dizzyangel
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sorry in advance if this post is a bit long winded.
i never ever leave my mobile phone anywhere as i have caught my sister looking at it before. once i saw her doing that i have always kept it with me and even take it with me when i have a bath or am nipping out the room for just a second.
i stayed over at my sisters house the other week and left my phone charging next to my bed while i was downstairs. my sister went upstairs to do something - i presumed it was to get some washing or clean up or whatever jobs she had to do so i thought nothing of it.
when she came back down she said 'is your phone still charging when it has a lightening flash?' it does, so i told her yes and i knew she had looked at my phone. i thought she had just pressed a button and saw it was still charging and came back down but when i went to get my phone it was unlocked. my phone is a slide phone so if she had opened it and looked then shut it again it would have locked itself but i hadnt so i was suspicious that she had been snooping.
next she started asking about the FOB housemate and about FOB which made me even more suspicious as we never talk about them and it was a bit random the way she brought it up.
Anyway, the thing is ive never told my sister about Hope nor do i want her to know and i have kept nearly every message from FOB on my phone and i think she has read a lot of them but im not sure how many. she has told a mutual friend of ours who does know a little about my angel baby that she has read some messages and she thinks ive had an abortion, which isnt true, because FOB was so nasty to me. she mentioned the 24th Sept when we were both drunk last Saturday, which was my due date and i would love to know what she has read/seen but dont actually want to talk to her about it!
im really mad about it and she would go ape if i had gone through her phone. should i confront her about reading my stuff or just pretend that nothing has happened? (or kick her ar*e??)
im actually so mad it makes me feel sick, sorry about the rant
xx
i never ever leave my mobile phone anywhere as i have caught my sister looking at it before. once i saw her doing that i have always kept it with me and even take it with me when i have a bath or am nipping out the room for just a second.
i stayed over at my sisters house the other week and left my phone charging next to my bed while i was downstairs. my sister went upstairs to do something - i presumed it was to get some washing or clean up or whatever jobs she had to do so i thought nothing of it.
when she came back down she said 'is your phone still charging when it has a lightening flash?' it does, so i told her yes and i knew she had looked at my phone. i thought she had just pressed a button and saw it was still charging and came back down but when i went to get my phone it was unlocked. my phone is a slide phone so if she had opened it and looked then shut it again it would have locked itself but i hadnt so i was suspicious that she had been snooping.
next she started asking about the FOB housemate and about FOB which made me even more suspicious as we never talk about them and it was a bit random the way she brought it up.
Anyway, the thing is ive never told my sister about Hope nor do i want her to know and i have kept nearly every message from FOB on my phone and i think she has read a lot of them but im not sure how many. she has told a mutual friend of ours who does know a little about my angel baby that she has read some messages and she thinks ive had an abortion, which isnt true, because FOB was so nasty to me. she mentioned the 24th Sept when we were both drunk last Saturday, which was my due date and i would love to know what she has read/seen but dont actually want to talk to her about it!
im really mad about it and she would go ape if i had gone through her phone. should i confront her about reading my stuff or just pretend that nothing has happened? (or kick her ar*e??)
im actually so mad it makes me feel sick, sorry about the rant
xx