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gosh you know what things were so bad for me after my section my version of events arent going to match most peoples

in general minus all the doom and gloom i was stitched up and taken back to the delivery room that i had been in for days lol i think i was in there because they were worried about my blood pressure and there wasnt a private room on the ward so they kept me there to monitor me a bit i was taken to the ward at 1am

the next day, after my sister screamed at them that i hadnt held my baby yet and was placed next to people who all had their babies next to them, i was moved into a private room, i believe you get this as standard for a c section

they were worried about my blood pressure and temp so i was having 3 hourly tests the 3am one was the worst. . .i can laigh now but the nurse who took it every morning used to come bouncing in saying GOOOOOOOD MOANING! As if it was like 10am and sunny or something lol!

i found it better to sleep upright for the first couple of days

i also found that i had no appetite for the first few days too

you also have a catheta (sp lol) in and it is supposed to be in for like 24 hours i had mine in for 2 or 3 days because well lets just say with everything going on i stayed in bed the majority of the time which obviously increases your healing time

oh and another thing you know those .. .i think they are called canulas? . . . they put in to give you drips in etc etc they are supposed to drain them and run fluid through them apparantly, i had my poorly positioned ones in my hands for 3 days made it impossible to get out of bed because you have to put the pressure on your wrists not your stomach . . . the stupid things were put right mext to my wrist . . if they havent drained them i think she told me 12 or 24 hours then they can not be used, so if they are causing you any pain or making things difficult tell somone to take them out for you if they havent been looked after

erm what else . . . i was asked if i wanted to be discharged after 3 days which is about standard but because our boy was in intensive care i was allowed to stay for up to a week .. . attitudy staff made me go back on my no within 12 hours lol

oh also because our son was so ill they actually said that dh could stay overnight which he did a couple of the days in the chair next to me

also they took a picture of leo before they attached him to all the machines which was really kind, they put it in a cardboard frame - i slept with it the whole time! was lovely to have!

oh in terms of the whole bleeding thing . . . you cant really wear underware especially not the first day i found unless you get MASSIVE pants, so what i did was just put a pad under me and then the nurses put a couple of extra bed pads for me! these get changed regularly!

in terms of when you can go on the ward where they had leo i was able to come and go as i pleased, could stay as long as i wanted as many times as i wanted. you were always asked to leave the room when they do the rounds though as obviously they talk about the other patients

i think i may have rambled a bit lol! hope some of that was a little helpful lol
 
Yes, that does help. I was more wondering what standard things are done with baby after he's born? I know they do the heel prick.
 
As far as my experience Ozzie they just do the normal stuff. Two sets of Apgar scores and weight and length. After that Noah was rushed to neonatal as he was struggling to breathe. He didn't get his heel prick done until day 5 not sure if that's because he was premature as he had bloods taken everyday for other things.
 
I think I'm just in a state. I don't really know what to do with myself. :cry: I want my mom to be here so badly. I know DH will be there, but I'm actually really scared. :cry:
 
Gilz I know what you mean, it took me months with James to be able to have any spare energy! I'm hoping to start doing Zumba once a week at our sure start, its free and they put on a creche so you can take your kids!

Ozzie thats fab let me know. (unless you want it Loopy, dont want to jump in lol)

I'm starting to get really protective of everyone saying how big Charlotte is! I mean shes pretty much 9lb now but shes still a newborn and shes my last baby and I feel so protective of her! Mummy hormones I think as they dont mean it nastily!
 
Ozzie you will be fine hun, get some relaxing music to play to yourself when you feel like this!

Lottie had her heel prick day 6 as well.
 
Evening Ladies :wave:

Had a quick catch up but unable to reply to everything I have read sorry :( running on cups of :coffee: ever since 4am this morning :cry:

In a nutshell went to bed last night at 10pm fed Charlie before I put him down around 10.15pm and got into bed myself :thumbup: He woke up at 1.10am no problem fed him put him back down :thumbup: Then around 4am the damn blackout blind fell down from the window scaring the living day lights out of me and waking Charlie :cry: (obviously DH didnt put it up right!) The sudden burst of the light into the room well and truly woke him up and the little monkey decided that was it he wasnt sleeping anymore :( I battled for about two hours trying to get him back down before giving up ..... I have been running on low all day! I have had the school run morning and afternoon to do a 2hr round trip each time, I had an appointment in Leeds centre and also my postnatal check appointment today :( and then got back to a card to say my HV had called when I wasnt even expecting her to come today :wacko: inbetween all that I have been nursing a very unsettled baby ALL day because he refuses to sleep for more than 5 mins at a time :cry: DH still isnt home and am a bit on edge right now :sad2:
 
oh oops lol lol lol

they didnt do anything with leo at first because it wasnt a priority - you know the routine tests wise. . . they didnt do the heel prick for 12 days, weighed him really quickly at first - so quick the scales didnt settle lol they kept coming up to me saying updated weigh in is . . . ok ok ok final weigh in is . . .lol

to be honest hun i think other than them taking him for monitoring they do all the usual stuff with them, leo was all cleaned up, tagged up, weighed pretty quickly it just wasnt done right there and then

hun you are going to be so fine! for one thing my nasty experience is mostly because it was all emergency, yours is scheduled, they know exactly what they are dealing with, they will have you all nice and prepared for surgery it will all be relaxed i suspect even when they take him for monitoring it wont be a whisking away just a nice calm time to take a look at you darling also i imagine you will be able to see him quickly because they will just be setting up monitoring

i think you are going to have a lovely experience, nice and calm it is going to be wonderful!

you dh is going to be there and he is going to do such a wonderful job of looking after you!
 
Yeah I agree totally with Nomore Ozzie, yours is a planned section where our experiences were emergency sections so the tone of the procedure is completey different. I truly believe that if Noah had come when he was meant to at the planned section with my OH there it would have been a completely calm time apart from me crying about the needles :dohh: :wacko:

Pink I'm so clumsy there is no way I'd manage zumba bit great that you can go somewhere the kids will be cared for while you get to exercise.
 
i love the thought of being able to do zumba but i not only have two left feet, i also have two left arms, left hips and well everything just always goes to the left lol lol lol it took me like 2 months of working on this one dvd every other day for me to be competant at the steps lol lol lol although it got rid of my last few pounds of "must be gone before wedding" blubber! i am more of a machine with an ipod kind of gal lol
 
I have a kinect so I was thinking about getting the zumbia game for that!

Hugs to you madly! How was your appointment?

Ozzie try not to stress I know easier said than done but it will be fine and you will be in the right place and I'm sure your DH will be more supportive than you thought! Hugs to you!

X
 
ozzie i think they weigh, dryoff, tag and possibly vitamin k them ( which i was fine with matt was cringing)
3 hourly feeds over night 1 small formula at 11 is after i was drained before that then 1.45 and5.30 then matt entertained her til 9
we'vbeen out seen the in laws and shes been really good showing off to daddy.

i don;t think i have done any real exercise just been to lazy to eat. we have had takeaway 2 nights in a row so a walkis needed tomorrow
 
Exercise? WTF is that ladies? I've gone from walking miles each day to having stop halfway up our road because I'm so out of breath (on the mountain) :wacko:
 
me too! she was confirmed head down at our scan - and through the dramatic decrease in swift kicks to my bladder lol - but has stretched right out! my ribs actually feel sore!

ha ha also when i go onto my left hand side she just falls straight on my stomach and makes me burp! everytime! big ones! lol i am soooooooo attractive right now!

ha ha reminds me dh keep saying why do we not have sex much this time round . . . well this time i feel like an enormous cow! i get in the mood feel my bottom and legs wobble and it puts me off . . you are pregnant honey . . .yes but my bum, legs, arms and face arent are they lol! i really feel like a fat slob this time round, with leo i felt amazing . . this time . . . what are those things that live in the water around florida . . those big cow things . . . manatee! sp! thats what i feel like lol lol lol lol lol
 
I've not had sex for about 10 weeks :rofl:

I've put this in my journal but am getting weird back pain... obviously am very wary at the moment because of the fluid. It's the middle of my back, and I have an ache in my stomach. I've taken paracetamol as it could just be BH or maybe i've overdone it in the last 2 days. I'll of course ring the midwife if it gets worse but what do you ladies think? Am I worrying over nothing?
 

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