MrsMouse
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Hi Ladies
Its been a while since i've been on here - not since i had my son in June 2010.
Well hubby and I had decided not to ttc for another baby - purely for financial reasons and childcare reasons! I am not on the pill again as I'm am still breastfeeding Jamie but we have been using condoms.
what can I say - for the first time ever - hubby and i had a real passionate moment last week and had a bit of nookie without a condom, which we both then stopped half way through and decided to use one! I then got ovulation pains 2 days later! (I have always had very clear ovulation pains) now I am feeling very strange. boobs are sensitive again (and I know its not because Jamie has chomped me either!) tummy feels strange and i nearly fainted yesterday (only ever felt like this when i was expecting jamie).
so its pretty obvious what i'm thinking....when i was expecting jamie i just knew. I'm not sure if i'm being paranoid this time!
however, its obviously too early to test - even when i fell pg with my son i had very very low hcg levels even until I was 10 weeks pregnant so probably wouldn't have got a bfp until after then. (When I was 12 weeks I was in maternity trousers so I showed before I would have got a poas bfp)
also hubby would do his nut if i got a bfp although I would be so happy, I was an only child and always said I wanted 2. Hubby was middle child of 3!
I've spoken to my mum and all she said is - it was 1 time, not the "whole" of the deed and you're not likely to be that "unlucky"](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/eusa_wall.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
but we all know its possible!
hubby i am certain would say not to go ahead and that is my worst fear - his parents had the same argument over their third child and its always been a bone of contention between them really they should have divorced years ago. I dont want to end up like that but likewise I dont want to be a single mum of 2!
I know its not easy being a parent but its the best thing I've ever "become" in my life, our little man is so happy and working where I do (am a midwife) I feel soooo broody!
Jeepers - I know there isnt anything anyone can do I just have to wait at least 3 weeks for a missed period and I'll have my answer - but just needed to talk to ladies who would understand the feelings right now!
Anyone got any ideas on how to tackle hubby if I need to?
Good luck and babydust to all of you seriously ttc'ing.
Mrsmouse
xx
Its been a while since i've been on here - not since i had my son in June 2010.
Well hubby and I had decided not to ttc for another baby - purely for financial reasons and childcare reasons! I am not on the pill again as I'm am still breastfeeding Jamie but we have been using condoms.
what can I say - for the first time ever - hubby and i had a real passionate moment last week and had a bit of nookie without a condom, which we both then stopped half way through and decided to use one! I then got ovulation pains 2 days later! (I have always had very clear ovulation pains) now I am feeling very strange. boobs are sensitive again (and I know its not because Jamie has chomped me either!) tummy feels strange and i nearly fainted yesterday (only ever felt like this when i was expecting jamie).
so its pretty obvious what i'm thinking....when i was expecting jamie i just knew. I'm not sure if i'm being paranoid this time!
however, its obviously too early to test - even when i fell pg with my son i had very very low hcg levels even until I was 10 weeks pregnant so probably wouldn't have got a bfp until after then. (When I was 12 weeks I was in maternity trousers so I showed before I would have got a poas bfp)
also hubby would do his nut if i got a bfp although I would be so happy, I was an only child and always said I wanted 2. Hubby was middle child of 3!
I've spoken to my mum and all she said is - it was 1 time, not the "whole" of the deed and you're not likely to be that "unlucky"
but we all know its possible!hubby i am certain would say not to go ahead and that is my worst fear - his parents had the same argument over their third child and its always been a bone of contention between them really they should have divorced years ago. I dont want to end up like that but likewise I dont want to be a single mum of 2!
I know its not easy being a parent but its the best thing I've ever "become" in my life, our little man is so happy and working where I do (am a midwife) I feel soooo broody!
Jeepers - I know there isnt anything anyone can do I just have to wait at least 3 weeks for a missed period and I'll have my answer - but just needed to talk to ladies who would understand the feelings right now!
Anyone got any ideas on how to tackle hubby if I need to?
Good luck and babydust to all of you seriously ttc'ing.
Mrsmouse
xx
