CeliaM
Pregnant mom of 2
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So we had a situation here today.
My son who's 5 often plays with the boy next door who's 7. He's a bit unruly, and tries to get my kids to be sneaky and get away with stuff, but generally not a bad kid. He has no siblings, so he's here a lot to play.
Anyways, today he, my daughter who just turned 3, and my son were playing in his room. Usually there is quite a bit of squabbling, as they will often play games trying to exclude my daughter. The lack of noise made me wonder what was going on in there, so I went in, and my daughter was dressed a bit off, with her skirt tucked into her tights. I could smell that her underwear had been off (she's had a yeast infection and doesn't smell so sweet down there!) Shocked, I asked what was going on. The neighbour boy grinned and hid his face, so I asked my daugher. "Looking at bums", she said. I tried to get more out of her but she wouldn't say other than he was seeing if she was going to have a baby.
So I took my son aside and asked him. He told me that the neighbour boy was looking at Elsha's pee-pee and giving her "shots" there and her bum with their toy needle from their play doctor set. Shocked, I took all 3 kids outside and called my husband and the neighbour's father over to help me deal with the situation. My son explained again, saying that they were looking for babies, as the neighbour boy grinned. His dad asked him if he was smiling because he'd told my son not to tell, which I believe was correct. He knew he was doing wrong and tried to get my kids to keep it secret. Seeing as my kids think babies come out of belly buttons, I know that this was his doing.
What would your thoughts be about this? We of course had talks with all 3 about what parts cannot be shown to people other than parents and real doctors, and my kids seem unscathed by the episode. I'm quite sure the neighbours dad will give him a good talking to tonight about it as well. Do you think this is just normal behaviour from a 7yr old who's never been around sibling nudity and is just curious?
My son who's 5 often plays with the boy next door who's 7. He's a bit unruly, and tries to get my kids to be sneaky and get away with stuff, but generally not a bad kid. He has no siblings, so he's here a lot to play.
Anyways, today he, my daughter who just turned 3, and my son were playing in his room. Usually there is quite a bit of squabbling, as they will often play games trying to exclude my daughter. The lack of noise made me wonder what was going on in there, so I went in, and my daughter was dressed a bit off, with her skirt tucked into her tights. I could smell that her underwear had been off (she's had a yeast infection and doesn't smell so sweet down there!) Shocked, I asked what was going on. The neighbour boy grinned and hid his face, so I asked my daugher. "Looking at bums", she said. I tried to get more out of her but she wouldn't say other than he was seeing if she was going to have a baby.
So I took my son aside and asked him. He told me that the neighbour boy was looking at Elsha's pee-pee and giving her "shots" there and her bum with their toy needle from their play doctor set. Shocked, I took all 3 kids outside and called my husband and the neighbour's father over to help me deal with the situation. My son explained again, saying that they were looking for babies, as the neighbour boy grinned. His dad asked him if he was smiling because he'd told my son not to tell, which I believe was correct. He knew he was doing wrong and tried to get my kids to keep it secret. Seeing as my kids think babies come out of belly buttons, I know that this was his doing.
What would your thoughts be about this? We of course had talks with all 3 about what parts cannot be shown to people other than parents and real doctors, and my kids seem unscathed by the episode. I'm quite sure the neighbours dad will give him a good talking to tonight about it as well. Do you think this is just normal behaviour from a 7yr old who's never been around sibling nudity and is just curious?