twistedwheel
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I had a mc in Feb, the only one I've ever had. I seem to have had an easy time physically, in that I didn't have a lot of pain or majorly heavy bleeding during the mc. Although emotionally it devestated dh and I.
After the initial upset and tears had been delt with, within days I wanted to get back on the ttc wagon! So as soon as the bleeding stopped we started ttc again.
Although I feel like I am still so confused. I want another child more than anything else in the world. I still think about the baby we lost every day. I had a good chat with dh this morning who said I was kind of giving him mixed messages in that I want to dtd ALL the time then, all of a sudden, I am terrified of dtd. I'm more scared that if we got a bfp and I had another mc, it could be so much worse physically and I'm not sure I could cope with that. DH says I should think positive, and I know I should, but every now and again I get a niggle in the back of my mind that tells me I am mad for wanting to run the risk of an hurrendous mc. DH suggested going on the pill for a couple of months just until I don't think I will mc again, but I feel like that would upset me so much because it means there would be no chance of getting that bfp I so badly want.
How have you ladies managed to keep the thoughts away of another mc happening again?
After the initial upset and tears had been delt with, within days I wanted to get back on the ttc wagon! So as soon as the bleeding stopped we started ttc again.
Although I feel like I am still so confused. I want another child more than anything else in the world. I still think about the baby we lost every day. I had a good chat with dh this morning who said I was kind of giving him mixed messages in that I want to dtd ALL the time then, all of a sudden, I am terrified of dtd. I'm more scared that if we got a bfp and I had another mc, it could be so much worse physically and I'm not sure I could cope with that. DH says I should think positive, and I know I should, but every now and again I get a niggle in the back of my mind that tells me I am mad for wanting to run the risk of an hurrendous mc. DH suggested going on the pill for a couple of months just until I don't think I will mc again, but I feel like that would upset me so much because it means there would be no chance of getting that bfp I so badly want.
How have you ladies managed to keep the thoughts away of another mc happening again?