chattyB
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Hubby and I are currently having a debate.
I'm due on the 9th Jan (currently 38 weeks). The midwife has informed me that they'll not be "on call" for my homebirth until 2nd Jan (39 weeks) and will remain on call until 40+12.
I'm pretty sure that the 39 weeks on call dates are purely due to Xmas/new year staffing levels and holiday commitments along with 3 other mums to be booked in for homebirths around the same period. I was told earlier in the pregnancy that the midwives would be on-call from 38 weeks (today).
When did your midwives go on call for you? Am I being unreasonable in thinking that 39 weeks is cutting it close? I really don't want to miss my chance of a homebirth if my baby decides to join us within the next few days. I told hubby that if this is the case and labour starts, I'll be staying at home regardless, call the coordinator and tell them to send someone out as I'm refusing to go in to labour ward. He's very nervous about it all and doesn't want to upset "the establishment" by going against their wishes.
What would you do??
I'm due on the 9th Jan (currently 38 weeks). The midwife has informed me that they'll not be "on call" for my homebirth until 2nd Jan (39 weeks) and will remain on call until 40+12.
I'm pretty sure that the 39 weeks on call dates are purely due to Xmas/new year staffing levels and holiday commitments along with 3 other mums to be booked in for homebirths around the same period. I was told earlier in the pregnancy that the midwives would be on-call from 38 weeks (today).
When did your midwives go on call for you? Am I being unreasonable in thinking that 39 weeks is cutting it close? I really don't want to miss my chance of a homebirth if my baby decides to join us within the next few days. I told hubby that if this is the case and labour starts, I'll be staying at home regardless, call the coordinator and tell them to send someone out as I'm refusing to go in to labour ward. He's very nervous about it all and doesn't want to upset "the establishment" by going against their wishes.
What would you do??