Mayhem Babies! May 2011 mummies and babies

[mummy3]

Yeah dd's dad hasn't seen her in about 4 years, we get no contact at all or money or anything, she's very matter of fact about it and knows DH isn't her bio dad but he's all she's known and calls him daddy How's Joshua with your OH? I will never understand why a parent wouldn't want to see their kid.

I really hope its not thrush, that hurts!!

 

[Wiggler]

Never felt so shitty and stressed in my life, he has been screaming and being awful all day. I must be a shit mum

 

[mummy3]

Just abusing hubbys card online at a site called Dimples and Dandelions, Eilidh needs a $50 hat

 

[charlotteb24]

Never felt so shitty and stressed in my life, he has been screaming and being awful all day. I must be a shit mum

you're not an awful mum!! Noah has been at right little buggar the past 2 days and tbh i have no idea what to do with him! makes me feel useless too but they are only testing us to see how far they can push it!

Chin up hun hope he turns a corner soon for you xxxxx

 

[mummy3]

Wiggler just saw your post, you are definately not a shit mum! Has he calmed down now hun?

 

[new_to_ttc]

yeah we dont get money either or contact, I'd rather him see Joshua regular than ever take money, seems he doesnt want to do either. Joshua adores OH, but he has no idea that we are an item. He also gets on fab with OHs son but neither of the lads know that we're romantically involved.

Wiggler you're not an awful mam at all! All kids like to test the boundary, just stay firm and he'll settle down Im sure. Hope you get some rest hun xxx

 

[Wudluvanuva1]

U know that's not true Wiggler hope u can find out what's made his behaviour turn hun x

 

[MilosMommy7]

feeling in a real blahh kinda mood tonight
but on a good note, me and my SIL are going to see Britney Spears on tuesday

 

[Wiggler]

He didn't go to bed until nearly 9pm last night and woke up and started that awful screaming again at 5am. Awful high pitched screaming, demanding stuff he knows he isn't allowed, hitting, kicking. I rang my mum at 7am crying cos I can't cope with it, I'm crying again now. I really really want my happy little boy back, but nothing I try helps

 

[24/7]

Wiggler. After this would your OH concider seeing the GP/HV on mionday?

Mummy, hope all went well. xx

 

[Wiggler]

I'm not sure...

We finally managed to calm him down, I found some wildlife pics and stickers that I had put away for Dylan when I was pregnant with him and he stuck them all on his wall and we put the posters up. He loves it

ETA - Sorry for crap quality pic, my camera on my phone is covered in the sticky stuff off selotape and I can't be bothered to get it off. lol

 

[new_to_ttc]

Hope Elidhs appt went well yesterday mummy!!

Wiggler Dylan knows he is getting a reaction from you, maybe get OH to take both kids out so you can put your head down for an hour or so and have no one to worry about but you. Is OH still on side with how you deal with his behaviour? It wont last hun, they go through these phases, they just want to try as best they cant to move the boundary posts, stay firm. I know it is easier said than done, and it always feels so much worse when its run you down for a few days but it will pass xxx

How's everyone this morning? Any plans?

 

[24/7]

OH taking the out sounds like a good idea, perhaps Dylan gets abit bored being at home all the time, I know I do. I know its so hard for you with your pelvis, and that you cant always take them out, but if OH does maybe it would help. xx

 

[heyyady]

Wiggler- you are an AWESOME mom, I love hearing about all the things you do for Dylan it will all even out again- just take a deep breath and remember how sweet and lovey he is, he'll be back!

 

[Wiggler]

They just went out to the shop and are now making star shaped eggy bread. OH is taking Dylan out later, and tomorrow they are both going out for the day. OH does take Dylan out a lot, but he said he going to try and take him out every day now and once OH is back at work I'm going to try and take them both to the park every day, its just down the road and its the only place I know Dylan will walk to without demanding to be carried. He's in a lovely mood at the moment He gave me a big hug and a kiss, then shoved the pepper pot in my face and made me sneeze

 

[new_to_ttc]

Thanks for the advice the other day Hopeful, spray tan now booked. They do the tans themselves, not a machine tan I made sure i asked lol The lady said that it should make the lines a lot less noticable but may not completely go (I knows that Im not expecting miracles lol) She recommended having it 2 days before the wedding, does that sound right? Will I be ok showering etc? Hair is booked, now I need to sort out my brows lol... I was tempted to get a bikini wax while i was booking the tan, go the full hog and feel girly for a couple of weeks but that'll hurt ha ha

 

[24/7]

Go for the wax. xx

 

[new_to_ttc]

do i look stoooopid??? It will hurt me, a lot! lol

I was complimented today lol... I went to a bar to speak to someone about the Christening, he wasnt there but the bar tended took my details and was chatting to me, then I said to Joshua, take your brother for a second baby, so the bar tender said 'oh Im sorry I assumed the baby was yours as you were arranging the Christening', so me looking confused said, the baby is mine, then his turn to look confused and said 'oh you started young, then said oh god I didnt mean it like that' so I said what do you mean, and he said well you dont look old enough to have such a grown up little boy he was shocked when I said bloody hell boi Im 28, Im damm near passed it now

 

[24/7]

Waxing isnt that painful. Compliments are fab!!

Mummy, I hope your little girlie is ok as you havent been in. xx

 

[mummy3]

24 I'm here, just been hectic!

Eilidh ended up at the pediatrician, short story being Jackie couldnt make it and said go there, she had her jabs too poor baby Well....... 9lbs I also leaked through the duvet this morning, then when DH went to toilet I switched it round so he got the wet bit

Wiggler Glad Dylan is in a better mood and your OH is being so good.

New, yay for comliments! You do look really good hun and yeah go for the wax