Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[MamaTo2Girls]

thanks tlk...me too....i really really do. xx

 

[HWPG]

tlk, in america you can totally insure breast milk! i've had friends that do it. you can also sell it! omg, preseed and softcups are SO awesome! preseed is a ttc friendly lubricant; it comes with an applicator so you can put it up inside, but i just use it to help get things started, because we all know when you are having ttc sex e/o day, it can get take a little while to get into it and can get raw just in general. no, just me? and softcups hold it all in afterwards - they are intended to use during your period, but the women of the ttc world have taken over the market for holding the semen up near the cervix post-coitus. you just slide it after sex, and you can go about your day. i love them because if you have sex in the morning, all day can be like.... leaky, unexpectedly.... but with these in (properly), you get hours of dry time! love. them.

 

[Snizuitz]

Hi ladies! Just got back from the doctor and my first ultrasound. Everything looks good! I am so relieved!!! We even heard the heartbeat! I cried so hard. Such a beautiful moment, so long in the making!

I'm praying you all get your BFPs soon! Maybe some New Years babies?

 

[HWPG]

what great news barb - i hope you are right about 2014 babies!

 

[Brayr08]

That's so good to hear Barb. So happy for you girl

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

That is fantastic news barb! So glad everything is well!

 

[tlk71411]

tlk, in america you can totally insure breast milk! i've had friends that do it. you can also sell it! omg, preseed and softcups are SO awesome! preseed is a ttc friendly lubricant; it comes with an applicator so you can put it up inside, but i just use it to help get things started, because we all know when you are having ttc sex e/o day, it can get take a little while to get into it and can get raw just in general. no, just me? and softcups hold it all in afterwards - they are intended to use during your period, but the women of the ttc world have taken over the market for holding the semen up near the cervix post-coitus. you just slide it after sex, and you can go about your day. i love them because if you have sex in the morning, all day can be like.... leaky, unexpectedly.... but with these in (properly), you get hours of dry time! love. them.

That's interesting, I know with Tricare-military- you cant insure it(it's in the handbook), and my sister couldnt with her company either. But why exactly would you want to? sorry just curious as I never really looked into it. I know you can sell it, I also know women who work as "wet nurses". I dont think I'd want to do either of those. I mean, maybe for a family members baby but I'm just to...private of a person i guess lol omg I've heard softcups mentioned a lot here but never actually looked into them. That sounds AWESOME! I always hate the next morning or later in the day when all of a sudden "sploosh!" so annoying. (TMI LOL) Where do I get these wonderous devices?! I gotta make my list for July

Hi ladies! Just got back from the doctor and my first ultrasound. Everything looks good! I am so relieved!!! We even heard the heartbeat! I cried so hard. Such a beautiful moment, so long in the making!

I'm praying you all get your BFPs soon! Maybe some New Years babies?

Aww thats so awesome hon! I cried when I heard my dd's heartbeat. If I get prego in July I will have a March/April baby

 

[laustiredttc]

Yay, barb Ah bless i would cry too. I hope you continue to have a h&h 9months huni

Heather hoping your temp goes up too fx

Mirolee exciting times for you

Rach sorry about the bfn, here is hoping and lots of luck for the next cycle. Hope there is no cyst so you can enjoy training again.

Tlk, i will be working with people who have mental health issues in an open rehab hospital. So will be taking them for exercise, doing activities with them and escorting them into the community, that type of thing.

7dpo, nothing, nada, zilch. temp is 98.20 but had two glasses of wine with pub meal last night so thats prob why. If i were to get a bfp this cycle it would be beyond a miracle!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

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[MamaTo2Girls]

temp went down but i did get up 20 mins early but that shouldn't have affected much. Saw some pink lastnight so expecting af today or tomorrow (like planned). We will try next month, but not as hard, only bd like cd11, 13 and 15. I will use pressed only and cut out chocolate and caffeine from my diet and take my vitamins and try to eat healthier and be elevated after bding for at least an hour each time. If this next cycle does not work, I am going to talk to hubby about possibly talking with my ob/gyn and see if maybe there is a reason we haven't conceived yet. Hoping we don't have to do that, but thinking hubby wouldn't want to anyways. Please pray and hope for me. I have my appt with the general surgeon today about my incisional hernia.

 

[laustiredttc]

Heather i'm sorry the witch may be on her way stupid bit*&!! I'm just thinking maybe your hormone levels might be a little out of sinc? Maybe ask for some bloodwork first to be done? I truly truly hope that your next cycle brings you your you deserve it so much.

Going out with the dh for cocktails tonight for a leaving do at his work. Right now i'm just like F'ck it all and i am just going to do whatever the hell i want. No doubt i'll change my mind in the next few days

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

thanks hun, have fun tonight. i'm thinking i'm not going to temp or us opks. i know i either O like cd14 or cd16 so maybe not knowing exactl when i'm expected to will help relieve stress so we don't think about it so much. maybe instead of starting cd11, we will do cd12, 14, 16. either way,like i said ONLY EVERY OTHER DAY and using preseed and having fun and not thinking about it. I will not tell hubby it is time to try to so maybe he can be more relaxed and enjoy it. Here's to a bfp in May for me FX!

afm-haven't noticed any more pink....yet, probly going to curse myself now. By some miracle I hope that pink i saw wasn't af and my temp shoots way up tomorrow morning. I can only WISH..or HOPE! But at leastI'm expecting her and have a great plan in action for next month/cycle. I will keep updated.

mirolee-how is the first dose of clomid treating you?

 

[HWPG]

heather, sorry about the temp and pink - i'm hoping (we all are!) that it is not what you fear....
afm, doing ok! i woke up very happy this morning, and i'm going to trick my mind that "clomid makes me happy!" - and repeat that for 5 days. c'mon clomid twins! and i have acup today at 2p and i'm visitng my 8 day old niece after work, so it's going to be a good day!

 

[Brayr08]

Have fun tonight Laura!

Heather, I hope AF stays away...stupid AF...

I'm glad the clomid hasn't made you crazy yet Mirolee. I think mine started bothering me the second or third day. I was just hot all the time and DH seemed to push my buttons a bit more.

AFM, well, I apparently like stressing myself out. Well, first, my cyst is gone. YEY!!! Secondly, I maybe decided to do another IUI with a different mix of meds than what I have done before. I know it's probably stupid and a waste of time/money for me to do this, but I just want to be a mom so bad! We can afford this (well, better than we could afford IVF/ICSI) and I just hate not doing anything. So, here we go again.

 

[tlk71411]

Tlk, i will be working with people who have mental health issues in an open rehab hospital. So will be taking them for exercise, doing activities with them and escorting them into the community, that type of thing.

7dpo, nothing, nada, zilch. temp is 98.20 but had two glasses of wine with pub meal last night so thats prob why. If i were to get a bfp this cycle it would be beyond a miracle!

That sounds like an awesome job! I honestly believe it takes a special kind of perosn to do work like that, not just anyone could you know. I couldnt, I dont have the patience or tact...I'm kind of a blunt person

temp went down but i did get up 20 mins early but that shouldn't have affected much. Saw some pink lastnight so expecting af today or tomorrow (like planned). We will try next month, but not as hard, only bd like cd11, 13 and 15. I will use pressed only and cut out chocolate and caffeine from my diet and take my vitamins and try to eat healthier and be elevated after bding for at least an hour each time. If this next cycle does not work, I am going to talk to hubby about possibly talking with my ob/gyn and see if maybe there is a reason we haven't conceived yet. Hoping we don't have to do that, but thinking hubby wouldn't want to anyways. Please pray and hope for me. I have my appt with the general surgeon today about my incisional hernia.

Not out till the witch shows hon! I'm proud of you for trying to be healthier, more people on this planet need to! I know several women who literally dropped 5 lbs just by cutting out caffeine and WAM! prego. lol Prayers that your dr's appointment goes well and also for you and hubby. I hope you dont have to go to OBGYN but I do know how hard it is to drag your man there. It's like getting a toddler to sit through church. literally impossible. I'm praying for you hon!

afm, doing ok! i woke up very happy this morning, and i'm going to trick my mind that "clomid makes me happy!" - and repeat that for 5 days. c'mon clomid twins! and i have acup today at 2p and i'm visitng my 8 day old niece after work, so it's going to be a good day!

Enjoy your visit hon! I love your positive attitude Really in the end when you see that beautiful you really will be able to say "Clomid makes me happy" lol

AFM, well, I apparently like stressing myself out. Well, first, my cyst is gone. YEY!!! Secondly, I maybe decided to do another IUI with a different mix of meds than what I have done before. I know it's probably stupid and a waste of time/money for me to do this, but I just want to be a mom so bad! We can afford this (well, better than we could afford IVF/ICSI) and I just hate not doing anything. So, here we go again.

It's not stupid or a waste hon. You're doing everything you can, and you will be able to say you have explored every option. That is not stupid at all, it's smart. How do you know it wont work if you dont try? FX it works for you

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

rach-maybe you changed yourmind because you are meant to try this and it is going to work? everything happens for a reason...but tlk said it well, you have to explore all your options and you can always look back one day and say you tried everything. Best of luck to you this time, more than ever! FX!!

tlk-thanks, it means alot...you will get your bfp again someday, you deserve it. Prayers for you too.

afm-well, i had that one lttle episode after i wiped and seen a tint of pink in my mucus and assumed the worst. Later lastnight I checked my cervix and found a tiny bit of brown/pink and figured it was going to coming. I know I am not due until tomorrow....but today i am having backache and cramps, but i checked my cervix and found white mucus? (we dtd lastnight and i don't know if it was mucus or his sperm. All I know is I found no pink, no brown...i feel like af is coming with the cramping and backaches, bt what if that tint of pink was ib? i'm probly just getting my hopes up again and will be let down in the morning when my temp plummets more. Let's hope it goes up and not down...that will give me hope. I will update as things happen.

 

[laustiredttc]

eugh, i feel so ill right now. wayyyyyyy too many cocktails last night. Think that's me done for half the year now.

Mirolee, i like the mind trick, i hope that it gets you your much wanted bfp

Rach, i dont think your wasting any time or money. Like the girls said at least you know you have made the effort and done all you can. Also this could be the one huni so fx crossed and lots of

Heather, praying your temp stays up today and the witch stays well away

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

temp did go slightly up....weird....but wiped and red with a tiny clot...she is coming.

 

[Brayr08]

Laura, I'm that way too. I may drink like that maybe twice a year and that's enough for me. I hate being hungover b/c I'm hungover all night, I can't even passout b/c I'm shaking the whole time, and then I'm hungover the entire next day.

Sorry Heather, I hope you're wrong and she stays away. Mine won't get here full flow. I thought she'd be here yesterday, but all I'm doing is like a heavy spotting and I can't start my meds until she really gets here. The one time I want her to show up she's taking her frick'n time.

 

[laustiredttc]

hangover really kicking in, i know self inflicted Ok now that i have gotten some of the petulant immaturity out of me again i'm going to grow up a bit and try to be more positive! Thankyou all for putting up with me the past few days.

Heather i'm really sorry huni our bodies play some awful tricks on us sometimes

Rach, i never thought i would say it but i hope the witch hurries up so you can start your iui.

Mirolee how is the clomid working for you hun? Is the mind control thing working?

TLK, how did the haircut go, do you like it? Forgive me if you have already posted on it.