Needing positive vibes.....

[babylaw720]

So tomorrow is DH and I's 1st wedding anniversary. Obviously super excited about it, but also a little sad because I was hoping to be holding my little bundle of joy at this point and no such luck.... So now we have been TTC for a year.... and its been a year of tons of BFN, irregular cycles, missed AF, PCOS diagnosis, Metformin etc. I think it's just hitting me now because we've hit a milestone, and still no baby, or signs of one soon. So I am on CD 20 and I haven't had a temp surge yet or a positive OPK. We started BD every day starting on cd10, but I'm wondering where on earth my O is.... My cycles can be long somtimes, last month was 45 days, but I'm just at the point where I just want a positive any kind of test.... positive OPK, HPT, whatever..... Just feeling a little discouraged.

 

[baby_rose]

Happy early anniversary to u and ur hubby girl, have u ever had a positive opk? How r u reacting to mf?

 

[babylaw720]

Happy early anniversary to u and ur hubby girl, have u ever had a positive opk? How r u reacting to mf?

Thanks! We had a great anniversary. This is my first time using the OPK faithfully. I wasn't doing it quite right before, not testing every day, not really tracking much. Then I took a few breaks, and now I am testing 2x/day. This month, every time I tested I had a line, some darker than others, but none quite as dark as the control line. Although, on my chart, I got crosshairs suggesting that I O'd on the 15th.... so maybe I missed the surge, or i read the test wrong, who knows.... As far as the metformin goes, I was on 1000mg per day, and I had awful diarrhea for 6 weeks. At that point my doctor told me to cut down to 500mg per day, so I did. Still trying to figure out when I'm going to start taking my full dose again...

 

[baby_rose]

How does ur temp chart look are ur temps rising?

 

[babylaw720]

How does ur temp chart look are ur temps rising?

I don't know..... I think so, if I could figure out how to put the chart in my signature I would show you lol

 

[baby_rose]

U have to find your link(url httpsxxxx) and paste it on ur signature but u cant do it on mobile I think u need the desktop version u can switch it on ur phone

 

[babylaw720]

Okay..... I got it..... let me know what you think

 

[baby_rose]

Are u temping at the same time? Its not the big rise as other ppl, (i my self have never got one) but in a way they are above the cover line how does this look compared to ur old charts

 

[babylaw720]

Most days I am temping at the same time. Sometimes it's an hour or so earlier (when I wake up before my alarm). This is my first month temping so it's hard to say how it compares.

 

[baby_rose]

Got it i learned the hardway I would advise to set an alarm i know it cuts into our sleeping time but bettrr same exact time than to b guessing try remaining completely still when u temp keep the thermometer as close to u as possible mine is placed in a sock pinned to the wall right next to my pillow lol

 

[babylaw720]

I have my alarm set, but typically on the days my husband works mornings, I end up waking up before my alarm, meaning I have to temp earlier. I have it on my nightstand, so when I wake up, I just reach my arm over and grab it. Maybe I should set my alarm earlier so there is no way I'll wake up before the alarm.

 

[baby_rose]

Lol yea after 6 am i start waking up what ever works best my alarm is at 5