Mid-August Testers

[snowflakes120]

Oh Bex. I am so very very sorry. I am sending you the hughest cyber hug ever right now.

Lots of love to you and yours.

 

[jchic]

To my lovely mid-august ladies.

I wanted to let you know that on Wednesday this week, I had some bleeding. I was admitted to hospital where the doctors confirmed that I had miscarried. I was in hospital for a couple of days and I was given some medication to help it along. This hasn't fully worked. I've been let home now, but I need to go back in a week and if needs be I may need to have surgery to make sure.

Needless to say we are really upset, but we have wonderful friends and family who are being super supportive.

Bye bye little one

Im so so sorry Srb....stay strong, ok?

 

[NotNic]

Bex, I really am so sorry for you and your other half. I feel really sad about your news, but I want you to know that I am really thinking of you. We're here if you need anything. Huge hugs and love to you right now. xxx

 

[jchic]

Bex, I really am so sorry for you and your other half. I feel really sad about your news, but I want you to know that I am really thinking of you. We're here if you need anything. Huge hugs and love to you right now. xxx

Nic, how are you doing? Any news?

 

[NotNic]

No nothing for me. I haven't even poas since last Saturday. Doctors think AF or something should happen this week, so if nothing overnight I may do a test tomorrow - if only so I can enjoy a glass of wine and a blue steak. How are you doing? x

 

[InHisHands]

Bex - I am so sorry My heart just breaks for you. I will be sure to lift you and oh in my prayers. If you ever need to vent, you know where to find us

Nic - just be sure to keep us posted.

Snow - yes i live in the u.s. I'm not sure what my cycle is doing this month, but i just know i don't feel good about it. Still no hubby -- BTW i understand your feelings about the whole "where will hubby be". If i get pregnant before he deploys... he won't be around for the first several months of the baby's life. It kind of stinks and being a first time mom, it is a little scary. But it will be okay. I try not the fret and just take it one day at a time (as if i have a choice).

 

[NotNic]

Morning ladies. I just wanted to let you know that I won't be eating blue steak for dinner tonight, or for the next 8+ months either...... Yep, this morning I got an actual BFP. I'll pick a digital up this afternoon, just to be sure. I'm then going to keep everything crossed that this might be it, as I know how difficult the next 6+ months will be for me. So many of my friends have been in your position Bex and I know through them how devastating it is. I have told OH and I have a few other BnB ladies I want to tell, but then that is it for me for a while. My mum lost her first baby late in the first tri, so if this is a sticky, healthy bean then everyone else can find out after Christmas.

Lots of love to everyone. I couldn't have waited so patiently without you all keeping me positive! I'll be here to return the favour with you(because I'm good at that!), with you and giving you all lots of xxx

 

[MrsBea23]

Hi Ladies,

Bex - I am so so sorry hun . I know it will take you a while to recover (physically and mentally) but I have seen lots of ladies on here that have got their BFP the month after an mc so hopefully once you get the all clear the next month will be your month. I really am devastated for you and I hope things feel a bit better soon.

Nic - OMG congratulations who would of thought it after such a funny cycle that is great news yay.

everyone else I am following along just not commenting much these days but I hope you all get your BFP's soon.

 

[InHisHands]

Congrats Nic!!! About time little bean showed up huh How far along does this make you?


No sign of ovulation here. No positive opk, dried up, and no sore boobs. Looks like this month is a failure. Oh well onto doing nothing but waiting.

 

[snowflakes120]

Nic! Congrats! I just knew it! Your squiffy cycle sure has a great ending!!

Hands - Keep your head up - I would just keep BDing just in case you are just going to OV later than usual and you don't miss it.

Bex - Still thinking of you.

Not much going on with me. Just waiting - was super crampy yesterday but today they are gone - it's too early to really think of it as anything anyways. Today was the 1st nice cool Autumn day here - so I tried a new Chili recipe and it was soooo delish!! Going to Church tomorrow and then we are going to a baby shower for a close friend - they are having it for both girls and boys to come. I got her a few things from her registry - She is having a baby girl.

 

[Srbjbex]

Ladies - thanks for all your thoughts and prayers. It really means a lot to me, and you are all so lovely and kind. I am feeling much better today than I have in a while and I have heard some really positive stories which is helping me a lot.

Nic - I am so happy for you - what amazing news!!! Well done, you must have been doing some good BDing during that squiffy cycle and it has obviously paid off. That news has put a massive smile on my face

 

[NotNic]

Thanks everyone. Funnily enough, we actually did far less this time. No opks or anything, and a lot less bding. OH reckons he should be a sniper - one shot does the trick! To be honest I think it was because I was more relaxed and wasn't overthinking it. It took 6 mths for me with a big dash of luck. I really did think I was going to take a yr at least. Will be waiting with all of you. We have a few in the Tww now. Fingers x'd for some more good news. Xx

 

[CHDickey]

Nic!!!! That is awesome!!!! So happy!

 

[CHDickey]

Bex-- I wish I could hug you right now!!!! I don't even know what to say except that I am thinking about you!

 

[snowflakes120]

Hey girls. How is everyone holding up? I'm doing ok. Just trying to wait and not symptom spot that much - remaining calm. Only 5 more sleeps til I plan to test - Saturday AM.

I have been doing some very positive thinking these past few days. Today's lower BBT temp instilled a bunch of doubt into my thoughts. I am telling myself it is because it is 20 degrees colder outside this weekend and that our house/bedroom is 10 degrees cooler than these past few weeks. When fall/autumn hits us - we get no slight decrease in temps - it just drops like that and stays like that!! That is my excuse and that is what I am sticking to.

 

[InHisHands]

still no ovulation here. So i've been just eating whatever i want and drinking whatever i want ... ie coffee, and coke.

I'm not just worrying about it and focusing on other aspects of my life. There's nothing i can do about any of this anyways. The good news is, is that im not depressed right now. -- I just don't have any news to share.

 

[NotNic]

Hands keep positive! Remember, it turns out I didn't ovulate until really late in my cycle. No surge on an opk or anything. Then the one month I didn't think about it, was the one month I hit the mark! Keep positive and calm, and bd'ing! xx

Loving the pma Snowflakes. Your reasoning makes total sense to me. Keep up the good work! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for Saturday for you! xx

 

[InHisHands]

I hope so Nic, but im not going to get my hopes up... but i'll definately try to get hubby to BD every 3 days or so.

Did you boobs or nipples ever get sore Nic? Did you ever have a lot of ewcm at any one point

 

[NotNic]

My boobs and nipples never got sore (don't with AF either) and don't seem any different now. I have always had EWCM, but this cycle, especially after I was late, I had a huge increase in cm and tbh I didn't really pay attention to any ewcm this month - because I felt wetter (sorry for the tmi). I really don't know what made that change. It could just be I had an increase of hormones, or perhaps all those blueberries at the beginning of the cycle made a difference. Have you tried pre-seed? It seems to have quite a bit of success if ewcm is something you are concerned about.

How are you feeling today Bex? Are you back at work? xxx

 

[Srbjbex]

I think the blueberries are what did it for me!

Not at work yet. The doc signed me off for the whole week, because they didn't know what is going to happen and whether I was going to be in any pain this week etc. i have my hospital appointment on Friday. If I get the all clear then, then I will be going to work on Monday. If however they find i haven't passed all the tissue then I will have to have surgery to remove, so not sure when exactly that will be. Please can you all keep your fingers crossed that I will not have to have surgery!!!

But I am feeling a lot better within myself today. I don't feel sad all the time any more. I am missing my husband though, as he has had to go away for the week with work to the US (I'm staying with my parents while he is away). CH - he is in Texas today, so give him a wave from me!!!

I can't wait to see who the next one of us to get their BFP will be!