sweetsammi
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Hi girls...well
Oliver's dad came to take him for the day today and it was a disaster. I am SO angry i am shaking! He told me he had plans of taking Oliver on the bus into town and then he would go see his mum and get a lift back to mine to drop Oliver off at 6. So i said ok, remember to put the carseat in...well my ex turned around and said he hadnt got one and was planning to have Oli on his knee! I said i was not happy with that at all and its against the law not to use one anyway. I said i couldnt see how his mum would be happy in not using a carseat for her baby grandsons safety and that it was not worth having her licence took of her for! But no- he was adamant he was going to take him in the car and that was final! I apologised and explained i wasnt trying to be difficult, i was just lookin out for our son's safety. But he was havin none of it. I told him to borrow my car seat- he said he couldnt carry it around town so he had no choice but to go without..and why does it matter? We dont use one on the bus! So with that i said theres no law for the bus, so theres nothin i can do about that! I told him he had all week to have sorted it out. He could have asked his mum or whoever to pick up a car seat for him to keep at her house. Do you know what he said?? If i had a problem with it, i should have told him earlier to get one or even have bought another one for him!! Cheeky b******. I stayed calm the whole time..was polite and corteaus to him and he sounded very immature and had quite an aggressive tone with me. He then said "do u think i m made of money? I cant afford to buy a car seat!" Well, im having to get by alone- i have more outgoings then him with a baby- whats his wages going on for goodness sake, he obly pays £120 a month for his bedsit inclusive of bills and he earns between 700 and £1000 a mnth. So i didnt let him take Oliver. Am i right?? I am so angry i am shaking. I cant belive he is that selfish and doesntcare for his sons safety. Im so upset. Im angry with his mum for allowing it too!xx