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[BabyDreamer82]

Ive decided Im gonna give it a shot again - I just cant not try... I cant help myself with checking CM, or thinking about the fact that Im prob fertile at the moment. Im feeling bloated & a wee bit moody
I was hoping we could DTD last night but DF was really tired So fx for tonight.
Luckily Im going to be quite busy over the next few weeks, we have our engagement 'do' next weekend & I start my change over as supervisor at work this week so I should be busy with that, hopefully the 2ww will go fast & I wont turn crazy again.

 

[MinneGirl]

Hi Gals,

Welcome back BabyDreamer..well, not like you really left, but you are back on the wagon. Maybe with a more relaxed approach, the whole thing will be easier for you. I sure hope so

LaRockera, you MAY not be out. REMEMBER, Mrc-C didn't test positive until 13dpo with a good test....

Sequeena, hope this is your month, girl

Nothing going on here..8 dpo and tons of white CM. Pretty normal. Lots of twinges and pangs, but again, probably have this every month. Still really hopeful

 

[LaRockera]

I love you all.

Babydreamer- don't stress yourself over Australia yet. As far as I can tell from your message, your DH is just talking about it. You'll deal with it if/when you have to. And don't stress yourself over stressing. Good for you that you're still trying. We're all cheering on you.

MinneGirl- thanks Megababe. I hope two nice symmetrical lines wait for you at the end of the cycle.

I still have tiny droplets of white/yellowish cm on my panties, but I'm trying not to read too much into that. Constipation's gone- in fact I've visited the loo three times this morning after that BFN. Hubby's been really supportive with me being disheartened and all- I really appreciate him putting up with me.

I kinda missed my home and my privacy guys. That feeling was not that intense while I was with my folks (I always miss them!) but now I'm anticipating to go back and organise my phd, my novel, my BDing, everything under my own schedule and roof and plan, you know what I mean?

A big kiss goodnight to all of you.

 

[MinneGirl]

So you are happy to be going home or sad? I think you implied that you are happy to go home It should be fun to be a newly married couples at home with your own space and time.

LaRockera, I so hope you are right that two pink lines await me in a few days. I honestly will have a freaking, hysterical attack when I see those lines...whenever that day comes. Maybe the 7th month is a charm The thought of doing this for much longer just seems so daunting. I know you all can relate.

Love you girls! Nighty, night!!

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Well Im pretty sure Im ovulating today, super bloated & gassy and have had quite a bit of cramping, although it feels bit different - not just on sides but all thru uterus area?
I had a nice lazy last sunday at work, the girl taking over from me was there so I just bummed around really. So SO pleased I dont have to work Sundays anymore!!


LaRockera - Im pretty sure Mrs-C got a BFN at 10dpo that cycle as well... so you are def NOT out yet

Minne - when are you going to test? are you going to be good & wait til AF is late?

Sequeena - any progress?

Cedar - where are you?

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Oh, DF is REALLY tired again - we have had a NASTY storm so he has been super busy, So Im going to try & charm him with his favourite dinner & brownie & icecream for dessert. Hopefully he will love me lots tonight!!

 

[LaRockera]

Thanks for trying to cheer me up, girls. Unfortunately I really think I'm out. My pre-AF moodiness has already kicked in. Given that stupid neighbours didn't let us sleep last night as well, I'm fuming!

You're right MinneGirl, I am happy to be going home. Both DH and I said so between those intervals of furniture-dragging and heavy walking from the floor above our bedroom. To be fair with you we've never felt as comfortable here as we do when we are with my folks. Both my father-in-law and his wife are doing everything they can to pamper us (DH's mother died some fourteen years ago ) but I just can't move around with the same ease and comfy as in my parents' home.

Now listen to this.

Yesterday morning, shortly after I had that nasty shoved into my face, DH's younger (24) cousin paid us a visit. She's a lovely, happy girl, and I know she loves me tons, but she started asking about 'when are we having a baby' and I said to her 'don't stress me out!' in a half-joking manner, and guess what she said!

'Why? Are you trying and it's not working?'



Needless to say, I said NO.

And then there was this other girl, a neighbour of my parents. She was bragging about how her gyno told her that her reproductive organs were 'so perfect shaped they could be used in a medical mag' and that she has to be 'very very careful' because her OH had a 'very high sperm count, a lot more than the average man's and if she wasn't careful she could fall pregnant SO easily.'

Well, she's young (23) and she's got a whale of a lot to learn about not blurting out just about everything that comes to mind, but that bragging pissed me off so incredibly much I HAVE to rant to someone about it.

I'm not kiddin' myself. I'm out. My mood is all over the place.

Hopefully any of you ladies will have better luck this cycle than me.

 

[sequeena]

LaRockera - Bitch! That's the type of person who I'd like to punch in the face. Repeatedly. Oh I am not nice at all

Babydreamer - Promising!! Let's hope it's OV!

Morning ladies. OH is off work now for the next few days (holiday). Had a bit of cramping last night but gone this morning. I've not tested again, trying to stay away from the sticks!

 

[LaRockera]

LaRockera - Bitch! That's the type of person who I'd like to punch in the face. Repeatedly. Oh I am not nice at all

Babydreamer - Promising!! Let's hope it's OV!

Morning ladies. OH is off work now for the next few days (holiday). Had a bit of cramping last night but gone this morning. I've not tested again, trying to stay away from the sticks!

I hate to rant about her, because she's really a nice girl, but she has no on/off switch when talking. She's a know-it-all and jumps in and cuts your sentence before you even have a chance to finish it. Hopefully she'll grow up and learn.

Keep us posted on the results. My premenstrual grumpiness is already here, and a few nice big fat spots too.

MinneGirl, I hope you're doing better than me!

And Babydreamer, I'm just wondering whether there'll be a surprise waiting for you at the end of your cycle.

Cedar- How you doin'?

 

[MinneGirl]

Some people just don't get it. Seriously, the next time I get the questions "when are you having a baby?" I may just respond and say "I don't ovulate, so probably never"....even though that isn't true, I suppose it would shut someone up in a hurry. It is astounding to me the lack of tact so many people have when it comes to this subject. So I'm sorry that your cousin pissed you off. We've all been there with those dumb comments--I guess you just have to brush it off.

BORING here--no tests available in the house--thank goodness but getting more nervous by the minute. Just want those two damn lines so freaking bad and starting to realize it more than likely won't happen this month. I mean, why should I expect this month to be any different?

I would expect the b-i-t-c-h to show up on Wed or Thursday, but after last month, I need to prepare myself for as early as Tuesday. Uggh. May have MAJOR meltdown when I see her this month.

Sorry, PMA is in the toilet at the moment girls.

 

[LaRockera]

Some people just don't get it. Seriously, the next time I get the questions "when are you having a baby?" I may just respond and say "I don't ovulate, so probably never"....even though that isn't true, I suppose it would shut someone up in a hurry. It is astounding to me the lack of tact so many people have when it comes to this subject. So I'm sorry that your cousin pissed you off. We've all been there with those dumb comments--I guess you just have to brush it off.

BORING here--no tests available in the house--thank goodness but getting more nervous by the minute. Just want those two damn lines so freaking bad and starting to realize it more than likely won't happen this month. I mean, why should I expect this month to be any different?

I would expect the b-i-t-c-h to show up on Wed or Thursday, but after last month, I need to prepare myself for as early as Tuesday. Uggh. May have MAJOR meltdown when I see her this month.

Sorry, PMA is in the toilet at the moment girls.

I know how you feel. I know how you feel.

I SO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.

I really hope you're wrong though, and that FINALLY there'll be a waiting for you in a few days. I really really do.

And I keep trying to kick some sense into myself, that one of these months sooner or later I'll get that so badly wanted second line on the test, and this is why it's worth trying for and keeping the PMA up. And I also understood that all those s will just make my so special!

I got a REALLY bad mood here girls. I'm very erratic, trying to stop myself from throwing tantrums all over. Not very easy being at my in-laws at present, I'd much rather were with my folks, or back in England. Were my real mother-in-law alive, I'd have someone to confide to, but with my FiL's second wife is just not the same . She's polite and generous and all, but there's a distance.

At least I hope AF shows on time. I'm only 11dpo, I can't imagine how my moodiness will escalate in the next three days!

 

[CedarWood]

Hi girls,

Sorry for having been away - been feeling a bit blah as per my last post

Have not been sleeping well - first jet lag and now it seems a colony of mosquitos has taken up residence in the bedroom - have been woken up several times a night for the past few days...

Have yucky head cold as well Just do not feel good and it looks like I O'd on Tues or Weds - so only one day of bding in...not much to go on but am in the tww.

LR - heh my family has given up asking me when I will have kids - I think now they think I never will.. But yes, some people are a bit insensitive - often without knowing it... Try to have some witty retorts ready like - 'I know what you mean - our doctor wants DH to donate his sperm to science and he says to be careful I am likely to get pregnant being in the bath'!

Minnie - too early to have doubts!

Sequeena - will check out your journal in a bit - have to get dinner ready.

BD - hmmm Australia is far but not too far. Do you know people who have gone?

CW

 

[sequeena]

Fecking hell another faint !!! Do I just say screw it I am pregnant?!

It's annoying but I'm so happy I'm getting a line, albeit a faint one, just wish it would darken.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Good Morning Girls!!!! what a happy bunch on here today !!???

I dont know what to say to try & help cheer you up, so I will do like Minne & .....

Well Im happy, I got laid last night! so if that was Ov yeasterday at least I got a chance, however slim.

Cedar, I think half the people I grew up & went to school live in Aussie - just not in the areas where we would go, the idea is starting to grow on me. Im likely to get excited about the idea over the next few months & then DF will change his mind he's good like that.

Minne & LaRockera - please remember your own advice - you are NOT out til she gets you!

Sequeena - good idea keeping away from the sticks, they always make me mental. Its gotta be hard trying to hold off.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Oh Sequeena I just read that last post - DAMN faint lines, are they ic's or decent tests?

 

[LaRockera]

Hi guys.

Okay, I'll start with Sequeena because it just dawned on me: why don't you use a clearblue digi?? It just goes 'pregnant' or 'not pregnant'. I'm very optimistic it will read 'pregnant' and this will be the end of your troubles- two positives cannot be coincidental! What brands were you using all this time? Same or different ones? Some tests are just better than others!

Cedar - A mosquito kept us up two nights ago. We kept clapping in the air in case we got it, I don't know how we managed to fall asleep at the end. Don't the have those snake/swirling kind of thingies there, the ones you light and let burn? Not very healthy, I'll accept. Perhaps you can spray something?

Oh, and thanks re the super-sperm issue. It made me laugh out loud.
Say, btw, where did you find that 'brat' emoticon? I want one too!

One day of bedding is well enough to get you preggers. You got fine chance there.

Babydreamer, yeah, see this as an adventure, and try not to think about separating from you family. It may not even happen. A baby changes SO much.

MinneGirl -

Right. So I gulped down a cup of milk to calm me down. Hubby's got some Valerian pills so I'm thinking of swallowing one before going to bed. This is most certainly PMS moodiness.

 

[BabyDreamer82]

Im bored....

 

[sequeena]

I used 1 IC, 2 frers (superdrug brand) and another frer, clear and simple brand I think.

I would use a cb digi but to be honest they're very expensive and I don't want to use it until I get a nice dark line. Besides, I will freak out if it comes back negative

 

[LaRockera]

I used 1 IC, 2 frers (superdrug brand) and another frer, clear and simple brand I think.

I would use a cb digi but to be honest they're very expensive and I don't want to use it until I get a nice dark line. Besides, I will freak out if it comes back negative

Yeah, I see your point.

 

[MinneGirl]

Yay, I love when you girls are online!! Last week I thought I was chatting with myself all week

Thanks for the PMA boost girls. I really needed it. I guess its always around this time I start rationalizing why it probably won't happen---I'm sure it is a defense mechanism so that when she get's me (if she does) I won't feel quite as let down.

Just went on a five mile walk with DH and our boys (dogs)--it is a beautiful Fall day here...just gorgeous out. Must remember to appreciate every day, no matter what

Sequeena....I SO hope this is it for you. Like LaRockera mentioned-how about a digi?

Hi, Cedar!!! One time is for sure enough--that is all it takes.

Babydreamer, love that you said you got laid As always, you make me laugh!!