Molar and Partial Molar Pregnancy Support Group

[Babee_Bugs]

Thank you for replying ladies...

The scan showed a sac only measuring 7 weeks and 5 days so things had stopped growing for almost 4 weeks she did say it would be rushed through... But I think it's the not knowing and having this black cloud above my head on all the what ifs.

I just feel the longer it's taking for results, means it must be bad news

OH is adamant he isn't having anymore, he's not going to try or anything, the only thing that kept me going was the thought of trying again and holding onto hope we would get pregnant ASAP... It took us nearly 3 years to conceive and it's gone

Mine results were rushed through but it still took 2 weeks so try not worry yourself to much until you have them. (i know thats hard!) Have you had any other bloodtests to get your hcg results?

As for your OH its all a bit much for them watching you go through this so maybe he needs a bit of time??

xxx

I only had my blood hcg taken once and that was it

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Well maybe they are waiting in your results? Its horrible waiting! I kept calling my doctor at the hospital kinda pested them!!!

xxx

 

[Babee_Bugs]

I think she said there were 60,000 but the phone was crackling... There took the tissue for testing after the d&c so need to wait for histology to get back to me

 

[Mummy2Corban]

fingers crossed you get your results soon honey

xxx

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Oh I hope so... I just want to grieve, but having this hanging over me, is clouding it all... I just can't focus on anything until I know (I'm a very anxious person) x

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Hang in there i have everything crossed you get your results soon so you can start working through your emotions.

Hugs xxx

 

[Mummy2Corban]

how are all the preggers ladies getting on? Xxx

 

[MrsWag]

how are all the preggers ladies getting on? Xxx

I'm doing ok, apart from feeling tired and sicky a lot of the time! Had my booking in appointment on Wednesday so now waiting for my 12week scan letter (which I should get within 3weeks). Still feeling really nervous about everything though and worry at the slightest thing!

How are things with you Laura? Wedding plans going well?

So sorry to see the new ladies on here, but so glad you have found the fantastic support from the ladies on this tread! Massive huigs to all of you and I hope your levels drop down quickly.

Now for a proper catch up of all thats been going on....

 

[Mummy2Corban]

Hey megan! So lovely to hear from you! Glad to hear your ok... the 1st tri is very tiring i used to go to bed soooo early when i was preggo with corban. Must have been exciting getting you pack I used to work at the place that does the bounty packs! I bet you do feel nervous as excited as i am about getting pregnant i know when i do ill be miss worry pants to but i think its just how it is after this molar business! Im so happy for you and so super excited!

Things are good thank you honey....im so close to June! Af is due around the 20-21ish of May so after that we will be BD!!! WOOOO! So excited that im finally here felt like forever but ive made it! Wedding plans are going good! Lots of deposits to pay!!! Looking forward to my next dress fitting...YAY!!!!

XXX

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Hello ladies...

Still haven't got results back.... But my pregnancy test lines are getting lighter! So the hcg is on its way back down, which I feel such relieved for x

 

[dan-o]

Hi mrs wag glad it's all going well!!

Great news babee bugs! Hope it contuines to drop really quick now!

Mummy2corban, it's so close now!! Bet you get a BFP first go!! Hope so anyway!!

 

[avgabcon5]

Had my scan today (8weeks 6 days as measured, thought I was 9 weeks so that's great!)! Was a nervous wreck in the waiting room - my OH is away in Spain on a long weekend (booked last year and he's gone with the lads to watch the Grand Prix in Barcelona!). So anyway my friend came with me. Whenever I get really scared/nervous etc I start shaking and my teeth start chattering! I was trying to just chat away normally and could feel my legs starting to go! anyway, we went in and the sonographer was lovely (unlike last time) and she knew my history. I'd just had time to glance at little bud with a heartbeat when the signal from the probe was lost and the screen went blank for about 5 minutes! Anyway, baby is fine - spot on in size for the dates and heartbeat absolutely fine!! I did shed a few tears of relief/happiness!! A little disappointed there was only in there...hah! Got my next scan in just over 4 weeks but hopefully I can start to relax now!!
Hope everyone else is ok - will scroll back the posts now!! xx

 

[avgabcon5]

Mummy2Corban - it's exciting to be on the countdown isn't it - you are really close now!! wahay!

Babee_bugs -glad your levels are dropping! I'm sorry your OH is saying he doesn't want anymore children. Back in October (4 months after my molar) and just as we were starting to think about getting ready to try again my OH dropped the bombshell he didn't want anymore. It was a horrible time for meas he was adamant and wouldn't even discuss it or let me have my say. We had so many rows and I was questioning my future with him - more so because of his whole attitude rather than what he thought he wanted/didn't want. Anyway it took about 4 weeks before he would talk about it and eventually he started to open up (only very slightly tho - he doesn't really show his emotions, i think he sees it as a sign of weakness - who knows! - but he was mainly worried about things goiung wrong again and my health along with things such as his age (he's 45 this year) but anyway I'm pleased to say that by the time we got the official all clear he was ready and willing!! So i would say don't give up hope - back in October I though that I would have to accept that there were going to be no more babies for me and now I'm 9 weeks gone! I really hope you sort things out but from experinece you might need to be very patient!! xx

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Mummy2Corban - it's exciting to be on the countdown isn't it - you are really close now!! wahay!

Babee_bugs -glad your levels are dropping! I'm sorry your OH is saying he doesn't want anymore children. Back in October (4 months after my molar) and just as we were starting to think about getting ready to try again my OH dropped the bombshell he didn't want anymore. It was a horrible time for meas he was adamant and wouldn't even discuss it or let me have my say. We had so many rows and I was questioning my future with him - more so because of his whole attitude rather than what he thought he wanted/didn't want. Anyway it took about 4 weeks before he would talk about it and eventually he started to open up (only very slightly tho - he doesn't really show his emotions, i think he sees it as a sign of weakness - who knows! - but he was mainly worried about things goiung wrong again and my health along with things such as his age (he's 45 this year) but anyway I'm pleased to say that by the time we got the official all clear he was ready and willing!! So i would say don't give up hope - back in October I though that I would have to accept that there were going to be no more babies for me and now I'm 9 weeks gone! I really hope you sort things out but from experinece you might need to be very patient!! xx

I'm so sorry for your loss, but what you have gone through, has made me think maybes time will be a great healer... My OH ounds just like your hubby! He won't listen to my views, won't talk about the baby or nothing... He doesn't want a baby and that's final... Last night we had a row and he said some really hurtful things and did make me question why I wanted to have more children with him for! I've also had those, I can't see us getting through this moments... But I'm hoping and praying that maybes sometime in the future he may change his mind..

I'm not going to mention the baby or anything baby related anymore, (although I'm still grieving for our loss) but he doesn't seem interested and implies its just adding pressure on him.. So it's pointless in me talking about it :/

Awww congrats on your new pregnancy Hunnie and getting to the scan milestone, it's such a magical moment when you actually just see them bouncing around on the scan

 

[rachieroo]

Yay soo glad everything went fine in your scan Avgabcon5!! I cried with relief too, except I didnt just cry, I absolutely sobbed into OH's arm and he just looked at me like I had two heads lol! Try and enjoy it now hun xx

 

[dan-o]

Fab news avgab!!! Huge congrats!!

 

[jacky b]

Dan-o how are you feeling?

Mrs Wag,so glad everything is going well.

Babee bugs, congratulation on your levels dropping. Its heading in the right direction.

Avgabcon, excellent news from your scan. So wonderful that your dates much up.

Mummy2Corban, so exciting that its not far away. Fingers crossed that it happens quickly and you'll get a bub at the start of next year, new year, new lifestyle with a precious baby.

Fingers crossed for third time lucky. My af was due this morning and i did a test expecting nothing only because i hadn.'t had any pain leading up to today and got a faint second line. Very unexpected, my meds must have started working and im becoming baby friendly. Fingers crossed it sticks. It would be perfect timing as i have a ong appointment on Tuesday. Also will mean due mid jan and a birthday present for my hub by who found out last year on his birthday that we had lost our baby. Bit worried at same time as it was a month earlier than we were meant to ttc and specialist talked as though it wouldn't happen quickly. Just praying for healthy one.

 

[B&LsMom]

JackyB--congrats!!! Good luck with testing again and watching the lines get darker--I did 5 HPT's JUST to make sure things were progressing LOL

 

[avgabcon5]

Oh wow Jacky b - congratulations!! Great news!

 

[dan-o]

OMG jackyb!!! Wow!!! Congrats on your BFP!!

Dan-o how are you feeling?

I'm feeling fine actually hun, thanks for asking Ready and willing to try again, hoping the next one sticks