Mother of all conception months Graduates

[MADLYSBOYS]

Ladies people are still posting on Ozzies thread One Lady reckons that Ozzies `guilt` says it all ready .... I replied and still it carries on I really want to post what you wrote Pink about it mostly been first time mummies who will get off their high horse at some point or maybe not as you pointed out NOMORE honestly I find the whole thing Would it be naughty to start a thread titled `I`m a bad Mummy!` and list all the things I do to break the rules then sit back and watch people bite I am soooooooooooooo naughty

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

oooooooh Ladies forgot to mention (some of you may have seen my siggy!) My Nephew will arrive on 29th July my Sister has her c-section date she will be 39wks

and Thank you for your comments on me been a SAHM oh and your comments about my poor bottom DH thinks its hilarious my bum hurts

Molly your a brave lady TTC again so soon I dont know if I could do it again I really miss been pregnant I so enjoyed my pregnancy despite everything this time and I enjoyed labour too again despite everything but the aftermath this time has really put me off

for laptop madcat

and Pink you are such a naughty mummy you should feel so guilty for letting Lottie lay on her front

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Argh, I've just gotten on now. There was a mod posting on my thread now I made a cheeky post at the end about feeling worse for posting there. Alex is happy and healthy.

I'm sorry, but it really gets me up in arms about people commenting wondering about if it can hurt his heart because he cried How can you get a newborn not to cry?

I love you all! You're so supportive and wonderful.

 

[madcatwoman]

Hey Madly, im sure i missed one of your posts lately, because im gathering that all came good concerning the work situation!
Also,with Baileys reflux,he was fine on the 1st few days of gaviscon, but after that it came back and then the following days it seemed to merge so we didnt know if it was that, or colic!. we stopped using it, we dumped Aptimil and changed to cow and gate, hes been on it for a week and soooo much happier!, his poop is a bit looser so things are obviously moving better in his tummy, he gets occassional colic but for half hour instead of 2-3hours! and even then gripe water knocks it on the head almost instantly.
So for us, it seems the change of milk did the trick!

 

[tas1]

Evening ladies

Been out most of the days at my cousins kids christening then I came on tried to updated myself but thought i would read ozzies thread and comment coz I'm noisy and have to stick my nose in lol but they are on their high horses and madly I would pee myself laughing if we posted something on there like that lol! Honestly I have broken the rules mor times then following them but my boys are happy and healthy so I don't care!! Lol

Hope you have all had a good day!!!!

Xx

 

[molly85]

Madly i wasgoing to entittle my parenting journal something like that or what I don't tell the health visitor lol Oh we're not intentionally ttc matt works so much that the opportunity very rarley arises excuse the pun.

i should photo abby she is wearing way to big tights under her romper from me taking mollyfor a walk with her in ther carrier its so embarassing lol

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

Gah so tempting to post some thing dramatic like wow what about people who actually really abuse their babies all of a sudden 15 minutes of crying doesnt seem so bad now!

it wouldnt shut them up though i would bet the first post in response to that would be no one is saying she is abusing her baby . . .my response will be except you are pointing out that you dont think she is showing her baby love by letting him cry blah blah blah thing is with these types of people they are just predictable!

do it madly do it!!!! lol i think it should start " i am a ff, c section, dummy using, jar food intending (before 6 months of course!), cio, sleeping on his tummy mummy looking for some advice on disciplining. . . is 4 months old too young to be locked in a cupboard?" lol lol lol lol lol lol lol "harry potter seems fine!" lol lol lol

cant believe how people get on their high horses about things, they will rue the day when they openly dissected someone elses parenting methods, parenting abilities and actually comment on how they cant be showing love to their baby, when their 15 year old girl comes home pregnant to an undesirable and their 17 year old bunksoff school to smoke weed he has been growing in their shed!

i agree that early experiences etc etc have an affect on babies and their futures but jesus not 15 minutes of crying! darn it!

 

[molly85]

lol nomnore the weeds in the green house next to the tomatoes lol Ok I will start my Parenting Jouranal you can all feel free to post your naughty behaviour there lol.

Oh dear just ate a scummy dinner baked spud with cheese and southern fried chicken with carrots to balance it out numnumnum

 

[pinkclaire]

pmsl nomore 'Harry Potter seems fine'

 

[tas1]

Lol Kate and Molly!! Some of them think they are so perfect........ Maybe we should post one saying 'if I were perfect.....I wouldn't do this.....' or 'does alcohol in pregnancies really harm my baby seems to he fine'

Maybe they should stop reading their books and listen to their babies!

And Molly thinking of another baby???

Xx

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

he he! i am so sad laughing at my own jokes but i had to giggle lol

at least the thread is keeping me occupied from thinking about the fact i have furiously been cleaning the living room all day - and i mean CLEANING it - and 2 hours break with dh letting him dish up dinner and not cleaning up as he goes along means that i have an fully emptied onto the floor poof, pile of washing up again, ten random items on the floor ranging from an empty milk bottle to pens and my beautiful hooving and scrubebd clean floor has two massive chocolate stains on it . . . . i knew it wasnt me being messy! lol

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

tas every time i see a "i read x book" on that thread i just so wanted to write so what was your baby doing at the time of reading the book? are you admitting you dont give your baby 100% of your attention 24 hours a day! good god!

part of me would like my third and final quickly after this one but 3 major surgeries in 3 years would scare me a little, on ttc though i would much rather ntnp than full blown ttc next time round but .. .in saying that i am a total control freak . . .

 

[PeanutBean]

Hi ladies. I agree with pink about first time mums (no offence to you kaduea, we've all been there!) being more strict/careful about guidelines. You're feeling your way and for sure a lot of mums seem to read parenting books to guide them. I'm surprised it got such a heated response though, that sort of thing is normally down to the attachment parenting lot who don't go into baby club as it's full of CIO etc mums.

I'm sure you all already heard me wax lyrical on this but I've purposely avoided books as I prefer to do what seems right at the time rather than subscribing to some particular model. I truly believe the best parenting approach is getting to know your baby and responding to them as an individual. The majority of guidelines are really intended for, well, uneducated, mums who genuinely don't have a clue.

Well i've done grouting galore and it's nearly finished. Just two new tiles I only just fitted while filler behind was drying. Just some sealant to do (which I loathe!) but thinking i'll leave it til morning now. Indigo has fed at least every 2 hours since 2.30am and I am pretty wrecked. I am assuming we are at a growth spurt.

The fair was all shut up because of the rain, as was the miniature railway so our one fun activity was ruined. I went to Sainsburys with Indigo while DH walked the dog with Byron. I wanted to get clothes for Indigo but they were not really my style and almost exclusively pink. Instead I got me some jogging bottoms, finally replacing the maternity ones I've been kicking about in! I also got some jeans shorts supposedly in sale. Not the worst shop.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

is four months too young to be put in a cupboard? Crap, if it is, I guess duct taping him to the ceiling is out too.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

i am the same pb, i think you can get some good tips from parenting books/websites that might give an additional option to the things a person may have already tried but to live your life and conduct anothers by every letter in a book makes me think blimey do you really not know your own mind/baby?

with my first i stuck to all guidelines during pregnancy and relied on the guidlines at first once he was born but quickly realised that my baby did not want to conform to guidlines lol and also just 2 years after being pregnant with leo at least 3 or 4 of the absolutely must follow during pregnancy guidlines have been scrapped and another 3 or 4 put in their place. just made me think that there is just so much inconsistency in what we are told to do that sticking to the obvious and going with your instincts is a healthy way to be. eg its obvious not to smoke or drink in pregnancy but if i want a medium steak i am going to have one but obviously not regularly. and ok baby sleeping on their front is supposed to increase risk of sids so i will not place him on his belly but at 3 months if all he wants to do is sleep on his side and belly and when i flip him over he instantly flips back then i am not going to panic!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

ha ha ozzie! lol! xkx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

They act like I do it all the time. I'm thinking of having the thread deleted, but I don't want them to win.

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

good for you ozzie! more or less telling them to shut up lol

i would also add how about all those babies who scream whilst they are out and about - we have all seen them and have probably been in the same situation by now where baby is inconsolable in public

i have seen red faced screaming babies when mothers are just out and about in general and they blinking well scream for hours! working in a restaurant within a shopping centre it is a scene i saw a lot and they were not mums who were ignoring their baby to go clothes shopping or a latte with their other yummy mummy friends it was mums picking up older kids from the school round the corner with a screaming baby or the running mother desperately trying to get back to their car after baby screams its way around waitrose - are they seriously never expecting to have their baby cry for only a few seconds at a time?

honestly they seriously need a wake up call and the fact that there is one person in particular who has been spending most of the last couple of days posting comments aimed at making you feel like an utter twonk makes me think errrr get a fecking life and a mirror as surely your baby being around someone who has such a toxic way of talking to people is more dangerous than one off 15 mins of crying and also to all those people saying it is fine when they are over 4 months old what difference does a day make? so 3 months 30 days is totally unacceptable but 4month 1 day it is fine? ok!

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

grrrrrrrrr lol! i have to keep stopping myself from commenting on the thread lol xkx

 

[molly85]

If anyone wishes to admit their sins in a safe space my new parenting journal is now open lol.

Ozzie leave it, can you post me a link so i can find it I daren't enter the rest of that space lol.
PB i use sainsbury yup the clothes are pink but they are nice