Mother of all conception months Graduates

[NOMORENUMBERS]

that was my arguement to dh when he was insisting we dont find out this time, i said well i know for a fact it helped me bond really well with him before he was born and i know that dh did too, it is important to me!

it defo defo defo does help to bond knowing what you are having, although i am not sure how much more it helps once they are out if that makes sense ie ladies who didnt find out have as much as a bond as those who did once the baby is born . . .

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Ok, names.....DH has given a BIG thumbs down to Arran But he likes Alexander. I don't have a problem with it because it's my grandpa's name, I just don't know if I can deal with my mother when I tell her we picked that. She and her dad never really got along well. But Alexander David Osborne sounds nice

 

[gilz82]

Oh loads to catch up on. I build all our furniture my OH is very handy with plumbing, electrics etc but refuses to read instructions for furniture so I build it all.

You girls are all so lucky with DHs that bring you chocolate, I have no chocolate to eat

I did the cot bedding today what do you girls think?
https://i1100.photobucket.com/albums/g413/gdonald20/2c2f2094.jpg

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

aw i think it sounds nice too!

i am so stuck on names this time round, last time we had them picked out before we had even gotten pregnant this time round i hate everything we decide on then find something i like then the next day hate it! i have a large family and all the names are taken, all of them are important to me so im like if i pick the same name that someone else did for their kids will they think that i dont feel they matter to me you know? like you wouldnt call your kid the same as your sister's kid or your best friends kid you now?

grrrr

 

[NOMORENUMBERS]

i have to build AND buy my own chocolate lol lol lol i think the bedding looks really really good hun! well done!

 

[molly85]

Aww the beddings really cute we've bought nothing like that they can't have it til a year a i think is the latest guide lines. I'm looking forward to doing the big bed as soon as they are are big enough to climb back in.

Nearly paniced I wasn't 100% sure I'd felt abby after matt attacking me in bed. Have had an apple and there she is few. Could you imagine how dvasted he would have been if something had happened and it was his fault.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I think baby is very safe in there. There have been stories of women in bad car accidents and baby is born just fine.

To be honest, I wouldn't like it if DH felt he was to blame for LO's death if such a tragic event were to occur

 

[PeanutBean]

Don't worry Molly, it takes much more than that to cause any problems!

Lovely cot gilz!

I'm feeling crapper by the minute. Woe is me.

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Hey Ladies :wave:

Well I had a lovely bath with my lush bath bomb `frog prince` which actually turned into a prince I actually got some peace and quiet whilst in the tub for a change . It feels like it helped my stuffy nose a little but I still have a terrible heavy head cold and very dry tickly throat peanut we are a right pair arent we

Ozzie love the name and remember its your choice at the end of the day not anyone elses...so if you agree and like why not? btw re name choices DH seems intend on calling our baby William I have told him we agreed Charlie and am not changing it now, it suits him and I can see him as a Charlie iykwim...men

 

[gilz82]

Glad Abby is ok Molly

I know the jellybean won't be going in the cot for a while but we got the bed in the sale and I think it makes the nursery look better than just the naked mattress lying in the cot.

I still haven't found anything that makes the jellybean move due to my stupid placenta. I'm sure that certain stuff I eat makes him go nuts but I just can't feel it.

Nomore sorry you have to buy your own chocolate too it's a hard life isn't it did your DH get some advice from the CAB about his work?

 

[molly85]

Gilz it's just jealousy with The green room noting looks right either. So mattress is covered in a dust sheet and white sheet. I plan to do abbys lunch time naps in there and basket at night and anywhere else at other times. I'm a pickt sleeper so dnt wnat her getting that mannerism from me.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Side note: Peanut, totally not mad at you! xx Yazz's comment got me a bit heated. I simply said every system has it's pros and cons.

 

[molly85]

system????
jeez where you 2 chatting

 

[Ozzieshunni]

It's a secret

 

[PeanutBean]

Lol that's ok Ozzie! People often see things in black and white. We're very protective of our healthcare system here! It was a bit harsh.

 

[molly85]

oh dear a contraversial one.

 

[PeanutBean]

Molly it was about designer baby clothes! To be honest the thread p'd me off. I mean really, she should get her priorities straight! Fine of we were in ttc and like you said there was a complaint about not getting fertility treatment - totally valid especially right now with so many pcts cutting ivf - but crappy designer clothes are cheaper over there?! Haven't people better things to worry and moan about in third tri?

Sorry for rant here!

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Ugh, I would never buy designer for my BABY! FFS! They grow out of them in a couple months and it's just money thrown out the window. Hell, I don't even think I have anything designer

 

[molly85]

sorry do babies compare labels at HV weigh ins???

as long as its warm and dry really who cares.

I'm watching Glee for the second time today lol

 

[PeanutBean]

Apparently the women trekking miles in Africa for basic antenatal care has at least made her think. Bet she still buys ridiculous designer though! I don't own designer either. I don't even like designer! Function over fashion for me everytime.