lollylou1
Mummy to Belle and preg
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so 2 weeks ago i went to my MIL and SIL was there with her 4 year old daughter, Annabelle and E (niece) were messing about under the stairs and my sis in law who was directing her comment to her own daughter said " quick the monsters will get ya" well Annabelle really appeared frightened! she ran to me and kept saying monsters get ya!
im not sure if complete coincidence or not but every night since then she has been hysterical going to bed, like petrified of going to bed! she is very clever and i have used the supernanny techinque of putting her back to bed reassuring her then just straight back in but she will not stay in her room so i have taken to holding the door handle! i know some of u may think this is wrong but she will run riot and her room is right at the top of the stairs so it is safer to do this!
anyway tonight OH was taking her to bed, the first time since weekend and she was saying no bed no bed, so i asked her why to which she replied monsters bite me bum!
i have sat her down very lighthearted and explains that monsters arent really they only pretend but this is hard with a 2 year old, i have put a lamp in her room, i didnt say it was anything to do with monsters but said it was so she could make sure out cat didnt sneak into her room, she seemed really impressed but is currently screaming like someone is murdering her up there!
im completely at a loss as to what to do, i dont know if its pure coincidence that the monster thing happened as she hasnt mentioned it before tonight!
we have also started this past 2 weeks more so this week with terrible 2 tantrums so any suggestions welcome
Lou
xxx
im not sure if complete coincidence or not but every night since then she has been hysterical going to bed, like petrified of going to bed! she is very clever and i have used the supernanny techinque of putting her back to bed reassuring her then just straight back in but she will not stay in her room so i have taken to holding the door handle! i know some of u may think this is wrong but she will run riot and her room is right at the top of the stairs so it is safer to do this!
anyway tonight OH was taking her to bed, the first time since weekend and she was saying no bed no bed, so i asked her why to which she replied monsters bite me bum!
i have sat her down very lighthearted and explains that monsters arent really they only pretend but this is hard with a 2 year old, i have put a lamp in her room, i didnt say it was anything to do with monsters but said it was so she could make sure out cat didnt sneak into her room, she seemed really impressed but is currently screaming like someone is murdering her up there!
im completely at a loss as to what to do, i dont know if its pure coincidence that the monster thing happened as she hasnt mentioned it before tonight!
we have also started this past 2 weeks more so this week with terrible 2 tantrums so any suggestions welcome
Lou
xxx