Hi everyone.
I was a bit unsure where to put this but felt most comfortable putting it here.
Kayden is 8 and although not diagnosed he suffers from autistic traits mainly Aspergers type traits of which he is currently under evaluation for.
He has an IEP in place in school and has a one to one support worker he sees daily and he is in different clubs which he seems to enjoy, multi sports, football, guitar lessons and out of school cub scouts.
The thing is he gets picked on constantly. We live in a fairly rough area and the school is full of nasty kids who's parents don't care how their kids act.
Kayden is really sensitive and his feelings are easily hurt although he doesn't show it as a mum I know when something is wrong.
Kids at school are being violent and he is coming home with ripped clothes, legs covered in bruises, scratch marks and stuff.
I have been to the headteacher three times about this and nothing has been done. I had a meeting with his class teacher and pastoral support worker who basically said it was his fault because he is weird and annoying.
I am at a loss what to do. If he moves schools the same could just happen there and there and there are no decent schools for miles, which he wouldn't be in the catchment for anyway. We can't afford private at all and I don't feel I could fulfil his potential with home schooling as he is really smart and I am not.
Can anyone suggest anything as I am at a loss and I hate seeing him so unhappy as I went through being bullied myself. He says at playtimes he just walks around on his own randomly getting kicked or jumped on
Thanks if you stuck it out and read all that!
UPDATE:
I rang this morning and talked to the head. I asked her if I could go in and see her to which she replied she was fully booked all week.
I told her in the nicest possible way how disgusted I was at what was going on and that nothing has been done and that I am putting a complaint in with the governors.
She then found a space to see me tomorrow night after school. I told her that I am keeping Kayden off until after we have seen each other.
I will update after I have seen her tomorrow night.
I was a bit unsure where to put this but felt most comfortable putting it here.
Kayden is 8 and although not diagnosed he suffers from autistic traits mainly Aspergers type traits of which he is currently under evaluation for.
He has an IEP in place in school and has a one to one support worker he sees daily and he is in different clubs which he seems to enjoy, multi sports, football, guitar lessons and out of school cub scouts.
The thing is he gets picked on constantly. We live in a fairly rough area and the school is full of nasty kids who's parents don't care how their kids act.
Kayden is really sensitive and his feelings are easily hurt although he doesn't show it as a mum I know when something is wrong.
Kids at school are being violent and he is coming home with ripped clothes, legs covered in bruises, scratch marks and stuff.
I have been to the headteacher three times about this and nothing has been done. I had a meeting with his class teacher and pastoral support worker who basically said it was his fault because he is weird and annoying.
I am at a loss what to do. If he moves schools the same could just happen there and there and there are no decent schools for miles, which he wouldn't be in the catchment for anyway. We can't afford private at all and I don't feel I could fulfil his potential with home schooling as he is really smart and I am not.
Can anyone suggest anything as I am at a loss and I hate seeing him so unhappy as I went through being bullied myself. He says at playtimes he just walks around on his own randomly getting kicked or jumped on
Thanks if you stuck it out and read all that!
UPDATE:
I rang this morning and talked to the head. I asked her if I could go in and see her to which she replied she was fully booked all week.
I told her in the nicest possible way how disgusted I was at what was going on and that nothing has been done and that I am putting a complaint in with the governors.
She then found a space to see me tomorrow night after school. I told her that I am keeping Kayden off until after we have seen each other.
I will update after I have seen her tomorrow night.