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To get married next year but on a very tight budget so looking for ideas! Bet you can't wait. I'm also "young" at 21 In 2 weeks x
Ah congrats! There are a lot of ways you can save money, it depends really whether you want a big or small wedding but you can make savings either way. We decided to just have close family (parents, grandparents, siblings (and their partners and kids) and a couple of friends, basically no aunties uncles and cousins since we have loads between us!) and had 27 adults and 6 children including ourselves there. We had a church ceremony and a lunchtime buffet in a private dining area upstairs at a restaurant opposite. The room was gorgeous with a bar and other comfy seating away from the tables and chairs and music playing. The buffet was put out and everyone was just up, having drinks and mingling it was a really nice atmosphere! it's worth ringing around to see what places do private events/dining for small groups. It's just about thinking outside the box really!
If anyone is interested the cost breakdown was something like this:
Church: 550 (i think it's usually 450 but we had organs playing which was an extra 100 I think)
Lunchtime buffet (including use of function room, buffet for 32 and 1 alcoholic drink per guest): 700
My wedding dress, accessories and shoes: 100 (dress was around 80 from BHS in the sale, shoes were twenty pounds, I borrowed jewellery from my grandma and mum, my hairdresser did my hair for free as a wedding gift and used tights/underwear/makeup I already owned
Page-boy suit and shoes: 30 (both from rocco clothing)
Flower girls dresses, shoes and accessories: 100 (dresses were £12 each in the m and s sale, shoes were full-price from monsoon)
Groom suit and waistcoat and tie: 130 (used shoes and shirt he already had)
Flowers: Free as my auntie is a florist
Cake: 100
Photographer: Free, we just relied on our family and friends to get good ones, luckily a couple have good cameras and got some stunning shots
Rings: 70 (we got inexpensive ones that we will possibly replace in the future)
As far as weddings go it wasn't a lot but still felt like quite a lot of money to spend, I had the best day ever though! xx