New Mom. :) / :(
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AnnabelsMummy
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Congratulations and welcome to bnb 
and yep, i did freak out - didn't expect it, and wasn't ready, had no idea if i could do it, had no idea how everyone would react...
took me a while to even believe it!! didn't help my hormones were everywhere..
but now - the only way i could be happier, is if she'd hurry up and comee, i can't wait to meet her noww!! i feel so ready and prepared.. just sometimes takes a while to get used to the idea..
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and yep, i did freak out - didn't expect it, and wasn't ready, had no idea if i could do it, had no idea how everyone would react...
took me a while to even believe it!! didn't help my hormones were everywhere..
but now - the only way i could be happier, is if she'd hurry up and comee, i can't wait to meet her noww!! i feel so ready and prepared.. just sometimes takes a while to get used to the idea..
xxxxxx
AnnabelsMummy
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just so you know, we're not allowed to talk about abortion on here.. it's against the forum rules.. as some people find it offensive - but you probably didn't know..
it's completely normal to feel like that - although in my first trimester, i didn't have many symptoms but i was DEFFINATLY hormonal - i just cried over every tiny thing, and i was shocked too which didn't help.. i freaked out.. it's completely normal to feel like that..
it sounds like you've made your decision, you've come to the right place - the ladies on here are soo amazing and supportive!! The hormones go and come backk..
i got a few questions, have you told anyone yet? would the father of the baby (FOB) still be around/does he know? how far along are you?
xxxxxx
it's completely normal to feel like that - although in my first trimester, i didn't have many symptoms but i was DEFFINATLY hormonal - i just cried over every tiny thing, and i was shocked too which didn't help.. i freaked out.. it's completely normal to feel like that..
it sounds like you've made your decision, you've come to the right place - the ladies on here are soo amazing and supportive!! The hormones go and come backk..
i got a few questions, have you told anyone yet? would the father of the baby (FOB) still be around/does he know? how far along are you?
xxxxxx
AnnabelsMummy
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i guessed you probably didn't - just thought i'd mention it before you get loads of people popping in and sayingg..
i don't think anyone would be offended as you've already decided to keep it..
oh right, it could be a bit of both, i mean it's completely normal to be scared, and i don't think there's many girls on here (who had unplanned pregnancies) who would say when they first found out they weren't scared..
it gets easier the further along you are though.. and it's good that FOB is still around - at least you've got his support.. and if you're two months, have you got a scan booked? or been to see your doctor?
xxxx
i don't think anyone would be offended as you've already decided to keep it..
oh right, it could be a bit of both, i mean it's completely normal to be scared, and i don't think there's many girls on here (who had unplanned pregnancies) who would say when they first found out they weren't scared..
it gets easier the further along you are though.. and it's good that FOB is still around - at least you've got his support.. and if you're two months, have you got a scan booked? or been to see your doctor?
xxxx
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Sarah10
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Welcome to BnB 
I know its scary at first but don't worry, i'm sure things will piece together soon xxx
I know its scary at first but don't worry, i'm sure things will piece together soon xxx
rainbows_x
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Hey, welcome to BnB & congratulations
This forum is great for advice on any worries or problems you may have
I hope you start feeling okay soon.
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This forum is great for advice on any worries or problems you may have
I hope you start feeling okay soon.
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Xrachybabex
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hi welcome its great here the girls are lovely xx
the girls are lovely xx
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Congratulations hun It's completely normal to feel like that.. then you'll get more used to the idea and start getting excited... then you'll realise how close due day is getting and completely freak out all over again 
but all you have to remember is that you're bringing a brand new little life into the world who is going to love you and depend on you for years to come and you're gonna love him/her more than you could have ever thought possible 
keep that thought in your head and no matter what happens in the next 9 months it will always keep you going.
And us. We'll keep you going too cos this forum is AWESOME
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It's completely normal to feel like that.. then you'll get more used to the idea and start getting excited... then you'll realise how close due day is getting and completely freak out all over again but all you have to remember is that you're bringing a brand new little life into the world who is going to love you and depend on you for years to come and you're gonna love him/her more than you could have ever thought possible keep that thought in your head and no matter what happens in the next 9 months it will always keep you going.And us. We'll keep you going too cos this forum is AWESOME
xxx
RachelRae
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Hey welcome, I'm Rachel!
I had a pretty bad freakout when I first find out, I didn't know what to do, but once I told FOB and my mom they helped me so much and made me feel a lot better. & I've came so far, I can't wait till our little boy's here.
Everything will get better soon!
I had a pretty bad freakout when I first find out, I didn't know what to do, but once I told FOB and my mom they helped me so much and made me feel a lot better. & I've came so far, I can't wait till our little boy's here.
Everything will get better soon!
debsxhim
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Yes. Its normal!
I only was scared for a couple of hours. Once you tell your parents and since your OH knows, you'll feel a lot more relieved. Its good to have support in some way or another, and it really helps to not hold the secret. That's what did me in. I was bawling all the time until I told my mom. I'm sure you'll be a fantastic mom! Try and get a doctors appointment ASAP, prenatal care is very important!
I only was scared for a couple of hours. Once you tell your parents and since your OH knows, you'll feel a lot more relieved. Its good to have support in some way or another, and it really helps to not hold the secret. That's what did me in. I was bawling all the time until I told my mom. I'm sure you'll be a fantastic mom! Try and get a doctors appointment ASAP, prenatal care is very important!
newmommy23
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Honestly I still freak out sometimes! Lol but the thought of a wee baby is kinda scary. they depend on you so much and you want to be perfect. But don't worry! Have you been to the doctor?
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Hi Welcome.
I didnt freak out with my first as he was planned.My second a little but happy.x
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Oh yeah! I had a massive freak out. I wasn't expecting it at all. I only took the test because I was having food swings and sometimes really strong smelling food made me feel sick. Plus I hadn't had a period for a while which wasn't abnormal for me. So when I saw that it was positive I cried non stop for about 3 days. My Mum was waiting outside and so I told her and she cried too. I told FOB and he went into shock for a week. My parents were talking about the A word but I could never do that. About a week later FOB and I talked again and decided what to do. At that point it became real and scary. There were soo many times I thought that hey I am doing the wrong thing or maybe adoption is the way to go. But I knew I couldn't do that. I also have times when I see my friends all doing things like on my 18th birthday when they all drank. Made me feel really down and can't like I was missing out. This is no where near how I planned this yet I have now kinda got over that or most of the time and I am really excited for Daisy to come along. I can't now imagine my future without her and I am looking forward to being a Mummy but to start with I had a major freak out! The first scan changed mine and FOB thoughts all together. Seeing her little body and head and hearing her heart we just fell in love
