March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Unexpected212]

Some women ovulate straight after a miscarriage or when HCG hits low enough you ovulate

It's impossible to know for sure

But if you treat day 1 of the miscarriage as the same as day 1 of the period you could work it out like that.

 

[eyemom]

Hi ladies, just wanted to pop in and say hi. I won't have time for personals probably until after Christmas maybe. We'll see. I just have soooo much to do.

Unexpected so glad things are looking more positive, though I had a feeling it was just the digis not being sensitive enough. Cheering for you and your new lil bean.

Everyone else, cheering for you as always.

AFM, starting OPKs tonight or tomorrow, but not really feeling like ov is around the corner or anything.

Anyway, I'll be lurking and maybe posting little bits. Just not my usual novels.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

Hey Ladies, I've been really busy, plus I'm new so I don't even think anyone remembers me since I haven't posted in a week lol...but anywho, I hope everyone is doin great!!!!

Unexpected- OMG CONGRATS. This is a great Xmas present! I would be so ecstatic to be in your shoes! This is beautiful and I'm so happy for you!

Gray- I'm sorry to hear abt your lost and I know the feeling. I lost my daughter at 22weeks Sept 8th 2013. It's still fresh so I can only imagine. This is a great site with beautiful, kind-hearted women with amazing stories, so I'm hoping this site will give you hope just like it has given me!

AFM- I posted on Dec 9th that it looked as if my period started because I checked and there was blood in my panty-liner. I lost all hope and was crushed. It was so strange because my period came a week or so early. Well the bleeding was moderate the first 2 days then the following 2 it tapered off with spotting fresh blood. No blood-colts, no tissue...so strange. It remained fresh red blood the entire time.

Now I am so confused lol. I thought the whole purpose of a period was to shed the lining of your uterus? Why didn't that happen, what I keep asking myself. Could I be pregnant or am I reading too deep into this?

 

[mowat]

I'll probably start testing Friday Starry, 'cause I know I won't be able to stop myself! I'll only be 8dpo, but I've gotten a BFP at eight days before, so you never know. I wonder if you always implant around the same time with each pregnancy---what I mean is if I normally get a positive around 8dpo, will I always? Hmmm.

5dpo today. Keep going back and forth between thinking "I'm probably not pregnant" to "I'm totally pregnant, why wouldn't I be!". The usual. The only symptom I have is waking up in the middle of the night and being boiling hot. Wondering if it's the progesterone, although I can't remember if this happened last month or not.

 

[Tricia173]

I'll probably start testing Friday Starry, 'cause I know I won't be able to stop myself! I'll only be 8dpo, but I've gotten a BFP at eight days before, so you never know. I wonder if you always implant around the same time with each pregnancy---what I mean is if I normally get a positive around 8dpo, will I always? Hmmm.

5dpo today. Keep going back and forth between thinking "I'm probably not pregnant" to "I'm totally pregnant, why wouldn't I be!". The usual. The only symptom I have is waking up in the middle of the night and being boiling hot. Wondering if it's the progesterone, although I can't remember if this happened last month or not.

Good luck! I hope you get your BFP! Fingers crossed!

 

[mowat]

So I was getting the dogs "dressed" for a walk (boots and coat---it's -30C today), and as I was bending over one of them I almost threw up everywhere! What? Either a pregnancy symptom, or I ate too much lunch! Really, it could go either way!

 

[Starry Night]

mowat - I hope it's a good sign! A few days before my bfp I started to gag whenever I bent over and it's what made me decide to test early (I had been planning to wait for AF to be late). I tend to get early bfps too so fingers crossed you get yours this weekend.

 

[qwk]

5dpo today. Keep going back and forth between thinking "I'm probably not pregnant" to "I'm totally pregnant, why wouldn't I be!". The usual.

Haha I know that feeling... Good luck hon!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

am a TOTAL mess today and tonight. Had a fight with DH on way in talking about baby stuff again and next steps and he is just not totally on board with IUI yet. He wants to give it one more month or even more of what we've already been doing and i get that and I know we have to check out the finances, etc. I'm just super stressed since January everything starts back over and we'll be paying out the arse for my meds and ultrasound and stuff. Ugh. i'm so nervous for another negative tomorrow morning. This journey really sucks sometimes.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

am a TOTAL mess today and tonight. Had a fight with DH on way in talking about baby stuff again and next steps and he is just not totally on board with IUI yet. He wants to give it one more month or even more of what we've already been doing and i get that and I know we have to check out the finances, etc. I'm just super stressed since January everything starts back over and we'll be paying out the arse for my meds and ultrasound and stuff. Ugh. i'm so nervous for another negative tomorrow morning. This journey really sucks sometimes.

Aww ttcbabyisom- I am so sorry to hear abt your fight. You are right, this whole process is frustrating. I know it's even more frustrating when you and DH are not on the same page. I THANK GOD that me and DH are on the same page finally...I just got my BFN so I'm hoping that you will have a better outcome and get your

 

[mowat]

Agh, TTC! This is not a fun journey. Hope you guys get it figured out soon----go team?

 

[LeahLou]

Sounds promising mowat!!

I know what you mean ttc! DH has been back and forth this month when typically he's the one that's pushed TTC! I really dislike this part of the journey. ready to be pregnant and stay that way for 9 months!
and !!!

 

[brunettebimbo]

TTC sorry your having a hard time

AFM - I finally got crosshairs and sore boobs I feel out already though. My chart is a mess compared to my BFP one!

 

[qwk]

ttc I am so sorry for everything you are going through... I can't even imagine how stressful it is. Big to you... you will get through this and you will get your baby.

 

[qwk]

well ladies I failed to waiting to 11 dpo, but my impatience was somehow rewarded with a very light BFP at 10 dpo - pretty clear on a wondfo, a bit of a squinter on FRER... it is feeling a little surreal at the moment, trying not to freak out yet. I had bloodwork orders for a beta test waiting at my practice - was supposed to go in and see if my numbers had gone to zero - so I'm going to go in and have that done today and get started with that to see if I'm doubling.

Last time I did the clearblue easy digitals... and they alerted me to the fact that my numbers weren't progressing. But I think I'm just going to skip them this time, I have seen way too many people whose numbers didn't progress right on those even though they were in fact fine.

Best wishes to everyone...!

 

[Pinkcasi]

Qwk congrats!!! Fx'd for a sticky xx

 

[ESwemba84]

Ttcbabyisom, it gets stressful when you start getting into fertility treatments. We were on the verge of IUI with injectables a few months ago before my back issues put TTC on hold. It seemed like a lot of the time we were arguing about finances and timing, and there was more talking about it than doing anything. So frustrating. Apparently it's not uncommon to go through all this. Fertility treatments are not for the faint of heart! I hope you guys work something out, or you get a BFP.

Congrats, qwk!

AFM, I got denied a 2nd time by my insurance company for my back surgery, so no telling at this point when it'll be. I'm having another surgeon give a 2nd opinion tomorrow, and at the same time gathering evidence for my appeal. This whole thing is just a mess. I don't want to be doing this. I'd rather be working towards getting knocked up. Anyway, I guess the upside is that I'm more mobile to visit people during the holidays. I'm just going to enjoy Christmas!

 

[Unexpected212]

Congrats QWK

I got my first squinter at 10dpo

I had a beta done today get the results tommorow. Was worried clearblue just says 1-2 week at 14dpo still

 

[mackjess]

It's great that you are getting a positive on the digital at 14dpo! From what I understand they are normally a week or two behind when we talk about how many weeks prego we are. When you are 4 weeks pregnant, for real, the digital test will only say 2 weeks pregnant. It goes by the implantation date, because it takes about 10-12 DPO for you to produce HCG, as your week one. If you're 14DPO, implantation didn't occur til a few days after that for the digital to start counting. Sounds like 1-2 weeks is right on track. When we say how many weeks prego we are, we count from the first day of our last period and the clear blue would always be "behind" and I'm certain I'd have a nervous breakdown over it if I used them. That's why I didn't use them and stuck to the same brand of tests to watch progression. I just used one about every 3 days to reassure myself. POAS HERE!!

Those early weeks are sooo stressful. I hope time flies by and you get reassurance quickly. It never gets easier, I worried my entire pregnancy. But it was really nice to see the bloodwork from the doctor going up and that it was sticking!

TTC, sorry this is so stressful. I had my biggest screaming crying hissy fit ever at DH a month before I got my BFP. FX for the same for you so you don't ahve to keep going thru the stress!

Congrats QWK.

Hi Mowat!

Hello to all the new ladies and welcome. Sorry I haven't done many personals. I always read up while I'm pumping at work, but I am so TERRIBLE at typing one handed on my phone. I am rooting for everyone. FX

 

[Unexpected212]

Thank you.

I officially have no more pregnancy tests in my house. I'm done with testing! It's just driving me insane.

I shall get my betas tommorow and let you ladies know if things seem ok