Mayhem Babies! May 2011 mummies and babies

Thanks Heyy :hugs: And OMG your girls get cuter by the day!

Taking Dylan to nursery soon, on my own. I am so not ready for this, I can handle getting the bus alone, but walking through town scares the crap out of me. Its so tempting to use the excuse of him having a slight cold to keep him off, but I have to do it, for him and for me.

OK, I'm heading out soon, wish me luck x x x
 
Wiggler, hon, you are not a reject- you a a wonderful mom and a fabulous friend- you can't let HIS inability to emotionally connect with anyone (Including his kids) to bring you so low- :hug:

Harvey- been good- they are really clingy right now- but makes for a nice day of tons of baby snuggles :cloud9: I think we have more teeth coming in- and I KNOW they are having a frowth spurt- a large can of formula should last 3-4 days and was just opened yesterday morning will be gone by mid day tomorrow :wacko: Running through diapers extra fast, too- we were budgeted though tomorrow (Paycheck came in today) but now figured out tomorrow is a bank holiday here :dohh: will be stretching it REALLY thin. I F*ing hate being broke!

:hugs: heyy, I hope your money situation changes soon:flower: I'd rather have love over money any day, you'll always scrape by but you can't buy love:winkwink:

The new avatar pic is adorable:cloud9:
 
Thanks Heyy :hugs: And OMG your girls get cuter by the day!

Taking Dylan to nursery soon, on my own. I am so not ready for this, I can handle getting the bus alone, but walking through town scares the crap out of me. Its so tempting to use the excuse of him having a slight cold to keep him off, but I have to do it, for him and for me.

OK, I'm heading out soon, wish me luck x x x

:hugs: wiggler. Focus on Dylan and block everyone else out:thumbup: if you make any little illness an excuse not to go to school he will learn this and you'll end up having issues later!

Let us know how you got on
 
Just got back, it went fine, dylan had a bit of a wobbly when he go there but he soon calmed down, the walk back was OK, but town was a bit busier by then so I was a bit nervy, I bumped into someone I knew yonks ago and that was nice, then to save me waiting 20+ mins for my bus I was naughty and hopped onto the tesco bus :rofl: I do spend a lotof money there so I didn't feel too bad, I did feel like a naughty kid walking past Tesco entrance though :haha: :blush:
 
hello all! Its freezing here! Heating is on and im in my thermals (well OHs, thermals) and thick jumper and still cold :wacko: Was discharg-y and crampy in my side yesterday but Iv only had implant out a week so not sure if it could be ovulation yet. Iv seen lots of women have the implant out and ov that day or really soon after and get pregnant straight away so who knows? I read on one site a girl had the implant out had sex that night and conceived :wacko: Wev been talking bout it alot, OH is gonna get 2 new beds and mattresses in a few months, one for Leo and one for SS so the cot will be for a new baby. We then only need a new storage unit for baby clothes and a few extra nappies and 0-3months clothes and thats it :thumbup:
 
I conceived first cycle after my implant was taken out, took me a month to ov and concieved Bethany then :cloud9:
 
I like hearing the after stories of implant removals :haha: Iv either seen it takes no time at all to conceive or takes ages, so im just going to take each day as it comes and when ever it happens, it happens, :shrug:
OH is playing ps3 while Leos is wrecking the living room. I have so much cleaning to do, its unending :haha:
 
Morning ladies. Slept on the couch last night and see Isaiah is passed out in my side of the bed. I think Mike can sleep on the couch tonight so that Isaiah doesn't get used to sleeping in our bed. Mike just doesn't budge for things like that.
 
Morning ladies. Slept on the couch last night and see Isaiah is passed out in my side of the bed. I think Mike can sleep on the couch tonight so that Isaiah doesn't get used to sleeping in our bed. Mike just doesn't budge for things like that.

:hugs: brandi. Is there no way you can salvage your marriage or is it a no no now? Maybe he'll have to get off his backside and do things with the kids if you are apart, or will his mother do it for him?
 
hello all! Its freezing here! Heating is on and im in my thermals (well OHs, thermals) and thick jumper and still cold :wacko: Was discharg-y and crampy in my side yesterday but Iv only had implant out a week so not sure if it could be ovulation yet. Iv seen lots of women have the implant out and ov that day or really soon after and get pregnant straight away so who knows? I read on one site a girl had the implant out had sex that night and conceived :wacko: Wev been talking bout it alot, OH is gonna get 2 new beds and mattresses in a few months, one for Leo and one for SS so the cot will be for a new baby. We then only need a new storage unit for baby clothes and a few extra nappies and 0-3months clothes and thats it :thumbup:

It's freezing here too but it's sunny so my lounge is warm without the heating on:thumbup:

I think it's a toss between you and new now:winkwink:
 
Aarons 8 months today:happydance: I'm gona ring docs for hv to weigh him tomorrow. Any guesses? He was 22lbs 4ozs on the 20 dec 11.
 
His mother will likely do everything for him, just as she always does. She enables him to not have to take any responsibility, but I guess that's what happens when you're the only son a mother has after you lost your first son. He was born for the sole purpose of replacing his brother, and he's been babied all his life, never had to take responsibility for anything.

For example, yesterday, I was looking up soccer registration for Isaiah and found that it's on a Saturday while Mike's in school. It'll be difficult, but I could haul 3 kids on the bus since Mike will have the car. Anyway, he told me I should just ask his mom to help, and I should kiss her butt and when I told him that I wouldn't do that, at least not until she apologizes, he flew off the handle and told me that I'm only hurting Isaiah, I', taking away from him just like I always do because I "can't get over things". Well, I'm not accepting the verbal abuse from her. Why should she be allowed to call me a liar and a bitch and be all two-faced to me, but I, have to be the one to kiss her butt? I don't think so. So that's what our fight was over yesterday, because I refuse to kiss his mom's butt, and, of course, he blames it on me, tells me I'm the one who started it.

That, I can get over, but Zoe has special needs. She is bound to be called the R word in school, so when he used that to insult me, that was the last straw. When I confronted him about it, he told me he knew I hated that word and he said it to make me angry. He calls me mental all the time, crazy, pathetic, etc. When I gave him the situation that, what happens when Zoe comes home crying because some kid at school called her that, is he still going to use the word, he said he'll deal with it when it comes to it. No apology, NOTHING.

That's it. I'm done. He can do his counselling so he can have access to the kids, but I don't care anymore. I can't be with someone who thinks it's okay to use that word, ESPECIALLY when he has a child with special needs.
 
Oh, and when he woke up this morning, he said to me that he doesn't want to fight with me....but no apology, so I told him not to worry. I'll be out of here soon enough so that he doesn't have to start fights and blame them on me.

I have my next counselling appointment on Wednesday. I've filled out most of the paperwork for affordable housing. I have police reports and counselling reports confirming verbal and physical abuse, the counsellor heard him tell me over the phone that I was going to drown my kids (had him on speakerphone and he was completely oblivious). I won't come back this time. I'm done. I'd rather be a single mom.
 
His mother will likely do everything for him, just as she always does. She enables him to not have to take any responsibility, but I guess that's what happens when you're the only son a mother has after you lost your first son. He was born for the sole purpose of replacing his brother, and he's been babied all his life, never had to take responsibility for anything.

For example, yesterday, I was looking up soccer registration for Isaiah and found that it's on a Saturday while Mike's in school. It'll be difficult, but I could haul 3 kids on the bus since Mike will have the car. Anyway, he told me I should just ask his mom to help, and I should kiss her butt and when I told him that I wouldn't do that, at least not until she apologizes, he flew off the handle and told me that I'm only hurting Isaiah, I', taking away from him just like I always do because I "can't get over things". Well, I'm not accepting the verbal abuse from her. Why should she be allowed to call me a liar and a bitch
and be all two-faced to me, but I, have to be the one to kiss her butt? I don't
think so. So that's what our fight was over yesterday, because I refuse to kiss
his mom's butt, and, of course, he blames it on me, tells me I'm the one who
started it.
That, I can get over, but Zoe has special needs. She is bound to be called the
R word in school, so when he used that to insult me, that was the last straw.
When I confronted him about it, he told me he knew I hated that word and
he said it to make me angry. He calls me mental all the time, crazy, pathetic,
etc. When I gave him the situation that, what happens when Zoe comes home
crying because some kid at school called her that, is he still going to use the
word, he said he'll deal with it when it comes to it. No apology, NOTHING.
That's it. I'm done. He can do his counselling so he can have access to the
kids, but I don't care anymore. I can't be with someone who thinks it's okay to
use that word, ESPECIALLY when he has a child with special needs.

Sounds like he's lost all respect for you brandi with name calling:hugs: but then again he does get that from his mother, who obvious taught him it's normal:dohh:
He is supposed to be the adult teaching his kids right from wrong, all he's
doing is teaching the kids to think it's normal to speak to and call people that
way:nope:

Maybe the counselling will teach him his behaviour is wrong and needs to be changed asap for his kids sake if nothing else.
 
Oh, and when he woke up this morning, he said to me that he doesn't want to fight with me....but no apology, so I told him not to worry. I'll be out of here soon enough so that he doesn't have to start fights and blame them on me.

I have my next counselling appointment on Wednesday. I've filled out most of the paperwork for affordable housing. I have police reports and counselling reports confirming verbal and physical abuse, the counsellor heard him tell me over the phone that I was going to drown my kids (had him on speakerphone and he was completely oblivious). I won't come back this time. I'm done. I'd rather be a single mom.

God that man needs help! But not from you anymore. I believe if a family environment is not good then it should be changed asap, and if splitting up does that then it needs to be done. The kids will be happier having two none fighting parents than watching them bicker:flower:
 
Heyy, sorry about the money situation, hope it gets easier. Gorgeous girlies you got there:cloud9: Hows your bleeding now hun? Are you feeling any better?:hugs:

Sounds like you're all ready Inge, hope it happens soon for you:flower:

Wiggler, lol dont feel bad about taking the tesco bus! Hope Dylan has a good day, well done for getting there hun:hugs:

Harvey, I guess 23lb. Is there a cookie? Happy 8 months:happydance:

New, hows ickle George today?

Brandi, I hate that word:growlmad: Honestly of all the stuff you have going on his use of the R word is just discusting. I would just let the MIL stuff slide, its what they do unfortunately, fingers crossed we learn from it and dont end up like that:wacko: Hope you get a new house sorted quickly for you and the kids.

Off to sort a birthday cake out for Ruaridh today, he's 4 next week:cloud9: Will be walking all over everywhere but at least the kids will be tired lol, they're all off school today for er.. Martin luther king day? Will have to check. Going to the park too. Eilidh's wearing her new hairbow and trainers with a fluffy bum and baby leg legwarmers:haha: Its gonna be warm later I think.
 
Harvey- for the most part I am just fine with our financial situation- sure it could be better, but it could be a lot worse too! Hubby is the one that goes off about it0- he's materialistic and having a hard time getting over that- he wants a shiny new car and a big house and all, very concerned with what others see- I could give a flying rats butt what anyone thinks and am AGAINST big houses, new cars, etc- I love recycling and upcycling- I bargain shop even when I'm flush- I hate the opulence that western society has deemed necessary. Needless to say hubby and I have interesting debates on the subject! :lol: but he is very respectful of my opinions on it and is just trying to wrap his head around never being the big spender show off if he's with me-
The weather is the coldest it gets here right now- about 45-50 degrees in the day and in the mid to low 20s at night- Had to have the stove and the clothes dryer on with the heat this morning!:cold::cold: But with your weather at -1 I'm sure that sounds toasty to you! :haha: (WHY did you put your washing on the line in that??? :lol:)
OH YES- And Aaron has been giving my girls secret Tarzan lessons :wacko: I don't have drapes, but vertical blinds, and Charlotte was pulling herself up by them this morning!

Brandi- So sorry Mike is being such a tool- I really feel that you need some space away from him- even if you don't divorce, separate- get him into his counseling and maybe all of you into family counseling-

Inge- I'll bet the people that take forever to conceive after the implant had it in for a long time- I'm saying by April you'll be giving us a :bfp: :happydance::happydance:
 
I stayed up last night (Been crashing between 7:30 and 8:30 ) because I wanted to see hubby after work and fix him a proper hot meal when he got home, something the poor man hasn't had in well over a week :wacko: crashed out just after 10- to babies waking SCREAMING at 10:30- got them back to bed- awake again at 11:45 wanting to eat (then play :wacko: ummmm, no? go to sleep!) crawled into my bed at 12:15- Charlotte woke at 1:45. FOR HER DAY. :growlmad: I kept her in bed with me until 3:30 when she got too loud to still be in the bedroom with sleeping sister (who then got up at 5)- But let me tell you ladies, there is not *ENOUGH caffeine in the free world today!:coffee::coffee::coffee::cry::cry::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep:
:sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep::sleep:

Seriously considering having my eyelids surgically removed.
 
hey- probably :haha:
Trying to make myself work out today and managed 18mins and cant be bothered. Lady who has offered us the car seat hasnt turned up yet :dohh: She has my number and email and hasnt let me know and she said this morning, its now 3pm :growlmad:
 

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