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i'll have it. need to get sumit healthy matt wants pizzafor tea and I dnt like it anymore
 
Gilz that would be me, Matt some times needs very obvious hints. we are presently haveing the :sex: debate no my back and stomach ache, and you only show intrest when we go to bed, my comfy sleepy place grrr
 
molly85 said:
i'll have it. need to get sumit healthy matt wants pizzafor tea and I dnt like it anymore
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At around 7 weeks, pizza was all i wanted, we were ordering it everyday! :blush: These days i can't touch it, i went off it overnight...yuk the very thought...:sick:
 
So sorry to hear about your friends sad news gilz:hugs:

Poos shay is sick since fri night,has a high temp and looks like death:cry:
He's a little perkier today and temp is staying reasonable with some nurofen,so hopefully just a 24hr bug.Its a terror,he only started back to playschool on monday,and already sick!
Oran seems fine so far.

Madcat i'm not exagerrating,I literally need a wee every 10 mins,sometimes i feel like I need to go again before i've even pulled my knickers up from the last 1!!Its such a pain in the ass,especially when i'm out shopping and stuff!

My dh didn't so much have a regular boy night out before we had shay,but we were both used to doing as we pleased!
We did have to have words a few times,and by the time we had oran I think he was well trained,he would do things without me asking.
He even stopped going to the gym for the 1st 2 months after oran was born.
His night outs now are few and far between,but thats probably also because we moved out of the town after shay was born,so its a lot more hassle and expensive to go out now,havin to get taxis and stuff.

With the boys now he does the baths,and he also puts them to bed.
Thats just our routine,i'm usually cleaning up after dinner and stuff and he gets the boys organised.
He doesn't play x box or go to the gym until they're in bed!
Thats the rules!!
 
i know shame is i like the stuffed crust and toppings.
 
I have a few friends who've had real issues with new dads not grasping that responsibility has to be shared. One of my friends actually walked into the pub one Sunday with her 4 month old daughter in the pram, gave her OH the changing bag and left. It was a pretty drastic step to take but it appeared to help. Hopefully it'll never come to that for any of us though.
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nothing like making the issue nice and clear, sometimes when words fail we need to go visual!:haha:

Vbaby- i do that too!!, i can sit down, have a proper wee, go sit down infront of the TV and i need to go again!.:blush:
last night we went to bed at 11.20, i had a wee after putting plates&cups in the kitchen, went down to bed, had another wee, went to bed, and at 12.30 i woke up for another wee!:haha:
 
I always read when I go to bed,so could be reading for half an hr or so and then just switch light off as my eyes start closing.I could be up to pee 3 times in that half hr,and then wake an hr later for another 1.baby musy be using our bladders for a matress.
The worst bit is,its making me remember how much I need to wee when baby is like 6 or 7 lbs.Oh roll on april!!
Its so funny,after I had both my boys I didn't need to go wee for hrs!It was like instant relief!
 
Good news is babys will be here this year. and then our bladders are our own again
 
vbaby3 said:
I always read when I go to bed,so could be reading for half an hr or so and then just switch light off as my eyes start closing.I could be up to pee 3 times in that half hr,and then wake an hr later for another 1.baby musy be using our bladders for a matress.
The worst bit is,its making me remember how much I need to wee when baby is like 6 or 7 lbs.Oh roll on april!!
Its so funny,after I had both my boys I didn't need to go wee for hrs!It was like instant relief!
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please dont tell me it gets worse than it is now, because like you it can be every 10mins, sometimes less on occassions!. and going to town as you say is ridiculous, constantly on the lookout for the nearest instore loo!
 
vbaby3 said:
I always read when I go to bed,so could be reading for half an hr or so and then just switch light off as my eyes start closing.I could be up to pee 3 times in that half hr,and then wake an hr later for another 1.baby musy be using our bladders for a matress.
The worst bit is,its making me remember how much I need to wee when baby is like 6 or 7 lbs.Oh roll on april!!
Its so funny,after I had both my boys I didn't need to go wee for hrs!It was like instant relief!
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i cant imagine how fantastic that is after having your babs to get your bladder back!. are we able to instantly start bending over to pick things up like we used to aswell?
 
You know I didn't last time and I'm not really this time having much by way of bladder issues. Not sure why. I need to go more frequently in first tri when all the hormones are building up then again towards the end when there's not much space but otherwise it's not too bad. I do get the baby squashing my bladder and me thinking I need a pee then I move again and it's fine.

Well I have just contacted Toshiba about my laptop and the union about my work issues. Two good things I think.

I had sort of the beginnings of nervous breakdown today. It started with me on here writing about piles (!:blush:) and DH came to collect some pots off the desk and I was all "give me some space". We'd been having a harrowing lunch of Byron not eating and DH getting cross and I suddenly couldn't cope. I went upstairs and lay down quietly to have a little cry and listen to the rain. We were supposed to be going to the reservoirs for a walk (which we did in the end) and I suddenly felt like a teen and wanted to just walk out the house in the rain and get away from an hour or two. Except I can't walk that long and feel sick and have obligations and the good walks are all 10 miles away so I'd need the car etc etc. have never in two years wanted to be away from my family like that. :( I know it doesn't sound like much but I think everything is really escalating and I'm worried about being able to hold it together for another couple of months.

Anyway, we had a very wet walk at the reservoirs (or the sea) and enjoyed pointing out the pylons (lighthouses) and walking on the jetty (bridge).
 
Peanut you do need some alone time. with no work or Byron just you. I was considering a walk in the rain to. Can't get to hot out there and it will blow the cobwebs away.
 
peanut:hugs:

you got alot on your plate hun, its not suprising youre at the end of your rope, you have been throwing up or feeling sick for months on end, you have the grief at work to contend with, a todler who by the sounds of it is having a few 'terrible two's' moments....i think id end up feeling like this to be honest.
Its a shame you cant start your mat leave just yet, and give yourself time to catch up on life.:shrug:
 
PeanutBean said:
You know I didn't last time and I'm not really this time having much by way of bladder issues. Not sure why. I need to go more frequently in first tri when all the hormones are building up then again towards the end when there's not much space but otherwise it's not too bad. I do get the baby squashing my bladder and me thinking I need a pee then I move again and it's fine.

Well I have just contacted Toshiba about my laptop and the union about my work issues. Two good things I think.

I had sort of the beginnings of nervous breakdown today. It started with me on here writing about piles (!:blush:) and DH came to collect some pots off the desk and I was all "give me some space". We'd been having a harrowing lunch of Byron not eating and DH getting cross and I suddenly couldn't cope. I went upstairs and lay down quietly to have a little cry and listen to the rain. We were supposed to be going to the reservoirs for a walk (which we did in the end) and I suddenly felt like a teen and wanted to just walk out the house in the rain and get away from an hour or two. Except I can't walk that long and feel sick and have obligations and the good walks are all 10 miles away so I'd need the car etc etc. have never in two years wanted to be away from my family like that. :( I know it doesn't sound like much but I think everything is really escalating and I'm worried about being able to hold it together for another couple of months.

Anyway, we had a very wet walk at the reservoirs (or the sea) and enjoyed pointing out the pylons (lighthouses) and walking on the jetty (bridge).
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:hugs::hugs:
 
Apparently I do need alone time Molly. Haven't before. I was thinking but I'm alone most days but I'm not really, I'm working and that's a big part of my worries. Feeling again like I should see the doctor but you know it's stuff that needs dealing with and anyone would feel stressed I think so that just makes it a tough time, not a signed off depressed time.
 
Well tahts what I was signed off with but pregnancy related so I.E. Hormones. I am now ready to return lol. it's a total break that helps knowing that everything is under control and doesn't need your attention
 
Oh Peanut huge :hugs: I really think you should go to the doctors. As Molly said some time off does actually help. If you are feeling down, it really won't go away on it's own or by throwing yourself into work or caring for Byron. You need to take some time and clear your head with no work related distractions.

Oh on the bladder thing, I don't know what my little monkey is doing inside but I'm pretty sure it involves him using my bladder like a bongo drum. Before we went to walk the dog this morning I did a pee, washed hands, sorted clothes etc put my shoes on and had to do another pee!!

Everytime I'm out the house I'm continually thinking about how long til I can get to a toilet or where the nearest toilet is, it's not funny anymore :haha:
 
The thing is time off will make me worry more about work and give them more ammunition against me too. Just need to get through til March...
 
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I already had a rubbish bladder so its not much worse. if i get 2 hours out of it i am happy
 
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