Mrs B.
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Sorry you had a bad experience ME. Not excusing her behaviour, because it was out of order, but I do know the punch to the gut feeling I get every time I see a pregnancy announcement, even just a picture. I also know it's not their fault that their positive news makes me feel miserable, nor would I ever take it out on them. Sometimes I'm in a better place and I'm able to offer congrats. Other times I just hide their posts so I don't have to see them on my feed until I'm in a better place to acknowledge them. I've always done my best to avoid anything that might involve pregnancy announcements, and it is hard to be suddenly faced with something you've been making an effort to avoid. I'm not at all suggesting anyone shouldn't go ahead with any announcements, and no one should have to deal with rude behaviour, but I just wanted to explain from an infertility POV how a simple announcement can sometimes cause another person to react badly. It's hard to deal with, and very hard to avoid completely. The best advice I can give is don't take it personally, and know you did nothing wrong.