My last night wondering.

[golcarlilly]

So sorry hun been wondering all day how you got on hope you are coping x

 

[porkpie1981]

so sorry

I just logged on to see how it went.

Anytime u want to tell u know where i am. R stories are so similar. All i can say is i flt better after d & C but then the bleeding when on longer than expected so i needed further tablets which brought it all back. I can honesty say now i feel ok tho still feel jealous the odd time of other people. I know i doesnt look like it now but u will improve over as time goes by.

Please rest and i will lo on tomorrow to see how u are.

 

[mBLACK]

So sorry for your loss, if there's any way I can help don't hesitate to ask.

 

[Vivanco]

So sorry sweetie, i know what you mean, we build ourselves up that things are ok, so so sorry, we are all here and thinking of u x x x

 

[maccy]

I feel absolutly terrified of whats ahead of me and I know that some people including a couple of family members think I've made the wrong decision with the natural miscarriage and I didn't think that I was gonna chose this option but as I sat there with tears streaming down my face, holding hubbys hand at the hospital with a nurse giving me two options I took the one that I felt I could cope with. What I wanted to say is I don't want any of these options I want my baby back!

 

[Sweatpea24]

I feel absolutly terrified of whats ahead of me and I know that some people including a couple of family members think I've made the wrong decision with the natural miscarriage and I didn't think that I was gonna chose this option but as I sat there with tears streaming down my face, holding hubbys hand at the hospital with a nurse giving me two options I took the one that I felt I could cope with. What I wanted to say is I don't want any of these options I want my baby back!

Awww... I'm so sorry for your loss! I find myself crying at night and just wanting to scream at the top of my lungs "I WANT MY BABY BACK!!!!!!". just remember that everything you are feeling is normal. Don't try to fight the tears.

 

[biteable]

aww im so sorry for you hun,i chose the natural option as well so i know what your going through,im here if you need to chat,sending you loadsa hugs xxx

 

[Nikkinoonoo]

So very sorry for your loss xXx

 

[Shri]

Maccy, I had medical management after a missed miscarriage last year. I was 10 weeks and the baby had stopped growing at 8wks. I actually found it helped me, as horrendous as it sounds, to sort of go through a mini labour with the medical management, as it helped me accept that things were really over and I didn't have the fear that the whole thing was a big mistake. The pain was very mild in my case. It was all very sad and difficult, but I was not frightened. I hope it will be gentle for you.

 

[golcarlilly]

Hi try not to worry, you have chosen the option which sounds best for you,which is all any of us can do, armed with the knowledge I have of medical miscarriage now I wish I had chosen a d&c as i feel i would maybe have had less after effects (still bleeding and cramps) but none of us can say what it will be like as everyone is different, try and just rest as much as you can hun and we are all here for you whenever you need a shoulder

 

[Uvlollypop]

big hugs to you

 

[tillymum]

I feel absolutly terrified of whats ahead of me and I know that some people including a couple of family members think I've made the wrong decision with the natural miscarriage and I didn't think that I was gonna chose this option but as I sat there with tears streaming down my face, holding hubbys hand at the hospital with a nurse giving me two options I took the one that I felt I could cope with. What I wanted to say is I don't want any of these options I want my baby back!

Hi Maccy, I know exactly how you feel as I choose natural misccarraige too on Friday when given the options 2 mins after finding there was no heartbeat, I felt it was the easiest option then, now i'm terrified too, though I'm going to see if I can change my mind and go for a D&C. I just want it all to be over.

 

[LaDY]

Goodluck hunny...you will be in my thoughts xx

 

[porkpie1981]

How are u today?

 

[lauraperrysan]

So sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you have lots of support around you and of cource we are all here for you on here
My scan didn't show good or bad news yet....still bleeding lightly tho and all my pregnancy symptoms have now gone so I feel I may be following in your path. Will find out more on Tuesday hopefully.
Wishing you the kindest possible 1 - 2 weeks to come. Thinking of you.
Hugs xxx

 

[Zoebump08]

sorry to hear about what youve been through,i cant possibly feel the emotions your going through, but all the best for the future

 

[bethyb]

hey hun,
havent been online for a few days so thats why i havent posted on here sooner..
Ive had a erpc and a natural miscarriage, i got to be honest and say for me personally i prefered the eprc as it was a little less traumatic as u are being handled by people who know what they are doing, with a natural miscarriage ur kind of on ur own and it is distressing although u grieve as its happening if u get me. I saw babys sac and i have since buried it which means ill always have a special place to go which i didnt before. both times were very sad and i felt very low both times so there really is no easy option. All i will say is dont be too afraid - your body knows what to do and it will do it, i wasnt in a lot of pain but it does hurt so get a hot water bottle ready and naturally expect to bleed for longer.. I bled on and off for three weeks.
Im really sorry ur at this crossroads but u will feel stronger in time and u will always have a angel watching over u. be brave hun xx

 

[golcarlilly]

Hi hun, how are you doing?

 

[Ann-Marie]

 

[maccy]

No sign of anything yet, although 3 days ago I was still feeling sick and had sore boobs they have now def disappeared, the waiting is hard, but I am doing what feels right for me at the moment. Over the last 3 weeks I have been in hospital, had internals, scans, bloods taken, drips, been poked and proded and for now am happy to leave things take their own course for a bit, I have a scheduled apt for 3 weeks time so if nothing happens by then I'll re-think. Thanks for all the support ladies. Your all diamonds, to go through what you have been through and still find the strength to offer support to me. xxxxxxx