aimee-lou
Totally Outnumbered!!
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Thanks to stupid people trying their best to make my life miserable, my normal state of PMA is just about gone down the pan!
Before I start, I just want to say, I'm not normally an irrational person and I am very level most of the time so this is very unlike me! I reckon it's hormones!!
I felt very bad yesterday - generally felt very sick, tired, dizzy and not well enough to be at work! I do not expect any special treatment but I haven't had ANY time off work due to pregnancy since I was 5 weeks when I was late 2 mornings in a row. I just felt that I needed to put my feet up for the afternoon - so I did.
I've got in this morning (1st one in as normal) and I've found an absence form on my desk (NEVER had one of these in over a year - any time I've needed I've just worked back!) so apparently they want to dock my pay for yesterday despite me working my ass off and putting up with all sorts of Crap from the people that I work with. I have also noticed that since I told my boss that I'm pregnant he has suddenly stepped up my work load and seems to dislike me....probably because I'm leaving him in the lurch despite being on a fixed term til October anyway (Oh wow - 6 weeks less!).
I'm sorry, I've had to put up with a lot of shit in the past, and I'm a big girl but I could really kill someone about this. It just seems so petty - I'm not asking for people to do my work for me, or to make excuses for me (yet - when I get bigger it will be a different story!!) but I'm being made to feel guilty. As it is I'm having to use a day's TIL to go to my scan despite entitlements - I could raise merry hell and dictate loads of stuff but I'm letting it go as it's a small company and we just don't have the resources....I know this! I'm not stupid, but I just don't seem to be being given the credit!!
Grrrrrr - rant over girls. I guess I'm just going to have to bite my lip but it's against all my better judgements and instincts to do this!!!
Before I start, I just want to say, I'm not normally an irrational person and I am very level most of the time so this is very unlike me! I reckon it's hormones!!
I felt very bad yesterday - generally felt very sick, tired, dizzy and not well enough to be at work! I do not expect any special treatment but I haven't had ANY time off work due to pregnancy since I was 5 weeks when I was late 2 mornings in a row. I just felt that I needed to put my feet up for the afternoon - so I did.
I've got in this morning (1st one in as normal) and I've found an absence form on my desk (NEVER had one of these in over a year - any time I've needed I've just worked back!) so apparently they want to dock my pay for yesterday despite me working my ass off and putting up with all sorts of Crap from the people that I work with. I have also noticed that since I told my boss that I'm pregnant he has suddenly stepped up my work load and seems to dislike me....probably because I'm leaving him in the lurch despite being on a fixed term til October anyway (Oh wow - 6 weeks less!).
I'm sorry, I've had to put up with a lot of shit in the past, and I'm a big girl but I could really kill someone about this. It just seems so petty - I'm not asking for people to do my work for me, or to make excuses for me (yet - when I get bigger it will be a different story!!) but I'm being made to feel guilty. As it is I'm having to use a day's TIL to go to my scan despite entitlements - I could raise merry hell and dictate loads of stuff but I'm letting it go as it's a small company and we just don't have the resources....I know this! I'm not stupid, but I just don't seem to be being given the credit!!
Grrrrrr - rant over girls. I guess I'm just going to have to bite my lip but it's against all my better judgements and instincts to do this!!!