March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[Starry Night]

brunette - keeping my fingers tightly crossed for you! I really hope there is a bfp waiting for you!

ES - BIG . That would have been so tough. Congrats on your new little guinea pig. Have fun getting to know it better.

 

[Mariahs Mom]

Mariah's moms when next scan and appt? Brunette I'm getting excited I'm lurking to see what happens for you this cycle!

My next scan should be next Friday at 12 weeks, but idk because we just moved and we're trying to get setup with a new doctor

 

[Left wonderin]

ES sending big cyber hugs to you , and your right those moments are torture . I remember about 4 months after my mmc standing in the supermarket watching a couple talk about and buy newborn nappies that were on special offer . I couldn't stop staring at them . I held it together until I got to the checkout . I was 10 pence short and burst into tears . I just ran and left all the shopping and a checkout girl with a very one mouth !!

I am so hopeful that tis will be a good year for BFP on this thread , but waiting and the journey sometimes sucks !!!

 

[mowat]

So sorry ES, I've been there many times. The other night I was reading my son a book with different "new experiences". Of course he wanted to read the section on the new baby. I held it together until we got to after the baby was born, and the mother was breast feeding. It never gets any easier.

Nothing new here, just sitting around waiting for a new cycle. Temperature has been really flat this cycle. Usually I'm a bit more up and down. NOt sure what that means. At least I only had one night of my end of cycle insomnia this week. Eyemom, did you ever ask your doctor about the insomnia? You get it too, don't you?

 

[eyemom]

HI!

I've been in lurk mode b/c it's an insane week and weekend ahead. But found out my FIL will be getting in town on Saturday instead of Friday, so that will help the insanity a bit! DD turns 3 on Sunday! So we're having her party that afternoon. So sorry I've been bad at keeping up with everyone lately.

ES *hugs*

mowat, oh man, I don't know if I'd make it through that book. Hopefully flat temps are good! Seems like it can't be bad! Last month, which was my first clomid cycle, my temps started a steady decline at 10 dpo.

Glad your insomnia didn't hit so hard this month. To answer your question, I haven't really gotten any answers about mine (yes that was me). Some months it's not too disruptive, and other months it's horrible. No real rhyme or reason to it. Sometimes I get it through my entire LP. I'm already getting it night before last, so hopefully that's not a sign of how the whole rest of the cycle is going to be. Last night I woke up, but it could have been the loud thunder that did it.

I brought it up when I saw the Dr, and he thought maybe it was hormonal, but it wasn't a good time in my cycle to test things at that time. I was there to get my clomid Rx, so I think we were just going to see what happened and then maybe address it later. I don't know. I don't feel that he blew me off, but didn't really get anywhere either. I am thinking of seeing a doctor in town I just learned about to discuss fertility (may try to get in before I do an IUI, I don't know) and talk about a bunch of my other issues (libido problems, insomnia, etc). She's an MD ob-gyn, but she's kind of more holistic in her approach now. She has a private practice and is really into hormone testing and stuff. I heard about her from a friend, and she said she spent an hour with her at her appointment just talking about EVERYTHING. We'll see. One step at a time I guess.

 

[mowat]

Thanks Eye. Hopefully you won't need an appointment with the new doctor, but sounds like a good thing to start looking into. Sorry about the insomnia---hope it stays away tonight.

Another BFN this morning at 12dpo. I'll test again tomorrow morning and if it's another BFN I'm going to stop the progesterone. So sick of the symptoms.

A long weekend for me, so happy weekend everyone!

 

[Sweetz33]

((((ES))))) I have been there. Same thing happened to me with my first loss. Then with my second loss I received a baby shower invitation for my friend who was due the same day as my loss. My friend felt awful bc she told her friend to not send me one bc I lost mine. Yeah so I bawled for a week over that one, so you held it better than me.

AFM...I FINALLY GOT INTO THE HIGH RISK CLINIC!!! They are calling me Monday to schedule my first appointment!!! Only took 4 months lol I went in again for major cramping and backache last night, doc looked at my history and wrote the referral immediately. He also said I needed to start on progesterone shots and have them until 37 weeks due to history. Checked cervix all good. HB 154. They also are monitoring my blood sugar as it has been in the high 100s and low 200s. They are concerned with gestational diabetes. I should find out within my 1st or 2nd appointment what team flag I am flying. Hubby and I are crossing our fingers for a girl.

I hope everyone is doing ok....sorry I am just excited I can FINALLY see a doctor. It is such a relief.

 

[Laelani]

Thanks for the well wishes ladies.

 

[mowat]

Sweetz!!!!!

 

[mowat]

Hi Kat! Hi Garfie! Hoping you guys are still around and just in lurk mode.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Mowat your temps look really good, I'm keeping my fingers crossed they stay high for you. 12 dpo could just be a tad early.

Es I know how you feel. I can't stop staring at pregnant women and I just don't want to see any of my pregnant friends. The more I back away the more my best friend who was due 3 weeks after me, keeps trying to see me. It's so so so SO hard after a loss to cope. Sending big hugs.

Brunette how are you, have you tested yet? Feeling hopeful for you!! I hope this will be your sticky bean if its your bfp.

As for me, af spotting just about finished and gearing up to ov. I'm temping (how do I get my chart in my signature?) and drinking grapefruit juice, have opks ready and conceive plus, on a baby making mission!!

 

[brunettebimbo]

Sweetz so glad you got the referall.

Mrs_W glad your sounding positive! FX for this cycle!

AFM - Had a really down day yesterday, another pregnancy announcement on Facebook, I ended up in a rough snotty mess sobbing on my husbands shoulder when I got in from work. It seemed to help because I feel a bit better today. Temperature dipped slightly today but it looks like it is following some sort of pattern. I woke up slightly nauseous this morning and my boobs finally became sore yesterday, they are usually sore from O. I have had quite a few symptoms but they could be AF, cramps, backache, emotions all over the place, slight nausea, sore boobs from 9DPO, constipation on and off, gassy, bloated, woke at 4am for a wee and starving etc.

I stupidly tested yesterday at 9DPO which of course was negative. AF is due on Monday. Keeping my fingers crossed but not feeling very hopeful.

 

[Mrs W 11]

When did you get your bfp the last 2 times brunette? I've got a good feeling for you this month, I feel like your bfp is on the horizon!!

I am tracking on ff and ovuline and I read on ovuline this morning that as my oestrogen increases (I think?!) ready for ovulating, I should be feeling more positive and have more energy and I definitely do! So interesting how our cycles can really dictate how we feel.

 

[brunettebimbo]

12DPO I think! Tested at 9DPO and BFN with both of them.

Yeh I've noticed that too. Feel different at each stage of my cycle too!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

12DPO I think! Tested at 9DPO and BFN with both of them.

Yeh I've noticed that too. Feel different at each stage of my cycle too!

I LOVE your stair climbing chart! It's looking so good!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

So sorry ES, I've been there many times. The other night I was reading my son a book with different "new experiences". Of course he wanted to read the section on the new baby. I held it together until we got to after the baby was born, and the mother was breast feeding. It never gets any easier.

Nothing new here, just sitting around waiting for a new cycle. Temperature has been really flat this cycle. Usually I'm a bit more up and down. NOt sure what that means. At least I only had one night of my end of cycle insomnia this week. Eyemom, did you ever ask your doctor about the insomnia? You get it too, don't you?

Hi there, i think your temps still look great! They are still high which is good.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

HI!

I've been in lurk mode b/c it's an insane week and weekend ahead. But found out my FIL will be getting in town on Saturday instead of Friday, so that will help the insanity a bit! DD turns 3 on Sunday! So we're having her party that afternoon. So sorry I've been bad at keeping up with everyone lately.

ES *hugs*

mowat, oh man, I don't know if I'd make it through that book. Hopefully flat temps are good! Seems like it can't be bad! Last month, which was my first clomid cycle, my temps started a steady decline at 10 dpo.

Glad your insomnia didn't hit so hard this month. To answer your question, I haven't really gotten any answers about mine (yes that was me). Some months it's not too disruptive, and other months it's horrible. No real rhyme or reason to it. Sometimes I get it through my entire LP. I'm already getting it night before last, so hopefully that's not a sign of how the whole rest of the cycle is going to be. Last night I woke up, but it could have been the loud thunder that did it.

I brought it up when I saw the Dr, and he thought maybe it was hormonal, but it wasn't a good time in my cycle to test things at that time. I was there to get my clomid Rx, so I think we were just going to see what happened and then maybe address it later. I don't know. I don't feel that he blew me off, but didn't really get anywhere either. I am thinking of seeing a doctor in town I just learned about to discuss fertility (may try to get in before I do an IUI, I don't know) and talk about a bunch of my other issues (libido problems, insomnia, etc). She's an MD ob-gyn, but she's kind of more holistic in her approach now. She has a private practice and is really into hormone testing and stuff. I heard about her from a friend, and she said she spent an hour with her at her appointment just talking about EVERYTHING. We'll see. One step at a time I guess.

Best of luck this cycle eye!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

((((ES))))) I have been there. Same thing happened to me with my first loss. Then with my second loss I received a baby shower invitation for my friend who was due the same day as my loss. My friend felt awful bc she told her friend to not send me one bc I lost mine. Yeah so I bawled for a week over that one, so you held it better than me.

AFM...I FINALLY GOT INTO THE HIGH RISK CLINIC!!! They are calling me Monday to schedule my first appointment!!! Only took 4 months lol I went in again for major cramping and backache last night, doc looked at my history and wrote the referral immediately. He also said I needed to start on progesterone shots and have them until 37 weeks due to history. Checked cervix all good. HB 154. They also are monitoring my blood sugar as it has been in the high 100s and low 200s. They are concerned with gestational diabetes. I should find out within my 1st or 2nd appointment what team flag I am flying. Hubby and I are crossing our fingers for a girl.

I hope everyone is doing ok....sorry I am just excited I can FINALLY see a doctor. It is such a relief.

:wave: Sweetz!

So glad to hear you're finally getting into a high risk clinic! Yay for perfect hb.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Having such a bad day emotionally. I just want to sit and cry. None of this was ever meant to happen

 

[ttcbabyisom]

I think my positive OPK hits between 1am and 7am because at around 6/7am when I was asleep I woke up because of a sharp cramp so I think I O'ed today! Gonna try to get another bd in later.