Ah Lisette sounds like you've been through it but I promise it's worth it!
We spoke at an NCT class tonight (they are a birth preparation class) and told a group our birth story and how we are coping and it was great for us. It gave us a chance to appreciate coming through the other side of what I like to call new baby fog. Some days you can't see it improving and then all of a sudden you realise that it's not so bad. In fact it's fun!
Hands - I can empathise with you on the overtiredness. Finlay is a pickle for refusing to sleep during the day. Have you tried playing music or a vibrating noise in the background? It might help block out noises that wake him up. Apparently buzzy noises (like a hairdrier or a clothes drier) remind them of the noise they hear in the womb.
Snow I have two recipes for crumpets (Rachel Allen - an Irish cook whose recipes always work) and one from a BBC baking program. Both use dairy though. Do you gave rice milk over there? If you do it might be worth a try and I'll post the recipes. Crumpets are delish. Though personally I think they need lots of proper butter melted in to make it worthwhile!
Hubby and I are planning on three as long as we can afford to do so. In the UK once your child reaches three the government give you 15 hours of free pre-school entitlement, so we are thinking of having our next one when Finlay is c. Two and a half so when I have to go back to work I can afford childcare. When Finlay was 6 wks my mum did make a point of saying two and a half yrs is a good age gap. I think she was worried I was going to start trying for a second straight away!


Snow I have two recipes for crumpets (Rachel Allen - an Irish cook whose recipes always work) and one from a BBC baking program. Both use dairy though. Do you gave rice milk over there? If you do it might be worth a try and I'll post the recipes. Crumpets are delish. Though personally I think they need lots of proper butter melted in to make it worthwhile!

Hubby and I are planning on three as long as we can afford to do so. In the UK once your child reaches three the government give you 15 hours of free pre-school entitlement, so we are thinking of having our next one when Finlay is c. Two and a half so when I have to go back to work I can afford childcare. When Finlay was 6 wks my mum did make a point of saying two and a half yrs is a good age gap. I think she was worried I was going to start trying for a second straight away!