Mother of all conception months Graduates

[molly85]

aw claire they are a holes some times. My general policy in life is expect nothing and you won't be disapointed.

I have realised i actually know anothermum over thereher hubby is in REME. I should set you 2 up as her hubby is pretty useful. You#ll find iteasier with him away I promise then when he comes back lay down the law he does every other nappy and all night time nappies and he cooks for you, does james bed time and does some cleaning or diy. I hope he looks after his own kit if not thats def his job


Yup i am up at 4 am abby gas just sunk 5oz first timeever so am proping her up for a bit i do not want to get covered in that much

 

[pinkclaire]

Lol Molly course he looks after his kit! It's spotless, he loves his job! He's probably in REME attached to Ms unit then I expect. Has he been in Canada?

I was up at 4 as well. Lottie fed every two hours, taking 40 mins to feed each time so less than 90 min stretches of sleep. Shattered! James was up in the night as well so that was one lot of 90 mins gone. He'd done a poo so I'll let him off getting up last night lol.

 

[PeanutBean]

Indigo fed every two hours last night as well which is very unusual for her. She feeds fast but I am really feeling the wakings today. She's wearing a sweet new knitted cardi today that I got for 50p from our local charity shop.

 

[pinkclaire]

Maybe its this weather PB? It's unusual for Lottie as well. Although these antibiotics I'm on are giving her a funny tummy so that's probably why in our case!

 

[madcatwoman]

Morning all

gosh you girls have been busy feeding every 2 hours!. I was about to complain that Bailey woke up at 3.30(after his evening of colic returned&messed his feeds up) but really thats the only time i got up,i think my eye lids would be propped up with matchsticks after feeding through the night like that!.

Im still waiting to give Bailey his 1st morning feed lol he fell asleep in his bouncer!

Off to see DH's cousin who had her baby same time as me this morning(Bailey can "make a friend").

 

[tas1]

Morning ladies

Sorry most of your have had a crap night. And Pink I Feel the same about my OH but its not his kit that is spotless it's his car and playstation!

We came home last night but because my OH was at football practise I had to go and tell him I had decided to come home.....got there and he wasn't there so I thought I'll just go home coz more than likely he would of just stayed there to play his playstation...got home he was there but upstairs so I shouted him and sai where have you been and he said football practise I said no you haven't coz I went there but doesn't matter help me get everything out the car with that he had a big stress and hit the kitchen unit......guilty goes through my head....he said football practise had changed fields but his phone isn't working so how did he know...anyway I've smelt his training stuff and it smells clean no sweat or anything but he is still adamant he went training!
Then after I went to bed early he came up at 12.30 saying he was sat on toilet in the dark coz he was on his way to bed then realised he needed the loo,he saw someone walk passed the bathroom window, you have to come into our garden to walk passed our windows so another police trip! Why can't people just leave us alone it's really scaring me I dont even wanna go out the house anymore too scared to!

On the Caleb front he is still asleep just wish Caden was so we could of had a really good
lay in lol Caleb had a full day on hungrier baby yesterday so his bed time feed he didn't have much so must of filled him up!

My friend has a scan this morning to check baby I hope everything is ok for her! Thanks for you support x

 

[molly85]

Claire he is really nice bloke i seem to remember from the coupleof times i met him.

Tas hope it goes well for your friend. Eeek people walking past windows and what the hell was he doing going to the loo in the dark? he could have missed the target or not wiped properly lol

Well abby slept next to me on sofa from 8.30pm ish til 11 then had a feed and a failed attempt at calpol lol then bed by minight til 4am she drank 5oz!!! then she went back to sleep til 8am shes now had 3oz and is busy dribbling up with snot bouncing about in her chair. could have done with an another hour madam nowt wrong with her after her jabs.

 

[tas1]

Lol that's what I thought but Ive checked the toilet and no slippages lol!

My friends baby is ok it was a threaten miscarriage,thank god for that! Now she can relax! I was scared for her coz it's her birthday tomorrow as well so not good timing!

I have a stinky baby on me so best change him x

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Morning Ladies :wave:

for going home Tas

Peanut hope Indigo`s jab`s go well

madcat we went to mummy and baby group for the first time yesterday (I never went to these classes with Oliver at all!) and we both really enjoyed it I would highly recommend it because babies/children learn through each other and once Bailey starts moving around it will be a great experience for him to see/meet other children and look at it this way ... you dont have to leave him you can go together

Sounds like you had a great if tiring day NOMORE

Molly we succcumbed to calpol too

Oh HUGE Pink I wish I had the answer too you know me and DH have had issues too It really is hard ....maybe tell him what you told us ask him how he would manage if you did end up in hospital!!! Sometimes it takes a shock for them to realise We didnt make these babies on our own but sadly `some` men are beyond selfish grrrrr!

for frequent feeding Pink and Peanut

Tas I would be scared too did you call the police in the end? as for your OH something fishy going on there

Well Charlie was a little unsettled last night after his jabs He was ok until we went to bed but woke several times in the night wanting his dummy I think he was feeling crap and at 4.15am I decided to give him a feed although he wasnt requesting it to see if it would settle him He sort of seemed to settle but hes been doing this sort of painful cry out certainly different to his normal cry so I took it he was in a little bit of pain and eventually gave in and gave him some calpol. He seems to be ok this morning we have had some lovely smiles although I do think hes tired so I may be in for a grumpy day

 

[PeanutBean]

My camera just arrived! Charging while I go to group. Yay!

 

[tas1]

Thanks madly I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking there is something going on! I do feel paranoid and I have trust issues but his little lies about stupid stuff doesnt help! Men they give me a headache!

I hope I can teach my boys to be better!

Xx

 

[molly85]

Tas men generally suck. I'm trying to whip matts butt so hard when hes barley here.

Wow Abby has been playing and generally using up my energy all morning phew I need to go to town and change the curtains I got her i forgot tomeasure the drop lol they are bright pink lol to go with her pea green room. and molly needs a walk

Eeek trying to do normal stuff again.

 

[tas1]

I'm having a lazy day which I haven't done for a while and some washing and my online asda shop but Caleb is sleeping on me so I can't check my cupboards so I'm guessing lol

Caleb only likes laying on his play mat for a while! I can't remember when Caden started playing more!

It's raining here x

 

[madcatwoman]

Pinkclaire.....finally had time to read the posts

My DH is so the same!. i do everything, feeding,nappys,cuddles.I have to ASK him to keep an eye on Bailey while i have a quick shower(&not turn his PS3 on but to entertain Bailey instead).We go out i have to do all the prep,on weekends i still look after Bailey.so,basically he takes care of him while im in the shower!.
I must admit, i really didnt see that one coming!.

Basically DH cant wait for Bailey to be a proper little boy who 'does things',im sorry but im not wishing this time away,im in no hurry for him to grow up quick.

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Tas I dont think my DH dare play away for two reasons 1. I would chop his bollocks off and 2. no-one would have him which I guess makes me a silly mare for putting up with him

madcat DH is a bit more hands on but only when I ASK him and when hes in my bad books he over-compensates by trying to be helpful grrrrrrr!

 

[molly85]

Cat molly dose that for me lol Abby will sit in her chair staring at fave picturebut if shes up set molly will get my attention if she actually needs it she knows if abby is just board or wants a cuddle. Matt just flaps lol

bleeding weather i don't mind walking in the rain i do mind hanging my clothes in it.

 

[tas1]

Well my OH claims he is faithful but you neve know! I have told him if he does he won't be seeing the boys and I'd chop his balls off and make him eat them! But until I find prove I can't do anything but act normal for the boys

Is today a I hate men day? Lol why can't they just be good

Xx

 

[madcatwoman]

Definately an i hate men day lol!(theyre not the greatest of help are they!)
BUT,im always dissing mine, but he does work hard for us, keeps us in a nice home, and i know he loves us(just not always very hands on),i am lucky in so many ways!.

 

[gilz82]

Hugs for everyone I think today not that I usually ration them for you girls

Claire I know exactly how you feel, especially since my OH works away too. He makes a big show of listing all the things he'll be doing on the weekend he's home but it never materialises for some reason. Apart from bath time he seems happy to do that but I still do the night feeds, days feeds, get stuff organised of we are going out and then the normal housework dinners etc. For a while I was just hoping he'd get there himself and realise he needs to help, cos even as independent as I am I'm not wonder woman. Now we are at the stage I should be telling him but of course my marshmallow side says no because that'll cause a fight and he's only home 2 days out of 14. So basically it's my fault for being a giant wimp

Tonight is the first night of Noahs meds, on the advice of the gp I've got some organic pear purée and am going to mix it with a tiny drop to attempt to disguise the taste. I did a trial run earlier with just the normal medicine and it is horrid tasting, I wouldn't manage 5mls of it let alone Noah and given we've already had one medicine related tantrum today I'm not even attempting it with out pear to flavour it.

Fingers crossed it helps although it can take between 10 and 14 days for the results to be seen.

 

[PeanutBean]

Sorry about all the useless men... Mine's just got back from work and gone straight out with Byron for swimming.

Baby group was weird today. Byron was really good (he dressed up in the dentist outfit again) and Indigo screamed through most of it. Wouldn't feed, wouldn't settle. She woke up as soon as we got home whilst Byron snoozed in the pram. So I had to eat my fried egg bagel with her on my knee and try not to squirt boiling yolk all over her! Now she is sound asleep at last and I want her to wake up and feed as I seem to have mixed up my boobs because one is getting really painfully full. She has her jabs at half 3. A doctor is doing it. If it's our proper one it'll probably be ok, if it's the other one no doubt he will royally stuff it up and hurt her more than necessary. I hope she is ok... Byron never reacted to jabs so hopefully she will be the same.

I've taken a small number of pics in dreadful light with the built in flash using auto settings and can tell this camera is going to be just awesome compared to me old one. I am very excited! It's going to take an age to learn all the different functions.