His mother will likely do everything for him, just as she always does. She enables him to not have to take any responsibility, but I guess that's what happens when you're the only son a mother has after you lost your first son. He was born for the sole purpose of replacing his brother, and he's been babied all his life, never had to take responsibility for anything.
For example, yesterday, I was looking up soccer registration for Isaiah and found that it's on a Saturday while Mike's in school. It'll be difficult, but I could haul 3 kids on the bus since Mike will have the car. Anyway, he told me I should just ask his mom to help, and I should kiss her butt and when I told him that I wouldn't do that, at least not until she apologizes, he flew off the handle and told me that I'm only hurting Isaiah, I', taking away from him just like I always do because I "can't get over things". Well, I'm not accepting the verbal abuse from her. Why should she be allowed to call me a liar and a bitch
and be all two-faced to me, but I, have to be the one to kiss her butt? I don't
think so. So that's what our fight was over yesterday, because I refuse to kiss
his mom's butt, and, of course, he blames it on me, tells me I'm the one who
started it.
That, I can get over, but Zoe has special needs. She is bound to be called the
R word in school, so when he used that to insult me, that was the last straw.
When I confronted him about it, he told me he knew I hated that word and
he said it to make me angry. He calls me mental all the time, crazy, pathetic,
etc. When I gave him the situation that, what happens when Zoe comes home
crying because some kid at school called her that, is he still going to use the
word, he said he'll deal with it when it comes to it. No apology, NOTHING.
That's it. I'm done. He can do his counselling so he can have access to the
kids, but I don't care anymore. I can't be with someone who thinks it's okay to
use that word, ESPECIALLY when he has a child with special needs.