Multiple IVF failures...what now?

[Lucie73821]

Congrats L4!

Had my follow up with the dr today. He wants me to have 2 AFs before FET. He says AF could arrive anytime in the next 5 weeks. So it looks like we will be doing FET in May. I'm not happy that we have to wait that long.

 

[L4hope]

Thanks Lucie!

Ugh I know how hard that wait is. My doctor did the same thing when I mc'd. Had to go through two AF's before we could try again. It's so tough to keep waiting when all you want to do is move forward. I hope you can find some activities or maybe take a trip to keep your mind off of the waiting.

 

[whattheiveff]

Lucie - Waiting is the worst! I'm so sorry. I'm sure the doctor is right though and your body needs time to heal so you're in fighting form for your next FET.

AFM, after being told yesterday that I would be doing a 3 day transfer today at 4:15, I just got a call moving me to a 5 day transfer. I guess 5 of our 6 embryos are still looking really good. But apparently only 30% make it to blast, so I'm pretty nervous we won't have anything to transfer. Its going to be a long few days.

 

[L4hope]

Whathe that's excellent news!! I know it's hard not to worry, but I don't think they would do it if they didn't think you'd make it to transfer. There's just so much worrying all along the way and the majority out of our control. Fingers crossed for your little embabies to keep growing, growing, growing!

 

[septbride]

That's great that 5 are doing so well! Sending growing vibes!

 

[oneof14]

Excellent news whatthe!! grow to blast little embies!

AFM, I had my biopsy and sounding for my co-cuture and my upcoming IVF. Im all set and just waiting on AF, she should arrive on March 1st, then I start stimms.

I also paid my bill for the entire IVF and all I have to say is "God, please make this work" I am sick of paying all that to begin with, but for it not to work, with all that money, I will be beside myself. I know you oop girls know what I mean!

Sept. how are you feeling?

 

[L4hope]

I feel your pain Oneof! I hope this is your lucky cycle so the happiness of a bfp can ease the sting of paying all that money.

 

[whattheiveff]

Thanks Oneof! Sounds like you're getting close to starting! Boo on having to pay for the cycle, but hopefully this is it for you!

 

[oneof14]

Thanks Whatthe and L4, hopefully this thread turns out to be a very lucky thread!!!

 

[septbride]

Oneof, how was the biopsy? Great that you're all ready to go once AF arrives! Sorry about the $ aspect. Not cool. I'm feeling good, thanks! Definitely more tired than usual and a bit queasy, but that's all.

L4, did you get your second beta this morning?

 

[oneof14]

Sept, biospy was painful for a minute, the dr was really good. I really dont mind paying the $ if the result is a positive one and I deliver our take home baby, its so hard to justify if the outcome is not what you paid for. Ugh! its just so emotional.

oh, hun feel better and make sure you get that rest that you need!

L4, good luck w/your 2nd beta!

 

[L4hope]

Second beta came in at 830. Another step down, third beta on Monday. I'm pretty sure I will be holding my breath until the ultrasound.

 

[septbride]

Good strong second beta!!

 

[oneof14]

Lauren, so happy for you!!

 

[MoBaby]

Great strong beta!!!!!

 

[whattheiveff]

Hi ladies, hope everyone had great weekends! I had my transfer on Saturday and we put back an expanding blast and an early blast. We didn't have any to freeze but I've never made it to a 5 day transfer so I suppose I'm pleased. I haven't felt much of anything other than sore boobs from the PIO. Anyway, beta is March 6. Here's hoping!

 

[oneof14]

Whatthe!! Yay, for being pupo! now is the time to relax and let those embies get snuggle for 9 months!!

 

[septbride]

Third time's the charm! Stick, little dudes!

 

[L4hope]

Yay on a 5 day transfer with two blasts! That's excellent watthe!! Relax and let those embabies settle in for the ride!

 

[oneof14]

Hey Ladies, I have a quick question. AF is due to arrive on Friday, however, since Sunday evening, I've been spotting very lightly (nothing on pantyliner). Now, the RE's nurse told me that my cycle might be off because of the biospy I had. I spoke w/her today and she said if I am still spotting tomorrow evening to come in for baseline on Thursday. Im just so nervous that is this AF and I missed my baseline and will have to delay my IVF 1 month. This had never happened w/AF before. I've always been so regular. Do any of you have experience with this?