready for her, it's a bit premature but I'm miss organised, not normally but in this instance apparently it must be a mum thing lol

Here it is
 

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