Mayhem Babies! May 2011 mummies and babies

[hopefulmama]

Bizy- oh forget it, my tummy looks disgusting. My 'mommy pouch' skeeves me out, i can't handle looking in the mirror and seeing the excess skin and it hanging over my incision and the fact i have to 'lift' it up to look at incision, so grody. You've had about the same weight loss as me, I really think its cause I produce soooo much milk i get about 4-5 oz per boob when i pump. I pump 1-2 times a day, once for freezer storage and other for feeding for his one bottle.. we give him 1 bottle every other day but he'll only take one from my husband, not me, i guess he knows i've got the real nipple and he fights me bigtime where with hubby he takes it with no problem.

Mummy- well both me and hubby's eyes are light brown and turn a hazelish green when we cry or are in cold weather so who knows.. all of my dads side of the family have blue/green eyes and my hubby's mom and her side have blue/green..

 

[Wiggler]

Aww mummy I hope her weight picks up soon

The curry was a success! Really really yummy not bad seeing as I didn't even use a recipe

Got the table and chairs up in the garden, they look fab, and the chairs are really comfy, I am so looking forward to getting out there tomorrow

 

[new_to_ttc]

Just took a nit comb to Georges head - tar-ra cradle cap! lol

Georges has stunning blue eyes still, I think they will stay blue I have blue, Joshuas dad was blue but Joshua's are hazel, so had no idea how Georges would go lol, his dad also has blue.

 

[mummy3]

I want Eilidh to have green like me but chances are they'll stay blue. Hubbys are a blue/green/grey.

Well done in fixing the cradle cap new.

Very jealous of the curry, just have a pasta packet thing for lunch but hubbys making philly cheesesteaks for dinner.

Hopeful, the pouch passed for me within about 5 months of #1, the section made my tummy a slightly different shape though, hard to discribe, kinda longer from the belly button done and slightly fuller.

 

[new_to_ttc]

The cradle cap will keep coming back, but looks a lot better for now lol

How long does it take for the eye colour to be decided?

 

[mummy3]

My son was 5 months but the girls stayed same

 

[Wiggler]

Dylans eye colour changed at about 4 months. I will be heartbroken if/when Bethanys eyes change colour, they are really really dark grey/blue atm, and they are gorgeous!

 

[BizyBee]

Sorry your stomach looks the same way Hopeful, but I am glad to hear that because I was starting to think that there's something wrong. I hate that I have to pull it up to see my incision. Eww... No bathing suits for me this summer!

 

[meow951]

mummy- Yeah i'm feeling much better thanks

 

[Wiggler]

I am pretty certain that Bethany has started teething Dylan was an early teether too, he didn't get a tooth til 5 months though

 

[new_to_ttc]

Ladies I NEED help... pwease! I need an outfit for George for Joshua's Communion, you guys have so many gorgeous clothes for your LOs where do I start? I dont want denim, and I dont want OTT and I dont want shorts but I do want gorgeous and smart Next have a cute bodysuit shirt, I was thinking that with navy trousers, but i'd like some choices, its the only thing Ive seen thats not totally OTT (dinner jackets and cravats are totally not required rofl) .... please send me all your ideas and best shopping places xxx

 

[24/7]

What about the blue and white check dungarees from next in the newborn section? xx

 

[new_to_ttc]

Arent they shorts hun? I cant be sure of the weather and he'll be out for quite some time so I need trousers - you watch it'll be the nicest day of the year (weather wise lol), but if I buy shorts it'll be windy and cold arghhh

 

[24/7]

I saw this in the shop last week, and it is ve

 

[24/7]

I saw this in the shop last week, and it is very cute.

https://www.next.co.uk/boys/younger-boys-summer-style/7m

 

[new_to_ttc]

Cant open that link

Ive seen a little linen and tank top suit on bhs and debenhams but both are very white, think they intended for Christening occassions.

 

[24/7]

Oh, er its in younger boys last page of summer style. xx

 

[new_to_ttc]

Oh I likes that muchly

Oh, trousers sold out, and top may need to be 0-3. I thinks a trip to Llandudno is in order

 

[MilosMommy7]

here comes a vent ladies!

once i became a SAHM over a year ago i've stopped caring about whati wore and what i look like. makeup irritates my face sinced i have sensitive skin. but ever since having Ava and going through depression again, fighting with thomas constantly, i feel like i just wanna give up and not even attempt to lose the weight or work out. i have no motivation what so ever i wake up shortly before thomas gets ready for work (takes him a whole 20 minutes). then i just sit around in PJs. watching tv, computer, picking up, taking care of the kids. i always use an excuse of having... kids as to why i have "no time" for myself. i really just wanna lock myself in a room and workout alone. when i started dating thomas i would sleep for about 4 hrs a night, wake up, shower do make up. then go spend the day with him before i went to work at 5 in the evening. that's when i lost 50lbs FAST. i wasnt eating, i was always on the go. i dont have time to do that and since i'm depressed i WANT to eat and sleep all day. i honestly think part of it has to do with not feeling love between me and thomas anymore. i definitely know me and thomas need to work things out. he cheated on me twice before i got prego with milo. and has done so much to me behind my back i feel it's hard to forgive him for treating me the way he did when all i ever did was l...ove him as much i could. i did everything i could for him. then when i'm going through depression he's not supporting me, instead he tries to go against me and make me feel worse about everything. i know part of it is the stress a newborn can put on a relationship. i'm hoping once ava gets to be another month older or so things will be better and less hectic. last night i wrote him a letter telling him how i'm feeling and some of the things that goes through my mind that i usually hold back from him.
i just talked to my BFF from childhood for a half hour on the phone. i met her when i was 5 (i'm 22 now). we've always stayed in contact, but when she moved during my sophomore year we didnt let that keep us apart. then she had her son in 2006, then started moving around a lot. and i didnt see her as much. i'm hoping to see her this weekend and she wants me to go out to a bar with her at some point. her and her OH just broke up because he's a dead beat. and she's telling me i deserve better too, just lik her.but i'm not ready just yet to give up on our relationship. i know we can try harder. but honestly, deep down i sorta feel like me and thomas are over

 

[Wiggler]

Milos Could you try relationship councelling? Aww hun, I know just how you feel, the emotes on here just aren't enough! I just want to give you a great big hug