March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[janelleybean]

I know I come across as someone who only wants to focus on me sometimes. I don't mean it to sound like that. I want to support everyone. I'm just not very good with wording things.

No worries from me sweety

Thanks hun. Its just that in my life so far, I've been called insensitive and selfish so many times in my life that i worry that thats how everyone sees me.

Who cares what others think. I've been called: cold hearted, selfish, and evil. I say everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but not everyone's matter.

 

[janelleybean]

Janelley..glad you are feeling better today .. If u don't mind me asking, you said you think u and your dh didn't bd on ovulation day? I am all of a sudden rethinking my thoughts on when I ovulate...grr

Sweetz.. Omg, I'm so sorry know this is a difficult time, but know we are here for you. We may not be in the same physical environment, but virtually, we are always here.

Army..I'm with you.. I feel like all I keep seeing is bfn's.. I hope you get those tests in the mail or you get to buy some tonight..and you get your bfp

Baybeeem..congratulations

I am thinking about trying to start exercising again on Monday. I know, I know, it should be a natural part of my daily routine, but there is no time lol..i used to exercise 7 days a week but stopped..(this was a long time ago).. I wonder, would that help my cycles?

Yea, I'm not sure. I will know more when I know my for sure EDD, but for now it seems sort of impossible that we BD on O day only because my husband had hurt his neck and I was afraid to have sex with him in fear that I might hurt him, then when FF said I should be Oing I was so tired. I have written down all the days that we BDs I will know more when I get my EDD. I will then let you know. Just don't let me forget!! I saw that you thought you were having a 50 something day cycle. That is crazy. Has that always been the case for you? have you still not had a period? Oh man, I would be so flustered at this point if I were you. Exercise is a great way to stay in shape, but I agree with Army, it can mess up your cycles if your really over doing it. But you have to REALLY over do it. Next time you see your doctor, I would talk to them about it. I've heard it can straighten out your cycles as well. It goes both ways, I guess it just depends on which person you are. I wish you the best of luck with it though, and let me know if you have any other questions.

 

[Aspe]

Janelley..glad you are feeling better today .. If u don't mind me asking, you said you think u and your dh didn't bd on ovulation day? I am all of a sudden rethinking my thoughts on when I ovulate...grr

Sweetz.. Omg, I'm so sorry know this is a difficult time, but know we are here for you. We may not be in the same physical environment, but virtually, we are always here.

Army..I'm with you.. I feel like all I keep seeing is bfn's.. I hope you get those tests in the mail or you get to buy some tonight..and you get your bfp

Baybeeem..congratulations

I am thinking about trying to start exercising again on Monday. I know, I know, it should be a natural part of my daily routine, but there is no time lol..i used to exercise 7 days a week but stopped..(this was a long time ago).. I wonder, would that help my cycles?

Yea, I'm not sure. I will know more when I know my for sure EDD, but for now it seems sort of impossible that we BD on O day only because my husband had hurt his neck and I was afraid to have sex with him in fear that I might hurt him, then when FF said I should be Oing I was so tired. I have written down all the days that we BDs I will know more when I get my EDD. I will then let you know. Just don't let me forget!! I saw that you thought you were having a 50 something day cycle. That is crazy. Has that always been the case for you? have you still not had a period. Oh man, I would be so flustered at this point if I were you. Exercise is a great way to stay in shape, but I agree with Army, it can mess up your cycles if your really over doing it. But you have to REALLY over due it. Next time you see your doctor, I would talk to them about it. I've heard it can straighten out your cycles as well. It goes both ways, I guess it just depends on which person you are. I wish you the best of luck with it though, and let me know if you have any other questions.

thanks for the response. I will try not to forget to ask you as well..lol..well I use to bleed every month, then it went weird.
In April,i was a week late
In may, I missed
In June, I was late but seen blood
In July, I missed
In august, I was late but seen blood

So between April-June and June-august there was approximately 58 days in between menstrual periods..on July 29 I had 2 positive hpt and then on august 1 it was negative at doctors. Since then my tests have been negative too, all I get is what seems to be evaporation lines
I had all those tests done and everything came back good. Just the estrogen test is not yet back. The doctor only said sometimes our bodies change and so does our periods and even though it seems I'm only having a period every second month, that done mean I don't ovulate every month.

 

[Krissy485]

Ok first of all Congrats BAyBeeEmm!!!!! YAY!!!! and those are lovely numbers for how early you are. And I missed you to!!!! Thanks for asking about me! Army pretty much said it in nut shell and i will explain more bellow...

Janelle- YAY for feeling better...are you drinking all that lovely water? Maybe that is what helped?

Army- omg you are the most selfish person I have ever seen....lmao not!!!!! You have always been nothing but helpful and caring to us all!

MizzPod- I am sorry you view our thread that way...we try hard to be supportive but, forgive me if this comes off rude because that is not what i mean for it to be, but I do not remember you actually introducing yourself and kind of giving us a back ground on what your journey has been. I have only ever seen you pop in to say when you are testing and to ask questions. For us here it is about getting to know eachother and supporting the whole person not just the part about TTC...I know that may have just sounded harsh but we are pretty protective in this group and I honestly do not appriciate having someone who never really tried to get to know everyone basically call us insentive to new comers cuz we are not at all....but of course that is just my opinion and if you do want stay and be apart of our group more the marrier honestly! But please tell us your story so we have a real feel of who you are....

Ok so did not mean for that to sound like a rant, I just love my ladies and I am little protective..

Never- Hi busy lady!!!

Garfie- I did not forget about you! How you doing lady?

Aspe-exercise 7 days a week say what? I suck at a routine lol

Sweetz- Oh my lovely! I am so sorry! I was going to say how can he even dare say that maybe it was there before...and if it is what i think it is then it does make sense for how you have been feeling.... We love you here and just remember dont go all crazy on him jail is not the place to have that baby!!! Did you find out anymore on that house??? that is a happy thought!

Hope- I see you down there...lol how have you been????

AFM-Ok ladies so last night while giving dh a back rub i took it as a chance to poor my heart out to him and what did it get me...silence! I honestly he did not say a word! I told him that it hurts me that when i come on to him i get some excuse about not wanting to have sex....or when i want to talk about TTC again he changes the subject. I told him i love him and if 3 kids is all he wants then I am ok with that and i will make the appointment to go see my ob and get my tubes tide i am fine with that but if he does want to TTC I am happy with that to but I want to do it right away, because i am torn to between wanting another baby. I love my kids and my youngest is 3 so i have that baby itch since it has been so long since i had a baby but at the same time i am done with midnight feedings, and teething, and bottles and most of all DIAPERS! I am at the stage with my kids where they are learning to read and write and hitting all the big milstones in life. Like my oldest two can now swing all by themselves! or that my youngest who just turned three says the funniest things...like today we were driving down the road and he would say no cars there no one home then pass another home and he says two cars there, someone home...so freaking cute!!!

So after I poored my heart out and even cried while i did it....he said nothing...nothing...but i am happy to have weight off my sholders...i am also looking forward to going to the football game tommorrow with him, unless he takes a friend or my six yr lol...but i am 99% sure i get to go to the Michigan state game tomorrow i love it there...

ok now i wrote a book...i will see how many new posts since i wrote this...

once again sorry if i offended anyone by what i wrote above...I just really love my ladies you guys have been my rock lately TAHNK YOU!!!! and even if we decide no more babies i am not leaving you lol

 

[janelleybean]

Aspe- I might be thinking of someone else, but are you the one that had a bunch of tests done to check your hormone levels? Did you get your results back yet?

 

[Krissy485]

Aspe- crazy long cyles, I am glad that you are getting the testing done but has the dr ever gave you a hint of what the reason maybe for the craziness?

Janelle- I just cut up an apple for my Avarie and saw the see and thought...awe janelle's baby is this big...lol...i know i am crazy lol...

 

[Aspe]

Aspe- I might be thinking of someone else, but are you the one that had a bunch of tests done to check your hormone levels? Did you get your results back yet?

Yes that was me. I posted the results yesterday on here.
My lh, fsh, thyroid, CBC was all normal
Just don't have the results back for the estrogen test

 

[armymama2012]

Ok first of all Congrats BAyBeeEmm!!!!! YAY!!!! and those are lovely numbers for how early you are. And I missed you to!!!! Thanks for asking about me! Army pretty much said it in nut shell and i will explain more bellow...

Janelle- YAY for feeling better...are you drinking all that lovely water? Maybe that is what helped?

Army- omg you are the most selfish person I have ever seen....lmao not!!!!! You have always been nothing but helpful and caring to us all!

MizzPod- I am sorry you view our thread that way...we try hard to be supportive but, forgive me if this comes off rude because that is not what i mean for it to be, but I do not remember you actually introducing yourself and kind of giving us a back ground on what your journey has been. I have only ever seen you pop in to say when you are testing and to ask questions. For us here it is about getting to know eachother and supporting the whole person not just the part about TTC...I know that may have just sounded harsh but we are pretty protective in this group and I honestly do not appriciate having someone who never really tried to get to know everyone basically call us insentive to new comers cuz we are not at all....but of course that is just my opinion and if you do want stay and be apart of our group more the marrier honestly! But please tell us your story so we have a real feel of who you are....

Ok so did not mean for that to sound like a rant, I just love my ladies and I am little protective..

Never- Hi busy lady!!!

Garfie- I did not forget about you! How you doing lady?

Aspe-exercise 7 days a week say what? I suck at a routine lol

Sweetz- Oh my lovely! I am so sorry! I was going to say how can he even dare say that maybe it was there before...and if it is what i think it is then it does make sense for how you have been feeling.... We love you here and just remember dont go all crazy on him jail is not the place to have that baby!!! Did you find out anymore on that house??? that is a happy thought!

Hope- I see you down there...lol how have you been????

AFM-Ok ladies so last night while giving dh a back rub i took it as a chance to poor my heart out to him and what did it get me...silence! I honestly he did not say a word! I told him that it hurts me that when i come on to him i get some excuse about not wanting to have sex....or when i want to talk about TTC again he changes the subject. I told him i love him and if 3 kids is all he wants then I am ok with that and i will make the appointment to go see my ob and get my tubes tide i am fine with that but if he does want to TTC I am happy with that to but I want to do it right away, because i am torn to between wanting another baby. I love my kids and my youngest is 3 so i have that baby itch since it has been so long since i had a baby but at the same time i am done with midnight feedings, and teething, and bottles and most of all DIAPERS! I am at the stage with my kids where they are learning to read and write and hitting all the big milstones in life. Like my oldest two can now swing all by themselves! or that my youngest who just turned three says the funniest things...like today we were driving down the road and he would say no cars there no one home then pass another home and he says two cars there, someone home...so freaking cute!!!

So after I poored my heart out and even cried while i did it....he said nothing...nothing...but i am happy to have weight off my sholders...i am also looking forward to going to the football game tommorrow with him, unless he takes a friend or my six yr lol...but i am 99% sure i get to go to the Michigan state game tomorrow i love it there...

ok now i wrote a book...i will see how many new posts since i wrote this...

once again sorry if i offended anyone by what i wrote above...I just really love my ladies you guys have been my rock lately TAHNK YOU!!!! and even if we decide no more babies i am not leaving you lol

I was not offended in the least. Oh, and my DH is the same way about not saying a word about TTC. I have done that exact thing several times and just gotten shoulder shrugs. DH is not one to talk about anything other than food and what HE wants to do. However, he insists on having sex even if I'm not in the mood so I'm not complaining much.

BTW, the mail truck hasn't even arrived but if it delays much further I might have to put my "pee cup" in the fridge which DH would completely freak out about (luckily he wont be home again til tomorrow lol).

 

[Aspe]

Krissy..after the doctor told me all my tests were good, she said well sometimes our bodies change and periods, so maybe your body is just changing. If I keep being like this I am going to go back again. She said, by the time you comes back again, you could be pregnant. But I really don't know what's going on with my body, so hence, don't know about ovulation.

I am so sorry your dh is giving you that no speaking shoulder. That really hurts me, so I can imagine how you feel. I hope that even though he was silent at the time, that he thinks about what you said, and will come back to you with his thoughts later. Perhaps at the game tomorrow.
I really love to hear others speak about their family, and hence, children.

 

[Aspe]

Army..I'm anxiously waiting for the mail truck for you and for us so you can test and tell us you got your bfp

 

[Aspe]

Ok, so I just went and checked my cervix. Yesterday it was like semi hard-soft, if that makes sense. Today, it it soft, the softest I have felt yet. Like so soft, it was squishy. However, still locked up. What's going on?

 

[Krissy485]

ARmy- LMAO- When I was pregnant with all three kids my BP always ran a little high so I always ended up having to do the 24 hour pee test to see if i was peeing protein...so In the fridge was a big organge jug that I had to take to the bathroom with me every time to add my pee to it..i had one of those hat catcher things to catch the pee...but yeah DH always loved that...and my DH is the same way like I keep saying on her he is soo freaking emotionally STUNTED i hate his mom for it really is all her fault...honestly...

Aspe- are those "normal" tests or do they count as the ones they do for recurrent mc? my dr said if i had one more mc the my insurance would pay for further testings really made me feel great since i already had 2...grr...

 

[HisGrace]

So is the implication that the rest of us are unsweet and unkind?

Mizz - I hope everything goes okay with your appointment and your spotting. I honestly didnt even see your post about it until I logged in now. It's easy for a post to get lost in the shuffle because there is a lot going on. Please don't take it personal. I know for me I sometimes don't comment to others because I have no idea what to say. Sometimes I just forget after reading the other posts. Sometimes I won't address anyone and I will just come on to vent if I'm feeling particularly stressed about something. Like someone else said, go where you feel supported but please understand we weren't ignoring you for the sake of ignoring you.

Sweetz - I am so sorry you are having to go through this, he will eventually get what's coming to him.

Janelle - yes I get my results today. Everytime I think about it I get so nervous I feel like I'm gonna throw up.

army - according to amazon the package is "out for delivery". Go check your mail!!!

mnj - where are you? how did the appt go?

baybee - congratulations!

 

[Aspe]

ARmy- LMAO- When I was pregnant with all three kids my BP always ran a little high so I always ended up having to do the 24 hour pee test to see if i was peeing protein...so In the fridge was a big organge jug that I had to take to the bathroom with me every time to add my pee to it..i had one of those hat catcher things to catch the pee...but yeah DH always loved that...and my DH is the same way like I keep saying on her he is soo freaking emotionally STUNTED i hate his mom for it really is all her fault...honestly...

Aspe- are those "normal" tests or do they count as the ones they do for recurrent mc? my dr said if i had one more mc the my insurance would pay for further testings really made me feel great since i already had 2...grr...

I think they are normal protocal tests. I could be wrong, but I think so

 

[HisGrace]

krissy - sorry dh isn't talking to you. sounds like you gave him a lot to think about. maybe he will open up soon.

hi to everyone else :wave:

 

[armymama2012]

ARmy- LMAO- When I was pregnant with all three kids my BP always ran a little high so I always ended up having to do the 24 hour pee test to see if i was peeing protein...so In the fridge was a big organge jug that I had to take to the bathroom with me every time to add my pee to it..i had one of those hat catcher things to catch the pee...but yeah DH always loved that...and my DH is the same way like I keep saying on her he is soo freaking emotionally STUNTED i hate his mom for it really is all her fault...honestly...

Aspe- are those "normal" tests or do they count as the ones they do for recurrent mc? my dr said if i had one more mc the my insurance would pay for further testings really made me feel great since i already had 2...grr...

Yeah, I think DH has a pee phobia. He used to take baths with our son and as son as he saw that DS had peed he would jump out of the tub and THEN grab our son.

 

[armymama2012]

So is the implication that the rest of us are unsweet and unkind?

Mizz - I hope everything goes okay with your appointment and your spotting. I honestly didnt even see your post about it until I logged in now. It's easy for a post to get lost in the shuffle because there is a lot going on. Please don't take it personal. I know for me I sometimes don't comment to others because I have no idea what to say. Sometimes I just forget after reading the other posts. Sometimes I won't address anyone and I will just come on to vent if I'm feeling particularly stressed about something. Like someone else said, go where you feel supported but please understand we weren't ignoring you for the sake of ignoring you.

Sweetz - I am so sorry you are having to go through this, he will eventually get what's coming to him.

Janelle - yes I get my results today. Everytime I think about it I get so nervous I feel like I'm gonna throw up.

army - according to amazon the package is "out for delivery". Go check your mail!!!

mnj - where are you? how did the appt go?

baybee - congratulations!

OMG HisGrace you are a lifesaver! They just arrived. BRB!!!!!!!

 

[HisGrace]

Woohoo!

 

[Aspe]

Yahoo..were waitingggg lol

 

[armymama2012]

Is the test invalid if the control line is broken? The control line is only showing up on the edges, the line isn't complete.