Mayhem Babies! May 2011 mummies and babies

[BrandiCanucks]

He's so controlling and verbally abusive and irresponsible, it's not even funny! I think at this point the only reason I have stayed is because of the kids. He had the financial means to care for them better than I did at one point, but now he doesn't. I don't want him out of their lives, but I can't let them keep seeing this, nor do I want them growing up thinking it's okay to call people "f**s" and "r*****s", idiots, mental, etc. Isaiah already yells at me to "Stop talking to me like that, Mommy!" and "Shut up, stupid!" He's sworn a few times, and when Mike is angry, he doesn't care if he swears in front of them. He doesn't care how much he hurts this family. I'm so done. My kids don't deserve this.

 

[BrandiCanucks]

I try to love him, and I tell him I love him, but I don't. I love who he was, when we met, the sweet, caring man who defended me at the drop of a hat, who couldn't stop kissing me when we saw each other, who would bring me surprises, who treated me with respect, who talked to me, who didn't ignore me for his music. I don't love this person he's become. I can't even call him a man. A man does not treat his wife this way. I think, too, I'm just afraid of being alone. I just want to be happy again.

 

[harveydog]

Harvey, I guess 23lb. Is there a cookie? Happy 8 months
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Choc chip cookie

What kind of cake are you looking for Ben 10? Spiderman? Enjoy your day out !

 

[harveydog]

that's lovely weather! I went to bed in the leggings I had on during the day and quickly put my thick night shirt on

Lol I wanted to air my washing but forgot about it

My hubby calls me tight as I go to the supermarket with my vouchers and look for the cheapest yet good quality goods why spend loads when you can get it cheaper!

sorry Aaron is teaching these mayhem babies naughty things he dunked Harveys soft material ball in his water bowl this morning and then tried to do the same with my top!?

 

[harveydog]

I stayed up last night (Been crashing between 7:30 and 8:30 ) because I wanted to see hubby after work and fix him a proper hot meal when he got home, something the poor man hasn't had in well over a week crashed out just after 10- to babies waking SCREAMING at 10:30- got them back to bed- awake again at 11:45 wanting to eat (then play ummmm, no? go to sleep!) crawled into my bed at 12:15- Charlotte woke at 1:45. FOR HER DAY. I kept her in bed with me until 3:30 when she got too loud to still be in the bedroom with sleeping sister (who then got up at 5)- But let me tell you ladies, there is not *ENOUGH caffeine in the free world today!


Seriously considering having my eyelids surgically removed.

Lol couldnt help but laugh but you need some serious tlc off hubby and some after

 

[Inge]

brandi- it sounds horrible hope you work something out soon
lady is on her way soon with the car seat. She had to go to a meeting and never saw my message asking when to expect her
Cant be bothered to work out today - got a cramp and just wana slob out. Nice bubble bath later

 

[heyyady]

Hubby is still sleeping- and tonight is a bar night so needs to sleep til at least 9:30 (it's 7:45am here)
Those stinkin girls still have not napped,either- they usually go down between 6-7 for an hour or so and I can at least doze in my chair next to them- but NOOOOOOO, this morning they're full of piss and vinegar and showing no signs of sleeping! They'll most likely wait til after I get hubby up and then sleep the entire time he has them

 

[mummy3]

Oh heyy You must be exhausted! Wish you were closer hun so I could give you a break!

Harvey, I'm hoping I can get a friend to make him a giant cupcake birthday cake Mmm cookie! Lol your washing could've been used as a sled in those temps Aaron is too funny, what did Harvey make of his ball being dunked?

Its going to be 65 degrees here but chance of showers It rarely rains here and its not proper scottish rain that I'm used too

I think most men like the finer things in life, bit of an ego boost for them. They tend to like fancy gadgets too lol. I shop a lot in the sales but can get carried away with my spending sometimes Its so confusing coming from the UK where wages are lower that it seems like you earn a fortune here but I forget that everything is more expensive here Like 30-40k is a fantastic wage in the UK but very much average here. So you get woohoo on pay day then full on sticker shock at the store

Brandi

 

[BrandiCanucks]

I hate men. I now have two goals in life:

1. Raise Isaiah to respect his girlfriend/wife and be an amazing Daddy and Man.
2. Become a lesbian.

 

[Wiggler]

My poor knee and pelvis, I wanna sit down soooo bad, bit I don't think I would be able to get up again

And I am also a doofu, I thought Dylan finished at 3 but he finishes at 3.45 so becauseof bus times I had to entertain a grumpy baby for an hour and a half!!!!

 

[new_to_ttc]

brandi sorry thinsg are not so good at home hun! Lesbianism isnt all it cracks up to be though - living with women is a nightmare! lol

Inge I really hope it happens soon, and dont beat yourself up about not working out loads today enjoy your bath!

Heyy your girls are adorable but oh so tiresome huh!! Hope you get some rest soon. I hate the last couple of days before payday, its awful we get paid on a tuesday so that last weekend, and particulary the monday is hellish... payday tomorrow its all spent on bills already but im rich for a few hours lol

mummy what do you have planned for Rudiahs birthday hun? mmmmmm giant cupcake sounds delish mmmmmm

wiggler how did dylans first day go?

 

[Inge]

I ate half a pizza and a custard doughnut so not that hungry. Cant wait to have my bubble bath - making OHs dinenr and im having soup and then in I go Got the carseat and it was disgusting its had loads of crumbs and biscuit mushed in and its in the washing machine now - yuck why sell something in such a dirty state?

 

[new_to_ttc]

OMG! Thats just rude! No matter what the price you should still wash it

We had casserole, (see Im making an effort! lol) jacket potatoe with a tomato and bean casserole (the boys had sausages, Im not partial so fished mine out lol) with peas and sweetcorn.... see I can eat when I want to pmsl George had a large portion, and he had sweet & sour for lunch so has eaten an awesome amount today Need a drink now lol

 

[Inge]

I know. she said the morning she'd come so we waited and 4:30pm she turned up when I sold Leos stuff I washed and ironed it all and made sure it was in decent shape.
Ah well...
just had pasta with OH and will have something later with him in front of the tv I think why I feel so down about weight is in the last 18 months my body has been through pregnancy and birth and now weight loss and thats a short time scale really Need to learn to love my new shape. OH is good to have as he was the Gok Wan of Matalan when he did security there and would give clothes advice God knows what he knows about fashion he lives in joggers and sports tops

 

[new_to_ttc]

Inge it is a lot to adapt to hun.

I was a size 18 when I conceived, easily, and now I am a 12, and in between I did the pregnancy bump huge as a whale thing lol - but I still cant feel comfortable how I look, when I look in the mirror I still feel 'fat' and to me Im no different now to what I was when I was in 18 clothes Im assured it'll come with time!

 

[Wiggler]

Dylans first day went well, he had one tantrum there and headbutted the path outside, I already warned the nursery that he does that so they wern't too worried, he ate all his lunch(chicken and sweetcorn pasta followed by peaches in custard) and spent a lot of time playing in the garden and we got his coat back, but I had to play hunt the coat at pick up time cos he had not put it on his peg

He is absolutely exausted at the moment, he just asked for a bath so he can have a bath, then his milk then bed.

No tantrum since OH has been home either, they normally start the second he walks in the door but he is in a lovely mood So proud of my little guy!

 

[BrandiCanucks]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SN46XKNJxug

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pu3WLjrvycE

 

[harveydog]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SN46XKNJxug

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pu3WLjrvycE

I thought she had a sex toy in her hand before the video started

She's a cutie!

 

[Inge]

I thought the same harveys Iv got a filthy mind since the implant came out must be all the Im going to buy some nice new clothes soon that actually fit. I think if I buy some nice clothes and make abetter effort to look nice then Il feel happier in myself. Im going to wait til my birthday in april (maybe)

 

[BrandiCanucks]

I was thinking of putting in a siggy/blinkie request in on here. I was wondering what you guys thought and if you'd want to participate.

I was thinking of a blinkie we would all have in our signature of the Mini Mayhems of 2011 on the day they were born, and then a slow flash to a picture of them on their first birthday, like a messy cake face. We could wait until all the babies have had their birthday's. It would go in a loop, starting from the oldest to the youngest, and MAYBE their first name and birthdate.

What do you guys think?