I'd like to hear from some moms and people that have been in the same situation as i'm going through.
In January of this year 2019 I met the most amazing beautiful women and mother to 5 children. We hit it off on the first date and never looked back. fast forward to September of the year 2019 I asked her to marry me. She immediately said yes. A few days later she gave me a card and wrote in it she couldn't wait to spend the rest of her life with me. Now we had talked about having another child since I had met her she always said she would have one for me but I needed to hurry up because shes not getting any younger. Im 36 shes 43. On October 15 she had taken a pregnancy test. On October 21 she told me she was pregnant. That week I could tell her attitude with me started to become more sharp by that weekend anything I did would annoy her. I do not live with her but I would stay every weekend and come throughout the week. October 28 she stopped talking to me when I was able to get her to text she said "I need space and time to think about what I have going on in my life". Over the course of the next few days I pleaded with her not to leave me out of this I reassured her i'm not going anywhere i'm in this 100% Her response was "I have to assume all responsibility for this child and can't assume your going to help with any cost of anything" Now I always give her money 1000 here 500 there I've probably given her over 10k in the last year just to help here and I bought 70 inch tv new sectional tv stand big cabinet and a new dinning room set and I don't even live there. Not bragging just saying what i've done. I pay for 3 of her children's braces every month that's 300. she keeps saying "I don't know how im going to pay the 220 a week for daycare" I asked her if she still loves me she said : I love you yes, I have no desire to live with you at this time, I don't want to talk, I can't explain why I feel this way, I just need space. We have an app on our phones called life 360 its a gps app her and her daughter and I are on it so I know she's safe I can see where she's at if I wanted to. I have been over at the house when shes not there to drop a gift off for her it was a pregnancy pillow which she didn't like and through it in the living room for the kids but all my pictures are still on the wall, refrigerator and night stand. I tried to go up to her work about 2 weeks ago when I got there she was standing in the hall and saw me and started yelling at me told me to get the hell out and punched me in the chest so I left. She was still wearing my engagement ring. I asked yesterday if she promised me she won't leave me she said I promise. Im a very emotional person and I love her so much. I send her ubereats all the time to her work. I just don't know what else to do I want to see her so bad I want to be there to help her in anyway I can but she won't budge. Is this hormones? She's now in her 10th week. She wont go to the doctor till after the first trimester says its a waste of money. Im lost sad and hurt. This is my first child. She also says she’s resentful that she’s pregnant and 43.
In January of this year 2019 I met the most amazing beautiful women and mother to 5 children. We hit it off on the first date and never looked back. fast forward to September of the year 2019 I asked her to marry me. She immediately said yes. A few days later she gave me a card and wrote in it she couldn't wait to spend the rest of her life with me. Now we had talked about having another child since I had met her she always said she would have one for me but I needed to hurry up because shes not getting any younger. Im 36 shes 43. On October 15 she had taken a pregnancy test. On October 21 she told me she was pregnant. That week I could tell her attitude with me started to become more sharp by that weekend anything I did would annoy her. I do not live with her but I would stay every weekend and come throughout the week. October 28 she stopped talking to me when I was able to get her to text she said "I need space and time to think about what I have going on in my life". Over the course of the next few days I pleaded with her not to leave me out of this I reassured her i'm not going anywhere i'm in this 100% Her response was "I have to assume all responsibility for this child and can't assume your going to help with any cost of anything" Now I always give her money 1000 here 500 there I've probably given her over 10k in the last year just to help here and I bought 70 inch tv new sectional tv stand big cabinet and a new dinning room set and I don't even live there. Not bragging just saying what i've done. I pay for 3 of her children's braces every month that's 300. she keeps saying "I don't know how im going to pay the 220 a week for daycare" I asked her if she still loves me she said : I love you yes, I have no desire to live with you at this time, I don't want to talk, I can't explain why I feel this way, I just need space. We have an app on our phones called life 360 its a gps app her and her daughter and I are on it so I know she's safe I can see where she's at if I wanted to. I have been over at the house when shes not there to drop a gift off for her it was a pregnancy pillow which she didn't like and through it in the living room for the kids but all my pictures are still on the wall, refrigerator and night stand. I tried to go up to her work about 2 weeks ago when I got there she was standing in the hall and saw me and started yelling at me told me to get the hell out and punched me in the chest so I left. She was still wearing my engagement ring. I asked yesterday if she promised me she won't leave me she said I promise. Im a very emotional person and I love her so much. I send her ubereats all the time to her work. I just don't know what else to do I want to see her so bad I want to be there to help her in anyway I can but she won't budge. Is this hormones? She's now in her 10th week. She wont go to the doctor till after the first trimester says its a waste of money. Im lost sad and hurt. This is my first child. She also says she’s resentful that she’s pregnant and 43.
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