Im going to my mums on Saturday, staying for a few days as its half term. George hasnt met my older sister yet so she is excited to see him, and my mum cant wait
Haven't had a stretch of sleep since Sunday night and it's finally catching up to me. I got about two 50 minute stretches last night. Hoping that Liam will sleep at least a 2 hour stretch tonight. Poor guy is still gagging/spitting up amniotic fluid so he doesn't sleep too much. My nipples feel swollen from breastfeeding and pumping, thank goodness for lanolin.
Sounds like you have a nice weekend planned Wiggler and New. No idea what we will do, probably try and get some sleep.
Aww new that sounds lovely, me and OH are waiting to find out when he next has a whole weekend free so we can all spend a weekend at my mums, getting away from the crazies and being looked after for a weekend is just what I need
Oh lucky hope you get some proper rest soon!! How is Conner taking to being a big brother?
We're on boob 2 in bed, hopefully putting him in bed instead of his pillow at this feed may help him settle and will mean I can go sleep soon as Im tired not waiting for him to wake lol
24 - Ava's poop look like mustard. nothing ever green. though i've heard it can be normal depending on the shade of green.
wild - sorry you're still pregnant! i'd go crazy if i was way over due
thanks for all the hugs ladies i've heard from a few other ladies that the medicine i'm on is well known for causing suicidal thoughts. which means i need to get on somthing else that will hopefully help. it was like this after milo too (was on the same medicine). yesterday milo was being super cranky and giving me attitude and the only thing i could think about was how badly i wish i could just punch him in the face and when Ava was going through her really bad crying stage a week ago i kept thinking about how i wanted to smash her head into the wall. i really hate the thoughts that creep up on me when i'm at my lowest. and it doesnt help that i'm home alone and i have no one to talk to (physically have a conversation). then it starts making me think that i shouldve never had kids and i'm the worst mom ever for thinking what i think. tons of racing thoughts. but my OH has a 4 day weekend (fri-mon). hopefully i can get some relief.
24/7 - he's just being a prick in general, I asked him to do some stuff and he is whining like a girl saying he just wants to relax, but when do I get to relax, I run around after 2 kids all day, I cook, clean, I've had bethany feeding all night. GRRR,he won't even discipline Dylan when he is naughty unless I tell him to, and he is STILL obsessed with that fucking game on his phone
Milos the biggest step is admitting the feelings. Speak with someone to change your meds Im sure you'll have a lovely break with OH home. There is nearly always someone here we might not be able to hear you, but we'll all listen xxxx
George sounds like he has a really rattly chest. he had a bit of a cough earlier but seemed to settle, now his chest sounds like its a bit mucusy.... either that or at the ripe old age of 2 weeks he is starting to snore!
nope, he will just download it again. he is obsessed with it. He doesn't spend any quality time with me or the kids anymore, he just sits there playing that fucking game, I can't remember the last time he gave me a hug or a kiss
wiggler - sounds like my OH. he always complains if he has to watch both kids at once. he says two people need to be around. but what about when i'm home alone?! and he does the same thing with milo. i have to tell him to tell him no, or he'll just let milo do whatever he wants. and it really irritates me. i always wake up to a trashed house. and then my OH says i never clean enough when he's at work. but i'm sorry i have an almost 4 week old baby to tend to as well as an almost 19 month old little brat! he's such a hell raiser lately.
Its awful isn't it Milos, OH whines cos the flat is messy, but when I do tidy up Dylan messes it up again immediately and most of the time I don't have the time or energy to do a proper clean up, and where OH won't discipline Dylan properly he really acts up when OH is home, he is such a sweet boy when OH is at work, but STILL OH won't get off that damn phone and discipline or even spend some quality time with Dylan
I think the men forget that bringing up children is damn hard work and they need to help out more
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