My husband has always known of my desire for a family. Even from early on in our relationship. He always said he wanted children too.
Well we've been together for almost 7 years now, and for the last 12 months have felt that I was at stage of my life where I was ready to start my family. I discussed this with my husband and he said he wanted to wait until December (09), as he didn't feel quite ready but would by then.
"You're sure?" I asked. "You're not just naming a date to shut me up?"
"No!" was the reply. "I want to start trying for a baby in December this year."
I came off the pill in April, and my husband was fine with this. And we're been using a combination of withdrawal and condoms sinse then.
Well I turned to my husband on Friday and mentioned trying to concieve in December. He now claims that the entire conversation about agreeing a date never happened. WTF?
He now says he wants to wait until he has a new job. He's not unemployed. He just wants a new job. I think it's another excuse. I'm beginning to think he doesn't want children at all.
If it came down to a choice between him and having a baby. He wouldn't win. I don't want to tell him this because I don't want to push him into agreeing to have a baby he doesn't want.
I don't know what to do.
Well we've been together for almost 7 years now, and for the last 12 months have felt that I was at stage of my life where I was ready to start my family. I discussed this with my husband and he said he wanted to wait until December (09), as he didn't feel quite ready but would by then.
"You're sure?" I asked. "You're not just naming a date to shut me up?"
"No!" was the reply. "I want to start trying for a baby in December this year."
I came off the pill in April, and my husband was fine with this. And we're been using a combination of withdrawal and condoms sinse then.
Well I turned to my husband on Friday and mentioned trying to concieve in December. He now claims that the entire conversation about agreeing a date never happened. WTF?
He now says he wants to wait until he has a new job. He's not unemployed. He just wants a new job. I think it's another excuse. I'm beginning to think he doesn't want children at all.
If it came down to a choice between him and having a baby. He wouldn't win. I don't want to tell him this because I don't want to push him into agreeing to have a baby he doesn't want.
I don't know what to do.