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pubs are definately better than running restaurants! i would never ever buy and own a restaurant ever! although with pubs you get some major issues like people dealing to teeny boppers and drunks at least you can chuck them out and not expect a complaint letter to higher level management with a voucher in the post for their trouble when their trouble was actually them being rude to staff!

dh is loving the pub as well, the bosses are so much nicer as well, at the moment in the restaurant industry there is a culture of hiring complete wan$ers to wring as much as they can out of their managers, there is an impossibly small labour budget set which means poor customer service which means more complaints which means less sales less profit higher labour% based on sales which then means cutting staff back even more which leads to even more complaints and basically general managers coming home stressed to the hilt because they get told they do not work enough hours like my dh got told when he was working 75 hours a week!

pubs it is so much different, its the same with that there are budgets and targets but the attitude and method and atmosphere is just completely opposite!

if people knew how much money restaurants were allowed to spend on paying staff everyone around the country would go ahhhhh that explains a hell of a lot!
 
Hi ladies sorry I havent been around much :flower: had a quick catch up but read so much cant remember much :dohh:

Would love to arrange a meet though would be fantastic ;)

Quick update on me! I tested yesterday after the bleeding got heavy with clots :( has been light pink barely there all week and was :bfn: I guess I was early preg but not now :sad2: I do feel sad but I guess it just wasn't meant to be :(
 
I was dtd at 16 but with my boyfriend of 2 years at that point.

In most peoples book I probably still lack experience. I've had three boyfriends since I was 14 so the maths of people I've slept with is pretty simple :blush:

I actually feel embarrassed for that girl though, it was such a slaggy thing to do but she's probably to stupid to realise being a girl and doing that leads to you being a slut and the man/boy a hero. I'm yet to encounter a girl who can choose to sleep around and not be slated for it.

thats what i said to dh! i said she would look back and realise that that guy didnt think she was cool or a good laugh for doing it, he was literally getting a piece and then the next week at another pub would be saying to all his mates ahh remember that complete ho last week wow she was dirty!

oh the whole group of guys got barred after that lol
 
Oh madly sorry for that! I hope your ok xxx
 
Gilz i have only had three partners too and first had sex at 15!

I dont look on it as lack of experience more like i have met my sexual match with dh ;)
 
my total is 5 including dh, i never feel like i missed out so to speak not at all, especially as all the previous partners (ie not dh) were all incredibly selfish in bed lol lol lol

i have a friend who is really erm loose, in school it was her aim to erm "have" each letter of the alphabet, and well she almost got there! dunno!
 
Thank you Ladies :hugs:

I have cried i wont lie :( dh is been annoyingly attentive sad but he says hes only upset cause i am and he never would have wanted the baby :nope: two things I have learnt i quite possibly would want another baby in the future and I dont think I will ever feel the same about dh again :sad2:
 
cough 4 here i sholdn't really count my 16 year old encounter because saying small boy covered it he was 15 lol. and baring matt they have generally been really rubbish.

Scotland i can do scotland now where is my sat nav?
 
Madly its boght up a subject that would have hung in the air. Sorry i told you about the jab so you tested. have you spoken to your doctor to check the jab still works?
 
oh ozzie you madam!! lol lol lol

madly forget the train whoever is most south can have the first coach pick up, the coach will stop off at locations going up the country collecting us all! graduates road trip!!!

ha ha too ambitious? i think the petrol, coach hire and driver fee may top the budget lol

ohh edinburgh! now i could convince dh that that is a real family holiday!
 
No Jo doing that on Monday but sex is def the last thing on my mind!
 
And Jo its not your fault i tested i felt crap you just gave me the courage to do it :hugs:
 

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