Firstly I had my 12 week scan xmas eve and everything was perfect so, so happy about that but I have a bit of a rant...
I know it's christmas and families argue but oh my word I'm so angry! We drove 3 hours to see my husbands family yesterday and announced this pregnany to those who didn't know and his mum was being so horrible.
Basically I have always lived in the town I'm in now, my husband moved here 4 years before I met him for work and loved it and stayed and met me. She is now trying to get us to move to near her so she can see her future grandchild even though neither of us want to move, she actually said that she would never come and see any of us because everyone from my town are wankers! She's only met my friends and family so obviously means them. She's even tried bribing us back saying she will give us a house, job and £7,000! If we stay where we are we get nothing.
I am NOT somebody who gives a damn about money so that's not an issue but after me repeating myself for 3 solid hours saying I didn't want to move she said "I really want to punch somebody" That was nearly breaking point for me but I held it all in until she started slating my family and I just walked off crying.
Before this we had agreed to come back once a month to visit but I feel like I just shouldn't bother, I know my husband will still want to and I don't want to cause arguments between us but I'm so angry.
Am I being unreasonable? My husband said she doesn't mean anything nasty by it and I'm just being over sensitive!!
I want to warn her that she's close to losing any chance of us coming to see her but I don't want to be petty about it all and I want my child to see the rest of his family who are lovely.
I know it's christmas and families argue but oh my word I'm so angry! We drove 3 hours to see my husbands family yesterday and announced this pregnany to those who didn't know and his mum was being so horrible.
Basically I have always lived in the town I'm in now, my husband moved here 4 years before I met him for work and loved it and stayed and met me. She is now trying to get us to move to near her so she can see her future grandchild even though neither of us want to move, she actually said that she would never come and see any of us because everyone from my town are wankers! She's only met my friends and family so obviously means them. She's even tried bribing us back saying she will give us a house, job and £7,000! If we stay where we are we get nothing.
I am NOT somebody who gives a damn about money so that's not an issue but after me repeating myself for 3 solid hours saying I didn't want to move she said "I really want to punch somebody" That was nearly breaking point for me but I held it all in until she started slating my family and I just walked off crying.
Before this we had agreed to come back once a month to visit but I feel like I just shouldn't bother, I know my husband will still want to and I don't want to cause arguments between us but I'm so angry.
Am I being unreasonable? My husband said she doesn't mean anything nasty by it and I'm just being over sensitive!!
I want to warn her that she's close to losing any chance of us coming to see her but I don't want to be petty about it all and I want my child to see the rest of his family who are lovely.