March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

Oh and nothing wrong with donuts and chocolate milk......I have given my daughter a Nutra-grain bar running out the door then got McDonald's on the way....
 
Sweetz, that is the depressing part of Jerry Springer huh? Too much is real and gives the rest of us a bad rep!
You can sing whatever you want except for Call Me Maybe ;) my husband plays that to irritate me!
True love is pimple popping for the other half LOL! Get rid of that sucker and sing all you must :)

Krissy, it isn't just me- there are a few ladies gone. And the rest we just hear from less and less. And that is a bummer because, like Bama pointed out, this is still a TTC forum and thread.
Bone spurs- OUCH! What will they do for that and your neck? :flower:
And I think milk and donuts makes more sense than you carrying cereal and dishes around. Not that I have seen that but there was a parody of it in a movie I own :D
 
Omg I *insert every swear in the book* hate that song! Growl.....

I was wondering where some ladies have gone myself. Even some of the new people have posted once or twice then disappeared. :(

I might not respond all the time bc I'm well, in a pissy mood some days, sick other days, extremely exhausted others....but I try to include everyone.
 
Sweetz, *sings that song to you now!* seriously it just repeats in the brain until things get fuzzy-like.
It is true, not even newbies stick. :-/
 
Storked....you and I are now in a married relationship......I hate you and love you at the same damn time lol
 
Sweetz, that IS just like marriage. The other night I had the overwhelming urge to smack the heck out of my normally sweet spouse. Love em but hate living with em ;)
 
OH EM GEE!!! I am totally upset now....WHEN STORK(one of the awesome ladies who started this thread) is feeling unwanted and uncomfortable then something or someone is def NOT doing something right in this thread!!!! :growlmad: :growlmad::growlmad: So I'll start with me, Stork im Soooo sorry, Bc I've been busy moving and in dead zones for At&T I can't get on like I use to. I think ab this thread everyday, but being out here in the country with the field mice, snakes, geicos, possums and whatever animal you won't see in the city with bad service is sooo hard to posts. I'm too busy looking over my shoulder for fear of being attacked by wild animals.

Stork: You are Soooo right, most of our old TTC women left and honestly they pm me Bc the women on here seems to only care and talk about themselves not being supportive or anything. After most of them left and most the new ladies were talking ab only themselves and not recognizing others like they should, I just gave up. Didn't have my old original women on here as much so I barely fades away too.

So to all my old beginner thread starters and the wonderful women we have accumulated over the months who makes this thread awesome....LETS GO BK TO HOW IT USE TO BE....or I'm calling you out:growlmad:

Now Randomess: I don't like the Jerry Springer show BUT I LOVE MAURY POVICH!!!! And lpjkp...THANKS MA'AM FOR SAVING OUR STORK AND KEEPING HER FROM LEAVING!!!

THIS THREAD IS AB TTC AFTER LOSS NOT ALL ABOUT PREGO WOMEN PREGNANCIES!! It's a joy to hear but I agree we have to take in consideration of those who are TTC! It's all about supporting them like they supported everyone else

Stork Thanks for bringing that out!!! I'm still kindve upset though Bc we've been inconsiderate but we'll get better if you give us a 2nd chance and don't leave!!
 
I couldn't smack mine....he helped me with a bimple, dances to Gangnam Style to make me laugh, and we sleep in different rooms bc our bed is a California king on a high frame and hard for me to get in and out of so I sleep in the spare room on the lower bed, and when I had a nightmare, he crawled into a small twin size bed and snuggled me until I fell asleep again.............but wait a day or two...he will do something bwahaha
 
Well put Never...I'm guilty and for that I apologize. Please forgive me. I have to ask you one thing though Never........

Are you 1000% sure you love Maury? Bwahahaha!! Sorry couldn't resist.

Psst..happy 18 weeks girl!
 
Alright, I woke up this morning all super excited with rainbows shooting out my bum and totally looking forward to reading what all of you ladies have said and I can't help but admit to you ladies that I am completely butt hurt over the things that I have read this morning. I am going to tell you all exactly how I feel and I'm going to lay it all on the table so that everyone knows where I am coming from.

When I first joined this thread I will admit, there was a lot more chatter with a lot more people and it has since then died down. There were a few women who I felt ignored my posts or responded to those who have been here longer than those who were new. I still feel that way at times. But there are also women who I have become very close with and I couldn't imagine what my life would be like if I had never met you through this thread.

When trying to conceive I didn't really have that much faith in my self I guess you could say because I miscarried again. So, I tried the low dose aspirin on a whim and rarely had sex with my frankenstein husband. But lucky us, we conceived. I shared my BFP with you ladies out of excitement. I wanted you guys to do the happy dance with me, and for those who hadn't gotten their BFP's I wanted to give you all hope that yours is just around the corner and when you do get it, and you all will, we will all be here for you jumping up and down and being just as excited for you as you were for us, if not more.

I feel that those who conceived earlier in the months and are farther along are sort of exempt from these recent posts and it's directed towards the women who are in early weeks of pregnancy. That may not have been what you were trying to imply, but that is what I got out of it, when I read it this morning. This completely hurts my feelings only because us ladies in early pregnancy are still at risk of miscarrying and I feel as though, now that we are pregnant we should join a pregnancy thread, but what if we miscarry? I hope that isn't the case with any of the ladies that are pregnant or become pregnant. I feel we should all be there for each other no matter where we are on our journey. We're all here to give each other advice and help each other out TOGETHER. No matter where you are in your journey, EVERYONE needs that positive feed back.

There are women who have kept their distance because they feel that people don't answer their posts. I understand this. I myself, try really hard to include everyone because I know how it feels to be ignored or feel like you're being ignored, but I will admit there are times that I miss someones post and I don't see what they said, BUT when I see that someone else posts about it I'm reminded and I try to respond as well. I really think that they shouldn't let that stop them from posting though. What they post could help a future viewer or someone who is already apart of the thread.

For example. This last week, I have had "naughty poopies" in the mornings. I never really posted much on the thread because I thought it was embarrassing. Needless to say, it really freaked me out! So, I PM Kanicky because I saw she had something similar. Turns out her situation then was just like mine now. It put my mind at rest and made me feel a lot better. If she had never posted that she had something like that in conversation with Army, I would have never known.

I have just thought that those who aren't posting are just busy or taking a break. I had no idea it was because they felt ignored. That saddens me even more. Because I'm sure no one on this thread was doing it intentionally. I understand this thread is about TTC or that is what it's supposed to be about, but come on ladies. We talk about far more things than TTC and being pregnant. This is a fast moving thread, but I enjoy reading all of it and hearing every update, even if it has to do with the not so TTC things.

In closing this I'm going to tell you, the one reading this, whether you are posting, stalking, or just browsing, that you in some way or another have affected my life positivity and I thank you for that. I encourage you to post more and be apart of the bunch. Smile and laugh with us all rather than feeling like an outcast. Whether, you're towards the end of your pregnancy, in the middle, at the beginning, trying to conceive, or taking a break from trying, we all need each other and we're all here for each other. I'll never really be able to find words to express the gratitude and love that I have for each and every one of you, but just know that it's there and it does exist for you ALL! :flower:
 
Never, I completely understand about limited access. Especially through AT&T :) I am always so happy to hear from you on here, whenever that is and don't feel bad if it isn't all the time :hugs:
Thank you so much for validating me. I didn't want to sound like a whiney titty baby but you and the ladies who have validated me through PMing made me realize that I am not crazy and that yes, we do need to bring the thread back to what it used to be! I miss everyone who used to be on here :(
Never, my hubby loves Maury too! Hehe I miss you talking about your shows :D
 
I will say this.....if it wasn't for the ladies in this thread I wouldn't of made it through that mess with my DH. Y'all helped me keep my sanity.

Never, you are the caring mom for all of us. I feel a closeness with you, even though I have never met you. <3 you are most def an angel from Heaven!

Storked....I effin love ya...and you know why! ;)

Jane...you crack me up on a daily basis....

Kani & Krissy....you both have said things that were a smack in the face but a well needed one. You helped me see that life sometimes is tough, but if we stay strong we can make it through anything!

Army...to have your strength. Our dh's are too similar....

BayBee...when you post it is always so positive!

Lisa....you give me hope with your posts...I worry daily, but seeing you progress gives me hope that I can do this!

I think I was lead to this thread for a reason. I post the most in this one. I tried the 2nd tri pregnancy forums and I felt like an outcast.....this thread is home. I think God led me here to meet all you wonderful ladies!! I am so grateful. :)
 
Sweetz, so things are going good with you and the hubby? :)

Janelley, I am sorry that you felt like I was attacking you and all pregnant women. I would worry about that if Never and some other people haven't validated what I said and about how I was feeling. And it is a problem we have had in the past as well but I never had to address it because other people did. And yes, this thread is about a lot of things but keep in mind that this is a forum for ladies who have had losses, just like you. And we are sensitive and always have been because of this. There are great ladies on this thread ad we all should be heard. And be considerate of one another :flower:
 
Ok....random.....opinions on Honey Boo Boo........I tried watching it and couldn't do it....switched back to sports center lol
 
Better Storked....we still have our moments, but he is becoming more receptive to my feelings and I have become more aware that he is sometimes distant bc he is working hard since we are on 1 income now.
 
Honestly Sweetz, I missed it when I had cable and I haven't seem it since I have cable again because I forget that I have it :D
What did you dislike about it? :)
 
Well first off it is a pageant show....lol

But it also seems like they are making fun of this little girl and her family rather then being proud of them. It is like look at the pathetic redneck family....aren't they hilarious.

Not to mention the mother is annoying. The kid is cute though...but her weight needs to be looked at. She is my weight....that can't be healthy.
 
Sweetz, I'd probably be more upset at them being poked fun at on television if I didn't think that they probably loved it. Bet they are heroes where they live.
Hey I was a pageant kid ;)
But yes, her weight should be monitored. Poor kid could have loads of health problems as an adult.
 
Wtf....now my phone wo t work bc it says no space?! Wtf?! I didn't dL anything onto it! I swear I am done with this phone, this company!!
 
Sweetz: HAHAHA,, MAURY IS MY FAVORITE SHOW!!! lol!!

Stork: No problem ma'am, I know exactly how you feel!!! And as long as you're still on here I will be on here more! And never think you're a whiney baby, I commend and love you for bringing it to the table, and not leaving first Bc you know I was going to PM you soon!!!

Janelleybean; I love your presence here, you bring your own personality to this thread. BUT if you're referring to me as being the prego women further along then you need to go bk to the beginning of this thread and read all my post even when I've gotten prego. I never made it ab me, I supported each and every lady on here. And Stork, Bama, Sweetz, and BayBeeEm and Lpjkp Lisalee can back me up. Evn though I was prego, I was scared of m/c, Bc it happened twice for me but that didn't stop me from making this thread ab the ones who haven't yet conceived. Bc I wanted them to go on this journey with me. Now I know how you feel, I prego too, and I've been there where you are worried Bc I'm in early pregnancy and can miscarry any moment but the support we ladies gave each other was so great I didnt worry so much so Bc the women been so wonderful to me I gave it bk and rooted them on every failed cycle Bc I know they'll get it soon. Janelley we def want to see you progress in your pregnancy never try to imply that we don't, but what we're saying is this Is Not ab just you or just me it's ab all of us. And we're trying to root the ones on who haven't yet concieved yet and still trying Bc we're prego already now it's their turn, and they need us just like we needed them!

Janelley I love your POSITIVE attitude and sorry that you felt sad but if one of our ladies feel a certain way or lefted out it's not our job to correct them or tell them to post more it's our jobs as women who know how it feels to support her and do all we can to make her feel like she belong and we've gotten away from that.

NOW BK TO THE MAURY SHOW.....
 

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