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[MinneGirl]

OMG, your nephew is darling!

You aren't a bad person..this thought crosses lots of peoples minds.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Poor lil dude has a hernia, hopefully he is going in for an op at the end of the month - its been cancelled twice. He crys & packs tantrums all the time so they are hoping after the op he might settle down, otherwise they just have a naughty boy - which would serve my brother right - he was a naughty kid

 

[MinneGirl]

HELLLOOOOOO....is anybody out there????????????

 

[LaRockera]

I.Feel.Out.

 

[MinneGirl]

I.Feel.Out.

Ummmm, Girl, you are only 8 dpo...the baby probably hasn't even IMPLANTED yet--you need to turn that frown upside down.

Just for that attitude, your getting this:

 

[LaRockera]

I.Feel.Out.

Ummmm, Girl, you are only 8 dpo...the baby probably hasn't even IMPLANTED yet--you need to turn that frown upside down.

Just for that attitude, your getting this:

I feel better.

 

[MinneGirl]

I.Feel.Out.

Ummmm, Girl, you are only 8 dpo...the baby probably hasn't even IMPLANTED yet--you need to turn that frown upside down.

Just for that attitude, your getting this:

I feel better.

GOOD

 

[LaRockera]

Okay guys, here it is.

My DH has arranged to meet some of his peers from Uni tomorrow night, and I guess I'd like to know whether I can have a glass of wine or two. Tomorrow I'll be 10dpo.

So I went and bought the most sensitive test I could find.

The thing is, I am expecting a big fat neg as always, so I'm thinking I should better skip the test and go ahead and do whatever I'll do, because I'd rather keep that tiny tiny bit of hope in there until the ugly witch shows up.

Then again, there's this annoying little voice telling me I have to test before drinking, just in case.

What do you guys reckon?

Here are some of my 'supposed' symptoms this month, all of which can be explained otherwise.

- Constipation (not like me, but then again I've changed environment, and I have been eating a lot of unhelpful stuff lately)
- Mild nausea that goes away with eating (I had that before, remember?)
- White/yellowish cm on panties (although I suppose it will start to change as AF approaches. I just can't remember if I had cm that late before my period before, but I'm sure I have it every time, and every time I wonder.)
-Oh. And my boobs are not sore at all, although they seem kind of bigger, but then again I've put on weight.
- Backache, but then again I've been lying down lazily reading for two-days almost non-stop.
-Cramping, but this can be explained in a 1234 ways. I've also had that before.

So as you can see these are all the kind of 'symptoms' that make a mickey out of you at the end of the cycle.

Would you test tomorrow, or go out and have a good time with moderate alcohol consumption because you just couldn't stand coming across yet another bfn?

Cheers lovelies.

 

[MinneGirl]

FINALLY!!!!!!!! A POST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go have a glass of wine or two. It isn't going to hurt anything at this point. Even if you do test and get BFN, it could be false negative.

I had a lovely glass of red wine last night with DH. All my friends who are pregnant said "enjoy a good glass of wine in your 2WW"...so I do

Just my opinion.

 

[MinneGirl]

Oh & Sequeena may be preggo................

 

[LaRockera]

Oh & Sequeena may be preggo................

Really??

*goes to check.*

ps. so shall I test tomorrow or not?

 

[BabyDreamer82]

well I just read sequeenas post in BFP announcements FX!!!!

LaRockera -its really up to you, if it will ease your mind so you can feel ok about having a drink then test, but if it will really put you in a downer if its negative - then maybe not.
I know Im not normally bothered by the first couple of BFN's, the prob is once I start testing I turn into a poas addict & then I get damn evaps that make me crazy & stressed.

Are you able to test & if it is neg then accept that its probably just too early?

 

[LaRockera]

To be honest with you, I won't really be surprised if it's a BFN. None of the previous BFNs depressed, but there are not nice to look at either. The thing is I'm now a guest at my in-laws, and if I do decide to go for the test in the morning, I'll have to do it in a hurry as I don't want to be caught .

If it's a BFN then it's a BFN. The test is really sensitive, and sure, I'll probably be kiddin' myself for a while longer, but deep down I'll know I'm out.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

I have my fx for you for whenever you test! I think your 'symptoms' sound good too.

Well Im battling the 'do I try or not' dilemma at the moment, using those online Ov calculators I should be Oving over ther next few days, I dont know what to do...Its the first month I feel kinda nervous about getting pg.

 

[MinneGirl]

Hi gals...nice to have you around I was getting lonely.

Babydreamer, I can imagine the confusion..I think you should BD when you feel like it and it happens, it was meant to be

LaRockera, please update us if you decide to test...but really, it's going to be BFN even if you are preggo..you are only 9 dpo...

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Last night DF asked me if I would move to Aussie... Iknow he wants to but I dont. Of course I would go if he wanted really badly, but it would be so hard being so far away from my family & it would be in the middle of nowhere, Im scared I would get lonely & depressed.
But at the same time I wouldn't mind going over for a year or something, just to see what its like, to have a bit of adventure rather than being too scared & living in the same area doing the same thing, not seeing the world.
But what if Im pregnant by then, I wouldnt have my family around. And if we decided to go in a few years instead, could I actually do it if I had a young child, taking them away from my family after having them around.

 

[sequeena]

I did the other frer (the first was invalid) and Maybe the faint line on the ics were wrong... they're 25miu and the frer is 10miu. It should have picked it up

 

[LaRockera]

This morning, at 10dpo, I got another rubbed in my face. It was a 10ml test too, so I'm not kidding myself; I'm out yet again.

Sequeena, I'm sorry babe. I'd say try another test, and in any case, do your best not to let your disappointment get the best of you.

Just like I'm doing now.

Babydreamer82, I've been away from my family for seven whole years now. My DH is also Greek, and we have no family in the UK. This is the case for a lot of people, and although it's not easy, never easy (I still get emotional when leaving after seven years), it's not the end of the world either. I talk to them everyday, and I enjoy my UK life everyday as well. It's all about choice and perspective. And both DH and I are confident enough and stubborn and willing to raise our little ones as best as we can there, when the time comes. I'll be pregnant without my mother helping me out, and I'm darn sure I'll make it. So don't let this discourage you.

MinneGirl- KISS.

 

[sequeena]

Well there's pics in my journal if you want a look at this mornings tests hun I automatically discarded it as a because I wanted a big fat line. Now I'm not so sure.

Srry about your hun don't give up yet xx

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Sequeena, I think I can see something in those last two pics! Oh and your dog is gorgeous!!! (i LOVE dogs, have 3 of our own)

LaRockera, it is still early! your not out until the witch shows!! - you were suppose to remember that!
And no it wouldn't be the end of the world going to Oz, Im just a big scaredy cat...they have BIG spiders & snakes too! We just get daddy long-legs & garden worms here & they scare me!!