You are a wonderful friend and like others said just be there for her. Nobody understands what she is about to face unless they have lost a baby. I will tell you this she doesn't want to hear about your pregnancy, I know right now maybe you can understand this a little and it may become harder for you, but she will be in so much pain that even seeing someone pregnant will break her. I lost my Ava 1 year and 9 months ago and it took me a year and a half just to be able to be around pregnant women and they were people I randomly saw. So please please don't get offended or move away from her because of this, she needs all the friends she can get at this time. If she asks about your baby then fine, but try your best not to mention it to her . My cousin hid her pregnancy from me for 6 months , I found out on my own and when I asked her why she hid it from me she just said she felt bad, but I knew she had a loss, cause she would have never known to do that unless she knew the pain of my loss. Turns out she did have a loss at 12 weeks, so she knew my pain , cause she remembered how hard it was for her, she has since went on to have her rainbow and that is what has really healed her a bit, I have not had my rainbow and probably wont, I am 42 and it is hard at this stage. So for me I am still in the healing process and I have come so far, but I still cry a lot, but seeing pregnant women and newborns is now easier, it just takes time and we all reach that point at different stages, we get there somehow. I know how hard it is for people to understand this pain, I never ever did until it happened to me, I mean I felt bad for women who had a loss, but never ever in a million years could I have imagined this immense pain and sorrow. I love that you have come here to ask us for advice, it shows how much you care and what a great friend you will be to her, please please just have patience with her, I know it will be hard but I promise you this if you go through this journey with her and have the patience with her she will never forget it , she will love you for it , forever. People even family want to move away from us , because they don't understand how to help us and really they can't, nobody can heal your heart, but if they stay on the journey with us , it is something we never forget . So sorry this has happened , you both are in my prayers. If ever ever have more questions , just come in here and ask us.. ALl My Love XOOX Andrea