Well this is just a bit of a whinge really. The other day i found out my baby was breech and i would be having a c-section in just under 2 weeks. Major disappointment for me but hey i'll get over it. So anyway was with OH yesterday lying in bed just talking when his mum comes in to talk to him about our video camera she bought for us (she gave us the money we chose it). Apparently video camera isnt good enough, it doesnt take pictures - we need to take it back and get a new one. (And who is this for exactly i want to ask?). So OH always aiming to please his mother starts packing it up, when she eventually leaves the room (not before askinhg me if the baby is being active, which i respond to and say yes she is) he see's something is wrong cos i am all quiet. He asks if its cos i dnt want to change the video camera and i say yes because we both have very good digital camera's the point of the video camera was to make VIDEOS. By this time he breaks down going you and my mum wind me up. So we have a lil argument cos he feels me and his mum are talking through him and that when his mum asks about the baby being active it means she wants to feel the baby blah blah. So i tell him that if thats the case how can he be angry at me i'm no sherlock and if she isnt direct with me how am i supposed to understand (baby was asleep at the time she asked anyway!). So i tell him if he was going to angry cos i didnt understand what she was saying if she's trying to say things in a roundabout way it shouldnt be with me. Eventually he says its true and he's sorry. So we talk about what else is bothering him and he admits the hospital andall the visitors scenario is bothering him. So i say we will come up with a plan, him and my mum for the day c-section(monday), his mum the next day and the rest of vistors on the wednesday. Fair right? But then his mum tells him she is going to the hospital the day of the c-section (you what?) he tells her she wnt be going in to the room to see me, but she says she is going to the hospital anyway. errrr its winding me up how she doesnt take no for an answer, like everything was her choice to make. Any advice girls before i runaway and have this baby in some remote island where no one can reach me least of all her?