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ha! i will test when i am 6 months pregnant. (ok, for real, i might test if i get to like, cd40 or something...which would be like sept 1.... i cant handle the disappointment.)
 
when you say "stronger woman" - you really mean "coward" - which i totally own up to!
so i have an unrelated to ttc question for people: you all know i'm having that friend over this wkd. she just emailed me "change of plans: can i bring my dog?" - to which i promptly thought "no, thats rude" - but i wanted to be a good friend, so i was thinking "yes" - but my bf is adamantly against it, for reasons including but not limited to the fact that we dont have any animals, ergo our house is not "animal" ready, and we're demo-ing inside the house, and we dont want animals on our furniture/cars. what do you guys think? is it crazy of Friend to have asked or is it crazy for BF to be against it? i'm really torn!
 
I think it was nice of them to ask and not just assume you wouldn't care and I don't think it's crazy of your bf. If I didn't have pets, I wouldn't want someone to bring their's to my house. I actually have a dog and I still wouldn't want a guest to bring their pet.
 
Well im out this cycle, AF got me bad this month! Cheers to next......opks will help so much this time :) congrats to the BFP's
 
just got off the phone with friend - so awkward :( - her comment was "i thought it was ok because i thought you guys were dog people" - to which i had to explain that while we're not anti-dog, we *are* uncomfortable with a dog in our house at this time. ugh. i'm feeling angry at both Friend and BF. thanks for letting me vent here, sorry it's not about all things ttc!
 
jenny sorry bout the witch getting you, good luck for this cycle fx

bray i hope that the shot is out of your system soon and you get a real :bfp:

hw i have a dog and whilst i love him very much, i wouldnt want to impose him on other people who didnt have a pet. It would be me the whole time worrying about whether his fur etc would be getting everywhere. i think its polite of your friend to ask but totally get why your man doesnt want fur flying everywhere. Maybe she could meet you at a park or something? If thats an option i'm not sure. Don't worry bout it too much hun, she is your friend and should understand if you don't have pets in your house. Hope it all goes well for you hun.

Also the christening i have to go to is in september!! :(
 
thanks laus - is the christening out of town? not sure what the timing will be for you but i hope you get your own place to stay - or people are going to see more of you and your DH than they expect!
 
Ok, so this may be late to the game, but I had to chime in. I totally get where BF is coming from and at least your friend asked. My sister would have just brought the dog and then said, "I told you we were all coming!" Lol. Still, it's hard when people put you in a place where you have to say no and try to make them all happy. I hate that!

Bray-- At least you know where you're at with the trigger. Last month it took 12 days for the trigger to stop showing up on my tests. This month, I think it was like 14 because yesterday I had a very, very light positive, but this morning's was totally negative. I am starting to hate the trigger shot for ruining my POAS fun! Lol

I'm probably 12 dpo (depending on how long you think it takes the trigger to make a person ovulate) and BFN today. I'm probably out this month even though my temps are still up. That could be caused by the progesterone I'm taking. We'll find out for sure in a few days!
 
thanks everyone for the responses. i did tell Friend "no" - she wasnt openly understanding, but at least said she would not bring the dog. it's unfortunate that there has already been an unspoken shift between us, due to her condition (and lack of mine), so the dog thing stressed me out more than it normally would. it's going to be a long 48 hours....
 
Hw-good luck with your visit..hope all goes well!

Sniz-good luck! FX for you! Hope this is it!
 
hey hw hope it all goes well hun. I hope it doesnt change your friendship with her, it shouldnt but again i hope it doesnt.

PS, dh cant make it to the christening, so will be going on my own and yeah its out of town, 4 hour car journey to be exact. it really pisses me off though because my bro's wife was like, 'oh she will be walking next time you see her'. (sarcastic bitch!!!) I REALLY wanted to say, 'well you have a car dont you and you two have NEVER EVER came to see me and the dh so get off your F'ING lazy arses and come see us for A CHANGE!!!!! I cant tell you ladies how much it all annoys me. i'm the one that has to make the effort while they just sit back on their f'ing throans and expect everyone else to rally around them. Sorry MAJOR VENT, needed that!

sni, hold on in there huni, i'm keeping my fx for you :dust:

i feel sooooooooooooo hungover today, i really just let go yesterday with my friend and drank wayyyyyy to much wine, i cant remember the last time i drank that much but it's killing me. i know self inflicted so no sympathy :haha:

Also, and i'll shut up after this :haha: i have an app with the dr tomorrow to discuss my 21 day bloods results. I really hope i am O and everything is ok?
 
Laus- vent all you want, get it off your chest..make ya feel better :) And I hope your appt goes well, and keep us posted. Everything happens for a reason, so I hope nothing is wrong but there is that chance and if there is, then they will find it and fix the problem so you can get your bfp soon!
 
thanks mama so much. :hugs:

I have a funny feeling something is wrong because even my periods have been a bit wierd. Normally they last for about 6-7 days. I started spotting on tue, heavy yesterday and today practically nothing? Oh this stupid, stupid body i just hate the damn thing at the moment!
 
Laus, I am so sorry! My sister is like that-- the queen bee. Everyone should bow down to her innate awesomeness and cater to her hand and foot! But I still love her, of course. Doesn't bother me at all that it took her all of 4 months to get preggers both times. Not one bit.

I'm 14dpo and a Big. Fat. Negative. for today. Temp fell to almost cover line. Yep, I'm almost 100% certain I'm out for the month.

Since I already had my hissy fit for the month, I'm ready to accept it and move on! Next month will be my second month on Femara. Maybe second time's lucky!

:dust: to everyone!
 
sni i'm really sorry to hear that hun, i do hope that next month you get your very much wanted :bfp: i hope we all do!!!

i keep thinking i might just not go to the christening, i just dont think i can handle the spanish inquisition. What do you girls think, am i being childish and selfish?
I know i should go but i cant help but think when i have my baby will they come down here for the christening? I honestly dont think they would and would use some sort of excuse. i can only go for a few hours i cant even stay for the after part and its four hours there then the same back and alot of money getting there.

Should i go?
 
If it were me, I probably wouldn't go. I mean, it's 8 hours of driving alone! That's a pretty big deal. And then add to that everything else... But that's just me.
 
thanks sni, i know this is what i keep thinking. i guess i'll wait and see how i feel. cheers hun :thumbup:
 
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