Mother of all conception months Graduates

[molly85]

Ozzie woman its nice but couldn't afford you tv licence got to be practical.

Madcat cuuute! and intrestion how charlie and him look so different.

Madly lovely bumpaga, no one has written my fundal height so feel a right plank.

Peanut Taylor is lovely older than the 17 he is meant to be in the book, hmmm on morals the film doesn't really show them. But in the 3rd film its about over coming your differences to protect the vulnerable. and don't wind 2 men up at once especially when they both want you lol You have to have read the book a few times to know that. Carlisle hair is also distubing waxed or gelled into place I am sure its not like that in the book

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Ozzie woman its nice but couldn't afford you tv licence got to be practical.

Kinda ouch I hope that didn't mean to sound as harsh as I perceived it....

 

[molly85]

Nah but the NHS will provide. but you def have to think about these things it's why we're not getting one sniffle. Even though we get the money back.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I do think about them. It would be nice to get one, but I know realistically we can't.

 

[gilz82]

Madcat fabulous pictures of your little man you must be super excited to meet him now

 

[madcatwoman]

molly youre right, i was compairing my Baby Bailey to charlie and they do look very different, then i looked at some others, they're all very individual.

Gilz, i just want be 37 weeks(or 40....if i have to!)and meet him. I was supprised how much of DH i could see in his face, im not usually very good with seeing a parents features in someones baby!

shame my dad isnt interested and hasnt been in contact(but my days of running around after his moods are done with now).

 

[gilz82]

Oh I'm crap at seeing parents in babies, I always just pick one and say oh he/she looks like whoever

Quite right about your dad too, think there comes a point where you just need to focus on your own life and not everyone else round about you.

 

[PeanutBean]

Hi all. I've got a headache. Byron's party was nuts. The play was ok but the party bit had the staff dishing out food, singing songs, passing round instruments, loud music, flashing lights etc ALL at once! The kids were mostly just upset! Byron was all what's with the songs? I'm eating man!

Molly I read all the twilight books when they came out. They are all crap. The storyline should make an excellent story but Meyer cannot write for toffee - I was better when I was 12 - and the film directors could've made such a better job than staying faithful to the books. I enjoy watching the films so I can scoff all the way through about smutty ladies leading devoted honest men astray and how it's ok to stalk so long as you really believe the other person loves you etc. She is such a Mormon! DH loves it. I have never been able to get my head round a writer with excellent literary taste being able to overlook the abomination that is her literary skill!

Chin up Ozzie, we couldn't afford a 3D scan if we wanted one. Too many other priorities.

 

[madcatwoman]

Byrons party sounds full on!!

Gilz im terrible with peoples babies,i just wont say if they look like either parent(which they never do to me), i keep shtum!, i always dread the "do you want to hold him/her?" question...i never do (im just not programed with other peeps babies).

Gosh,today has felt so amazing, ive spent most of the afternoon going thru the pictures. we were very lucky to get£40 off the price too.

the cream egg saga continues, as you know DH hid them(getting one out each day for me).Hes gone to get tomorrows out and lost all but two above the eye level oven and cant get to them(prob melted anyway), so thats 2 wasted!. hes left out one for tomorrow---and ive eaten it, he's gona be really cross, but i dont care!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw ozziehunni dont worry i cant really afford one either, i have saved any christmas money we were given and will be buying it for dh for his birthday to save money there but still will have to do 4 extra shifts to get the money which doesnt sound alot but that would mean 4 46 hour weeks min which i wouldnt want to do at all!

to be honest we didnt even want 4d for the same reason that your dh said but the woman misread our notes and did a full 4d scan with dvd and didnt charge us any extra (which i felt sooooo bad about)

part of me still thinks £140 is almost the money needed for a lighter pram hmmmmm

madcat he looks absoultely perfect! i was the same as you really couldnt get my head around having a boy at first but when we saw him and then had him it just doesnt matter, i cant actually imagine having a girl now am convinced this one is a boy too for that reason lol

 

[molly85]

Lol I love my smutt, matts the one that reads intelligent stuff. lol. I think it's the muscles Idon't really like Jacob in the book and teh actor that plays edward yuck and whiney lol.

 

[PeanutBean]

I just find Jacob irritating! Stupid persistent boy, I would give very short shrift if I were a teen being followed about by that puppy! Lol I do really enjoy teen romance stuff but this is just too badly written to overlook. The worst is that is should be really good! She should've got a ghost writer.

Lol about your creme eggs madcat! I'd scrub DH with those melted eggs if he tried a stunt like that with me!

 

[molly85]

lol peanut that was my thought on the creme eggs if i liked them.
Matt has put my tea out of reach but let me have it back when i suggested buying more decaf lol

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

so currrently feeling incredibly lazy and enjoying watching pure trash on telly and i have to say i am absolutely amazed! watching that teen "mom" programme with that amber her big bloke and her poor poor child!

how can she get away with screaming at her ex like that only about a metre away from her child almost punching the guy swearing screaming chucking the guy out - it was over the line and definately if it was a man doing it to a woman it would instantly be domestic abuse!

what was sad about it though is the baby is obviously so used to seing her mum act like that that she didnt even blink and eye lid or stop what she was doing or get upset or anything! my dh's sister had a massive go at him once (still not talking) and it made my son run to me in tears crying clinging to me because he had never seen anything like that before and was scared (most of the reason why still not talking dont want her near him!) and this child saw worse than that and didnt even blink!

how has she just got custody of that child back! she got taken from her apparantly but got her back i mean how!

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Madcat baby B is a little cutie I agree you always compare to what you think your baby will look like to other 4d images you see when infact every baby looks totally different I was also surprised to see that Charlie is the spit image of his Daddy...poor kid whilst he has my habit of lying with his arms above his head baby B is a tad heavier than Charlie whos just under 2lb but then I guess a week could make all the difference... must admit am happy to know hes not like 4lb+ or summat right now and that hes on par with his gestation Sonographer lady reckons 8-9lber which is damn fine by me I just cant get his little face out of my head now Its like he became `real` all of a sudden and of course I could never image what he looks like in comparision to Oliver as Olivers looks have all I have ever known as a combined part of us iykwim but Charlie looks totally different and is def his Daddy boy I also wanted to say Ladies if it wasnt for saving our Chrsitmas cash which admittedly was damn hard because there are things we could have spend it on we would have never afforded this scan either however Charlie is my last baby and so this was one thing if anything I wanted which was why we banked our Christmas cash to pay for it....It was def worth it though

Quick update on my Sister She went to see my parents today to talk and well my Dad kicked off big time which resulted in her walking out devastated and DH ended up going to collect her and her DD from up near my parents house and bringing her here. We had a long chat and she seems very happy with her decision she says she knows shes done wrong by going back with him but that they are trying to work thorugh things to be good parents and a family. She says hes changed and has been really good with there DD putting her to bed and caring for her etc. She says that hes been dead supportive and they went out the other day and bought her DD a travel cot (until she manages to get her stuff from my parents) and a high chair so that at least she has somewhere to sleep and eat. She says they did loads of shopping and both her and her DD admittedly look very well. I believe this is what she wants at least now but we also talked about things not working out the way she hopes and what she will do then. She says she has to give it time because if she doesnt she wont know if it will work or not and that she wants it to but also excepts if he becomes his old self she doesnt have to except this and she intends to leave straight away She knows she can come here and all she has to do is call us. I said this is sort of the honeymoon period and he may appear to be the perfect daddy and partner right now but given time that could change and if it does I dont want her to think she has to except that. She says she wont and is constantly thinking about things. She says they have talked and talked and will continue to do so and she also excepts that if he is sticking around and things do work this time then family/friends views will be bad at first because of the past but that given time this will change. She excepts he has a lot to prove and says he knows this but wants to change so I guess thats a start. She told me about where she is living and it sounds suitable for now however that they have been looking to move and they have been bidding on property (this is what you have to do to secure housing here in Leeds). Unfortunately she is now no longer has a job because she worked for my parents and because my Dad went off on one with her and apparently it wasnt pleasant she doesnt want to work for him anymore and says she doesnt also want to subject her DD to a war zone if theres going to be an atmosphere and arguments. I understand where she is coming from and support her in this so unfortunately for the meantime she is going to be a SAHM considering shes pregnant and her partner will be looking for a job which apparently he has been but we all know are hard to come by right now. I feel happy with today and our relationship is undamaged unfortunately am not sure this is the case for my parents or my other Sister I hope given time things can be mended but right now at least I know she can come to us She seems to know whats she wants and knows she has choices whatever the future, she knows she done wrong in not been honest about her relationship but she had her reasons. She doesnt have much as it is all at my parents and my Dad has been difficult about her taking stuff so she practically has a few bits of clothes for her and her DD and the baby stuff she bought the other day...she has asked my Mum to take some of her DD stuff to her new home and my Mum agreed to am hoping that she will be able to get some of her stuff but she hasnt argued to get this because I guess shes all done with fighting. I feel better and I know for now they are both safe so I think a lot has been achieved today

 

[molly85]

awww madly atleast shes ok for the moment. once the air has settled she'll know your family are angry coz they love her and DD

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw madly its good that you were there for her and were able to talk to her like that,k it is unfortunate about your parents and other sister but to be honest i think that a lot of people would react like that if they had worked themselves up about the situation instead of thinking logically of support her so she knows we are here etc etc

xkx

 

[PeanutBean]

madly, I commented in your journal.

Geez my head is really killing me. Migraine tonight I think. Might mean I'm unable to work tomorrow. Sigh.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Madly, I'm glad things seem to be going well atm for your sister.

I'm going to a Tummy to Mummy group tomorrow at one of the local medical centres for a real nappy demo DH still isn't sold on the idea of cloth nappies, but I hope when I'm armed with more info, I can get him to come around!

 

[PeanutBean]

Cloth nappies are the best! Will the money saving not convince him?